Does this constitute as a rejection?, and if so, what should i do? |
 May 16 2009, 02:10 PM
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Okay so I met this girl while I was with another chick and started talking. Long story short, I chilled with her one night and we ummm "bom chicka bow wow" lolz. but it was a while ago and we haven't hanged out since. Now she gave me a reply message when I hinted in my message that I just wanted to hang out at home, cook dinner, and watch a movie with her.
It goes: ehh.. im the type to only spend time like that with a guy that im actually going out with.. i know that night at your house we did a lotta stuff and all but i think we jumped into that too fast. i never thought i'd do anything like that outta nowhere. you know i got standards right. so im just saying i like being friends right now. i'm not gonna be doing anything with anyone for a while.. sorry. she still wanna be friends but... like is that a rejection? and wth does that "standards" part mean? |
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May 16 2009, 02:15 PM
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yes, it's a rejection.
she seems to regret what you two did, as she implied that she had higher standards for herself than that. |
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May 16 2009, 02:17 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
so what am i suppose to do? ummm. like does that mean she don't wanna kick it anymore and ummm do it again?
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May 16 2009, 02:28 PM
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no, she probably doesn't. duhhh.
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May 16 2009, 02:30 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
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May 16 2009, 02:31 PM
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QUOTE(MrStrife @ May 16 2009, 03:30 PM)  no, no...don't cry you'll find another booty-call in no time :/ |
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May 17 2009, 10:07 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
I just don't get it. I mean even she told me, it was good, very good. I just hate the thought of just leaving it like this.
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May 18 2009, 06:12 AM
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this should cheer you up
 if not, den dis  ok fine, givin u a chance 
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May 18 2009, 12:25 PM
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Ha ha.. you have a small penis.
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May 18 2009, 01:56 PM
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 Sarcastic Mr. Know-It-All Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 29 |
it means she gave you AIDS
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May 18 2009, 02:00 PM
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 /人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
Hardcore rejection. I'll be laughing at this for weeks.
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May 19 2009, 07:51 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
Despite this, I still think we're going to do it one more time next time we hang out. So HA lolz
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May 19 2009, 08:51 PM
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Hope you get her pregnant.
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May 19 2009, 08:53 PM
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/人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
QUOTE(illriginal @ May 19 2009, 08:51 PM) Hope you give her AIDS. |
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May 19 2009, 09:07 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
LMAO awww so sweet guys.
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May 19 2009, 09:12 PM
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Just put it in her butt. Just the tip though. I promise she wont care.
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May 19 2009, 09:32 PM
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QUOTE(MrStrife @ May 20 2009, 10:51 AM) Despite this, I still think we're going to do it one more time next time we hang out. So HA lolz Rape? people frown upon that ya'noe? |
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May 19 2009, 09:41 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
^No. I never made her do anything she didn't want to do. Shoot I just wanted to sleep that night. She's the one who turned over and started kissing me. Oh wait this is a good recollection. She's the one who got on top of me and whispering junk.
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May 20 2009, 05:10 PM
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You know that will prolly make your relationship/friendship with her even more awkward
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May 20 2009, 08:09 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
LOL if you say that she was the first one to trigger the moment, that means YOU WERE HER BOOTY CALL.
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May 21 2009, 09:49 PM
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QUOTE(DressYourEyelids @ May 16 2009, 03:15 PM) yes, it's a rejection. she seems to regret what you two did, as she implied that she had higher standards for herself than that. I agree because thats always what I say when I regret doing stuff. But then again, maybe she really just wants to be friends. If you like her, stick it through . be her friend, and in time you'll get to enter her cave of wonder again & be with her if thats what you want too. |
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May 22 2009, 04:16 AM
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QUOTE(illriginal @ May 19 2009, 08:51 PM) Hope you get her pregnant. Men can't get pregnant.. |
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May 22 2009, 01:13 PM
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QUOTE(rjohnson1991 @ May 22 2009, 05:16 AM) Men can't get pregnant.. What?... who said they can? |
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May 22 2009, 01:44 PM
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QUOTE(illriginal @ May 22 2009, 02:13 PM) What?... who said they can? oprah did. she told me so herself. |
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May 22 2009, 01:53 PM
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Already then.. allow me to step outside of the thread before I lose my sanity.
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May 22 2009, 02:01 PM
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May 24 2009, 03:42 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
hahahahz guys would probably poop their babies out in supersized toilets at the hospital.
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May 24 2009, 10:58 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
I haven't given up on this girl yet and I'll see to it that I have undeniable and undisputable closure for us. Summertime, I hope, will be our time to shine.
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May 24 2009, 11:22 PM
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....you are going to rape this bitch, arent you?
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May 24 2009, 11:25 PM
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QUOTE(IWontRapeYou @ May 24 2009, 11:22 PM) ....you are going to rape this bitch, arent you? No, but I am. |
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May 24 2009, 11:28 PM
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Video tape it, please.
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May 26 2009, 06:33 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
Wait, wait, wait. Just out of pure curiosity, ahem, what constitutes as rape? I mean I'm pretty sure she'll be like okay.
