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 Jul 12 2004, 12:31 AM
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please this is very imporant...
how can you tell if a guy/or your bf really cares about you? and not just having you as a make out partner.. |
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Jul 12 2004, 12:38 AM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
search. many topics are on this...
 well, basicaly, if all you guys do is mak...then there yo go. ur being used. also, if hes sinceree, then i guess ur okay.
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Jul 12 2004, 01:01 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
well he shows he does... like he always wants to be with you... and he wont even look at another girl!!!! ha!!! but its all up on you!!! if yo know in your heart that he does... then yehh should be true!!
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Aug 10 2004, 11:51 PM
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 » [[ K4R3N ]] « Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,111 |
haha i guess when you guys AREN`T making out see how he treats you ... does he often eye other girls or start flirting with them ? just look for signs i guess ... that`s all i can say =]*
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Aug 10 2004, 11:53 PM
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 who again? Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,458 |
emotions, poetry, acts differently around you then his friends, ask him straight up
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Aug 11 2004, 12:56 AM
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hah. i used to be someone's "make out" buddy. you can easily tell it by the way they check out other girls and how they never talk about you or never tend to you like a bf/ guy who likes you would. it's not that hard to find out but i guess it takes time to observe.
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Aug 11 2004, 02:17 PM
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QUOTE(xjjajeengx @ Jul 12 2004, 12:38 AM) search. many topics are on this... yeah there is, check'em out and see if you're being used or he really does care about you, Good Luck! |
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Aug 11 2004, 02:57 PM
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 Your love is a razorblade kiss ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,794 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,959 |
the easiest way: ask him
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Aug 11 2004, 03:03 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
yeah ask him! i support her! ^^tootise_kiddo
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Aug 11 2004, 03:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 113 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,544 |
mayb u shouldn't make out w/ him for a while, n if he gets realli pissed then mayb he duz think of u that way...but mayb u should ask like everyone else said....
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Aug 11 2004, 07:46 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i really dont knoe... i think wut sunshine_sweeti_ said mite work
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Aug 11 2004, 09:17 PM
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personally i've never been in dis situation but if i felt like a guy was using me i would think of a situation where it would be ya know like a good time to make out like watchin a movie at cha krib wit da lights turned down and as he's about to make his move push him away tell him ya dont want to make out or do anything but watch the movie see how his reaction is but maybe the first time wouldn't be enough i would try it 3 times but it's jus me ya can also ask him even though you know he's goin to deny it so try what i suggested if ya need anything more than come to mai xanga username is deviousxviet
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Aug 11 2004, 09:30 PM
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if you have to ask you are either really insecure or he probably doesn't. One other thing could be that he's to shy to tell you. talk to him about it, ask, tell him how much you care.
Oh and yeah I like the try and not do sexualy stuff for a while and see if you and he are kool like that...unless that is what you guys' relationship is about.... in which case none of this matters... ^^; jp good luck |
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Aug 13 2004, 06:49 PM
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Does he make you happy?
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Aug 13 2004, 06:53 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
gives u attention,tries to be around u, and flirts flirts flirt. and if he seems like he really cares about u.
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Aug 13 2004, 07:03 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
he would say really sweet things. well tht would be one. theres more but I cant think of NE. If u guys have fights but able to get over it and still be together is probably a good sign of a true bf.
This is one thing tht my bf did tht made me think it wasnt only lust. He was bout to break up w/ BF:something geniune (however u spell it) in u. something so deep in u, i just cant do it. ur one of a kind yah..sweet. we still together too XD but yah, he should say something real deep |
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Aug 13 2004, 07:07 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yep.
Just ask him. Bring it up gently, though. ^_^ |
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Aug 13 2004, 08:22 PM
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He'd call, try to hang out with you whenever he can. Be sweet. That kind of stuff.
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