why did he laugh at my joke if were not talking? |
 May 25 2009, 07:04 PM
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for those who already know my situation,this is just an update from what happened last time.i like my guy friend i decided that i was gonna tell him how i feel, so i told him that i needed to talk to him but he didn't want to go somewhere quiet to talk so i didn't end up telling him but ever since that day, he stopped talking to me, so my friend asked him "why is it that you don't talk to ******* anymore?" she said that he was hesitant, he didn't really give her a reason so when she told me this, i asked her "how did he seem while you were talking to him?" and she said: "if he was any lighter, he would blush" then today i was telling this girl a joke and he was sitting right there then he just burst out laughing...why did he laugh if he were not talking? another thing, should i tell him how i feel still? there's 2 weeks left of school
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May 25 2009, 07:19 PM
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Basically, if he does say no, he doesn't want to dissapoint you.
Same situation, My sister found out the reason. he acted the same way Take your time, really think what is worth more The strong friendship that lasts Or a relationship (not that im trying to say that's a bad idea) think of of pros and cons |
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May 28 2009, 11:50 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
uhm he probably thought the joke was funny.. i mean although he's not talking to you. he can still eavesdrop on yer convos. :/
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Jun 6 2009, 05:24 AM
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I would say... you should also stop caring... let it be..
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Jun 6 2009, 11:22 AM
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 Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(twisterdp @ Jun 6 2009, 05:24 AM)  I would say... you should also stop caring... let it be.. x2 |
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Jun 6 2009, 11:49 AM
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He's allowed to find your joke amusing even if he's not talking to you. I don't think you should tell him how you feel since it seems like it won't go anywhere good. He doesn't deserve you if he's going to ignore you.
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Jun 6 2009, 12:35 PM
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Ley <3 Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 664,894 |
QUOTE(interpretation @ Jun 6 2009, 11:49 AM) He's allowed to find your joke amusing even if he's not talking to you. I don't think you should tell him how you feel since it seems like it won't go anywhere good. He doesn't deserve you if he's going to ignore you. Why does he have to be the bad guy? I mean shes the one whos all i want u i need u oh baby oh baby. Thats awkward, seems to me that he tried to avoid the whole situation. |
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Jun 6 2009, 12:43 PM
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QUOTE(ley @ Jun 6 2009, 01:35 PM) Why does he have to be the bad guy? I mean shes the one whos all i want u i need u oh baby oh baby. Thats awkward, seems to me that he tried to avoid the whole situation. I agree. It seems like he knows that you like him, doesn't like you back, and just doesn't want an awkward confrontation. I get that it hurts to be ignored, but you can't win all of them and it doesn't make him the bad guy. |
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Jun 6 2009, 03:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
QUOTE(ley @ Jun 6 2009, 01:35 PM) Why does he have to be the bad guy? I mean shes the one whos all i want u i need u oh baby oh baby. Thats awkward, seems to me that he tried to avoid the whole situation. I'm not making him out to be the bad guy, but ignoring someone so they'll stop liking you is pretty much a jerk move. He should be more firm and direct in telling her he doesn't feel the same way about her. |
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