2 guys? 2 confusions!, help! |
 Jul 10 2004, 03:51 PM
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 Tina + Tommy  Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575  |
theres these 2 guys [their my friends] and their really close to each other. their actually cousins [related in some way] one of them is my ex but i still like him. he goes with someone right now but he told me hes going to break up with her cuz they dont communicate anymore. and he told me he still like me and stuff. and the other guy. i talk to him on the phone for a few hours [i get in trouble for that but o well
 ] he told me he likes me and stuff. so now both of them like me. i kno that i like my ex more but im not sure if i wanna take a chance again. plus the other guy mite be realli pissed after he finds out all this and stuff. i mean he would do anything when hes realli pissed and i mean anything. and both of them admit that they are players. my ex said he tried to stop but it came back eventually and the other guy also admit hes a player but he also said he kut down on that since he didnt go with anyone for like more than 8 months now. so now i dont kno what to do.  i dont want to hurt both of them but i have to do something fast. i onli got a week to make a decision. arrgghh im just so confused 
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Jul 10 2004, 04:36 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i wont go bak wit an ex unless i see that the second chance will work and he'll have to do something in order to motivate me and persuade me taht it will work, who wants to get hurt by the same guy again!? and the other guy.. i wont go for players lol but ill go for the other guy.. but again its not like ur in desperate need of a bf, so thers also a third option which is choose none of the above
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Jul 10 2004, 08:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
why do you only have a week to decide? =/
anyways, yea i agree with what the person said above. i wouldn't date an ex, unless he showed me how he was better and why i should get back with him. i mean, how do i know he won't break my heart again? as for the other guy. i don't know. him calling and acknowledging himself as a player really troubles me. well, at least he's making an effort to stop (right?)... so maybe he won't be such a bad choice. then again... if you go out with the other guy, you might keep thinking about your ex (since you like him more), which would be unfair to the other guy... sorry, i really don't know what to do in this type of situation. did you try making a Pros and Cons list for each of them? lol... hope everything works out for the better!~ 
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Jul 10 2004, 09:00 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
change is good right? you ex kinda seems unfaithful.. no offense.. go out with his cuz.
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Jul 10 2004, 09:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,032 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,398 |
dink if ur ex deserve a second chance? if he does...well u should go wid him cus u do like him more...if u are worry bout da other guy...ask him bout his opinion first i guess...
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Jul 10 2004, 11:30 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
QUOTE(Darkpekkle @ Jul 10 2004, 8:26 PM) why do you only have a week to decide? =/ anyways, yea i agree with what the person said above. i wouldn't date an ex, unless he showed me how he was better and why i should get back with him. i mean, how do i know he won't break my heart again? as for the other guy. i don't know. him calling and acknowledging himself as a player really troubles me. well, at least he's making an effort to stop (right?)... so maybe he won't be such a bad choice. then again... if you go out with the other guy, you might keep thinking about your ex (since you like him more), which would be unfair to the other guy... sorry, i really don't know what to do in this type of situation. did you try making a Pros and Cons list for each of them? lol... hope everything works out for the better!~ ^^ some good advice right there. i totally agree. i would say...FORGET THE EX! how did he end up your ex in the first place?? and did he dump you for another girl?? the girl he doesn`t talk to anymore? that`s kinda sad of an excuse to break up. you already know your boyfriend enough. just try out the new guy and if he doesn`t satisfy you..then get back with your ex. 
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Jul 10 2004, 11:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,406 |
wut caused you and your ex to break up in the first place? i think you should go for the other guy.. have a new start..
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Jul 11 2004, 02:34 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
give the new guy a chance cuz everyone deserves one. if ur ex can show that hes changed and is willing to make an effort than u can go back with him cuz u like him more
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Jul 11 2004, 05:20 AM
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 Sharie. Group: Member Posts: 2,429 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 103 |
Why do you only have a week?!
It really depends...but if the same situation was on me, I would go with neither because they're both players. Who knows if they're serious? Maybe time will tell you the answer...because you might regret it later on. I don't understand about the "one week" thing though... |
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Jul 11 2004, 01:56 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Why do you only have one week??!
Anyways, I would go with the one you trust more. The one you can have deep conversations with. Who looks better?? (Shallow... I know) Which one do you over-all like better?? |
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Jul 11 2004, 10:06 PM
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Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
about the one week thing... someone dared me to go out with someone before the 17th. so yea.. im still kinda confused tho.
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Jul 11 2004, 11:32 PM
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 it onli hurts wen i breathe Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,197 |
i agree with the not going back with ur ex thing, cuz thats never a g0od idea ;\ .. even though you like him better .. it might be a better idea to consider the other guy!.
jus what i think lol |
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Jul 11 2004, 11:54 PM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
wow this is interesting..personally i wouldn't go with any of them. cause either way your gonna hurt the other one so just end it right now.
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Jul 12 2004, 02:14 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
QUOTE(babygurl_xtacy @ Jul 10 2004, 11:41 PM) wut caused you and your ex to break up in the first place? i think you should go for the other guy.. have a new start.. yeahh.. or just do wutever u dink is right. |
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