What now .. ?, Hold on or let go issue. Options

[DaCandy]

So .. Here's the deal.
Ive been with my bf for 5 months now, he's the total opposite of me. I told him in the very first days we dated that I was not really sure if I was ready to start a new relationship because my last two ended up really bad. But he was always very nice and caring and he always told me not to worry. I never totally believed him, simply cuz I don't trust men.
For several times I broke up with him - Once because his x came around his house with her kid and they all went to mcdonalds. And he told me that he was gonna stay at home cuz he wasnt feelin that well. I passed by his house, pure coincidence, and I saw them all headin to mcdonalds all happy n sh*t .. I was like " Hell no."
Broke up.
We eventually got back together and he said that he did it for the kid [ which isnt his ] and he was gon tell me [ all em bullshits ]
Second time - He was actin up - All confident, taking me for granted - Not answering my text messages, barely talked to me and whenever he did, didnt sound the same. Blamed it on the work - Cuz he worked way too much and was really tired, this and that.
I said " Brotha - You worked before you met me, when you met, and all this while... And you never act this way . So it has to be something else. "
Broke up, came back again. He changed, treated me real good and all the stuff we ladies like.
Now he's coming back to what made me break up the second time. And right now Im like - Is this just a phase? Or ...
You know . I swear I feel like breaking up, but at the same time I wonder if there's anything that's actually affecting him, that right now he can't give me all the attention and love that he use to. I tried talking to him, but all he says is that he can't talk about it right now. Which makes me wanna go back to the first option - BreakUp.
Cuz I know something is up.

What you guys think ?

And oh - if there's any typo, sorry, dont mind . [ im not english ]

[hypnotique]

Honey, rule of thumb is if you have to break up with a person more then 2 times (if you are into second chances) then you really should see that its not meant to be because more the 89 percent of the time people do not change themselves for the better nor will they change for you.

[DaCandy]

Yeah, I know right.
It sucks tho ! :P
Alors .. Merci !

[karmakiller]

It's only been 5 months and you guys are already having problems and have broken up twice, I don't think it'll get any better. You broke up with him because he said he was going to stay home but then his plans changed... do you have some trust issues? I know you said that your last two relationships ended badly, but you really shouldn't try to stay with someone just because you're afraid to end it. It's going to be a never ending cycle of you threatening to leave him and he'll start to act like he's changed but he'll go back to not treating you the way you want to be treated.