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May 26 2009, 06:36 PM
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i thought you liked guys
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May 26 2009, 06:46 PM
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QUOTE(MrStrife @ May 26 2009, 07:33 PM) Wait, wait, wait. Just out of pure curiosity, ahem, what constitutes as rape? I mean I'm pretty sure she'll be like okay. rape is forced, unwanted sexual intercourse. and now women/men do not only have to say the word "no" for a case to be considered a rape, but they can say something as vague as, "i should go home", when put in an unwanted sexual situation. |
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Jun 7 2009, 09:43 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
That's good to know. lol. But really, I should let this go huh?
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Jun 7 2009, 10:03 PM
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QUOTE(DressYourEyelids @ May 26 2009, 04:46 PM) rape is forced, unwanted sexual intercourse. and now women/men do not only have to say the word "no" for a case to be considered a rape, but they can say something as vague as, "i should go home", when put in an unwanted sexual situation. not all the time |
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Jun 7 2009, 10:05 PM
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I LIKE TO CALL IT SURPRISE SEX
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Jun 8 2009, 11:29 AM
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QUOTE(MrStrife @ May 24 2009, 11:58 PM) I haven't given up on this girl yet and I'll see to it that I have undeniable and undisputable closure for us. Summertime, I hope, will be our time to shine. That my friend is called being a STALKER |
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Jun 8 2009, 11:55 AM
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pics of mrstrife
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Jun 20 2009, 05:04 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
I am so sad that it didn't work out. My homegirls tell me that I should just forget about her but like, how am I suppose to just forget about someone I was kinda close with?
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Jun 20 2009, 10:02 PM
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^she kind of make it clear that it was a one time thing and not to expect something more out of it.
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Jun 22 2009, 11:11 AM
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QUOTE(IWontRapeYou @ May 24 2009, 11:22 PM) ....you are going to rape this bitch, arent you? You can't rape the willing. |
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Jun 24 2009, 07:18 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
HA!!! I got a date with her soon and I'm soo going to get laid.
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Jun 24 2009, 11:03 PM
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Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
^Well congrats.
Keep us updated 
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Jun 25 2009, 08:26 AM
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Shutup man, you got free sex. Good job!
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Jul 5 2009, 10:13 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
JEEZ!!!! How the hell is it possible that it happens to me yet AGAIN?!??! Long story short, I slept with ANOTHER girl I met last year last night. Totally awesome time, but wtheck man. She makes all these excuses that she can't make time for me, that I might be falling for her and she can't have that, she just got out of a relationship (me too dumbass), and it just seems that it was a horrible decision especially when we both tried to take things really slow.
I guess I only have myself to blame, well along with her. |
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Jul 5 2009, 10:21 PM
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QUOTE(MrStrife @ Jul 5 2009, 11:13 PM) JEEZ!!!! How the hell is it possible that it happens to me yet AGAIN?!??! Long story short, I slept with ANOTHER girl I met last year last night. Totally awesome time, but wtheck man. She makes all these excuses that she can't make time for me, that I might be falling for her and she can't have that, she just got out of a relationship (me too dumbass), and it just seems that it was a horrible decision especially when we both tried to take things really slow. I guess I only have myself to blame, well along with her. you're a douche. |
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Jul 5 2009, 10:55 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
excuse me?!?! come again???
hell, it's like i'm the only one that gives a damn about the friendship, putting in a lot of effort. I know I'm wrong for giving in to temptation but so is she. If she just wants to let me go so she can live her life, then what can I say or do, huh? I feel like crap right now ok. If I knew this was going to be a deja vu like with that other girl earlier in this post, then I would've never done it. I thought it would be different. |
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Jul 5 2009, 11:00 PM
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QUOTE(MrStrife @ Jul 5 2009, 10:55 PM) excuse me?!?! come again??? hell, it's like i'm the only one that gives a damn about the friendship, putting in a lot of effort. I know I'm wrong for giving in to temptation but so is she. If she just wants to let me go so she can live her life, then what can I say or do, huh? I feel like crap right now ok. If I knew this was going to be a deja vu like with that other girl earlier in this post, then I would've never done it. I thought it would be different. you're the man bro, keep it up |
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Jul 5 2009, 11:03 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
LMFAO!!! well it was the best 4th of July, EVER!!
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Jul 5 2009, 11:05 PM
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I had the best 3rd of july ever
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Jul 5 2009, 11:11 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
^Friday?!?
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Jul 5 2009, 11:15 PM
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yah dude
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Jul 6 2009, 04:18 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
^that's wassup. I wouldv'e partied my ass off.
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Jul 7 2009, 09:21 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
Like seriously WTF?!? I just received yet another what I think is a rejection message from the second girl. I don't even want to show it. It's just unfair how this keeps happening to me. I mean why me? What makes me just a booty call and not a boyfriend?
 Story of my f*cking love life... |
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Jul 8 2009, 04:33 AM
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 Onen i-Estel Edain, ú-chebin estel anim. Group: Official Designer Posts: 425 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,128 |
Stop thinking with your penis
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