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 Jul 5 2004, 04:40 PM
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 .:Ashley:.  Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,549  |
ok ive been goin out with this guy alex for like 2 weeks now. and hes awesome. hes never treat me bad or anythgin. hes hott-sweet-caring.
yesterday he went otta town and i went to a family friends...and my friend dan who'll b a jounior had his friend pat over... SO hott. well i brought my friend mishelle and we went swimming with dan and his friend pat. and i wouldnt do anything with pat bc i have a bf... i wanted to kiss him SO bad. but i couldnt. but i gave him my number and sn.. i wasnt sure if he would im me or call me...and he got online!and he imd me! bc i didnt have his sn and he said he wanted to kiss me SO bad but he respected the fact that i wont cheat on my bf and that he really liked that about me- and he said he wants to hang out sometime...and i think i am starting to like pat more than my bf....i need to hang out with him more...but then Alex im's me today.... Alex: okay..ashley i need to talk to you Alex: i swear you like dont like me anymore me:why!? Alex: cuz you never say i love you too anymore..you say.."u2"..and you never talk..and you havent asked me to do anything since the last time we did me:im sorry if i dont say i love you. im confused and dont know what i want right now. and i dont want to say something to u and not mean it bc i dont want to hurt u. and i asked u if i had ppl over if u would come and u said 'idk' and i hung out with my girlfriends today Alex: ohh.. me:and i do like u SOOOOOOOO much, i couldnt even sleep last night without talkin to u for a lil bit Alex: ohh.. me:u mad at me Alex: nope me: k good Alex: well imma go i'll t2ul i love you.. me: ok ill ttyl...do u care if i dont say i love you for a while...im confused Alex: yeah its fine.. Alex signed off at 4:25:02 PM. idk what to do! i feel like shit 
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Jul 5 2004, 04:46 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,032 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,398 |
i dink keep alex first cus u do like him nd he first
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Jul 5 2004, 04:47 PM
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 lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
i think u should try ta work on ur relationship first, rather than get wit sumone else...i noe that by experience kinda...u cant do that cuz eventually tha same thing is gona happen again n u gotta learn how ta handle it, u prolly jus miss ur bf a lot n this pat person is kinda fillin up tha void ur bf left
stick ta ur bf, u shouldnt dump sumone fa sumone else 
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Jul 5 2004, 04:48 PM
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.:Ashley:. Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,549 |
ya but idk i felt somethin with Pat...and my friend who is BEST friends with Alex thinks i felt somethin more with Pat than alex...
i think i know more about Pat than Alex whenever me n alex are alone all he wants to do is make out pat n i talked |
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Jul 5 2004, 04:49 PM
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lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
QUOTE(parttimeangel4 @ Jul 5 2004, 5:48 PM) ya but idk i felt somethin with Pat...and my friend who is BEST friends with Alex thinks i felt somethin more with Pat than alex... i think i know more about Pat than Alex whenever me n alex are alone all he wants to do is make out pat n i talked ok...that changes a lot of things...dont break up wit alex jus yet...jus lyk c wat pat is lyk... but since theyre best friends...he might b a lil biased |
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Jul 5 2004, 04:52 PM
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.:Ashley:. Group: Member Posts: 18 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,549 |
mishelle...who was with me that night...she said that i smiled more with pat and stuff ...and she lvoes alex so much they are like brother and sister.
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Jul 5 2004, 05:15 PM
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 ooo la la Group: Member Posts: 433 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,853 |
i say go with pat because your feelings aren't true for alex if you like pat. i dunno, it seems like you are more comfortable with pat and you like him more.
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Jul 5 2004, 08:22 PM
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 Call me Emily <33. Group: Member Posts: 713 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,579 |
if he really loves you, he'll wait on you and stay with you!!
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Jul 5 2004, 08:41 PM
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 UnIqUe N pRoUd! Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,789 |
You have to say to yourself is who do u really like to maintain a relationship w/. You have to be comfortabe in that relationship.
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Jul 5 2004, 09:26 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I agree with Nawty, I think you should work on your relationship with Alex. It seems like you guys have a good thing going on. Although...question: You've been going out for two weeks and you guys already say, "I love you"? Wow.
 That'd be way to early for me.Well in any case, stick with Alex and work on it. If things don't go well, reconsider. |
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Jul 5 2004, 09:55 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
aww alex seems so cute...dont leave him.
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Jul 6 2004, 12:58 AM
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 and confused... Group: Member Posts: 328 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,137 |
wow, yeah, complicated... well.. you need to figure out your feelings for alex before you do anything with the other guy... cuz if he finds out or sees you, he's gonna be CRUSHED, and then your relationship with him is just gonna be tense and awkward
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Jul 6 2004, 02:00 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
whoa thats tough.... keep the one u love
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Jul 6 2004, 03:12 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i would stick to alex, maybe ur not having fun wit alex and u think ur havin fun wit pat more, spend more time with alex =)
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Jul 6 2004, 04:52 PM
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 Me myself and I Group: Member Posts: 435 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,120 |
Stsy with alex
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Jul 6 2004, 05:03 PM
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 original member. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,825 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,460 |
Dump him.
If you were so 'in love' with him, you wouldn't be ranting about how hot this Pat kid is, and how badly you wanted to kiss him. |
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Jul 6 2004, 07:21 PM
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 Peter aka Peetah =) Group: Member Posts: 198 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,046 |
QUOTE(tainted_angel @ Jul 5 2004, 6:26 PM) I agree with Nawty, I think you should work on your relationship with Alex. It seems like you guys have a good thing going on. Although...question: You've been going out for two weeks and you guys already say, "I love you"? Wow. That'd be way to early for me.Well in any case, stick with Alex and work on it. If things don't go well, reconsider. i say "i love you" to my ex even b4 we were officially together  i've felt the way ur boy alex did... like.. my relatioship started out strong.. like.. i was a cripple back then.. not actually but.. i dislocated my elbow from a wildass snowboard jump.. and I cannot bend it so I'm stuck using only my one and only good arm.. my ex would always help me with getting my books... hug me... and say "I love you" back .. or give me a peck on the cheeks... but as days go by.. she stopped doing it completely.. and I got confused and crap.. It all wouldn't have mattered if she didn't start with all these things in the first place.. u know? haven't u guys had that feeling b4? |
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Jul 7 2004, 01:31 AM
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well i mean... if youve been with alex 2 weeks... thats not exactly a long time either... and it doenst really seem like you "love" either. i guess in my personal opinion i jus believe that it takes longer than that... to really love someone
i guess if i were you i'd just do nothing for awhile. see how things turn out. but it would suck to lose both... |
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Jul 7 2004, 01:40 AM
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i think.. your are jus infatuated with pat.. ill say keep your bf..
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Jul 7 2004, 07:03 AM
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 yeah boiii Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,885 |
who do you like more?
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Jul 7 2004, 08:16 AM
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[s.T.e.P.h] Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,338 |
DUMP HIM haha lol iono
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Jul 7 2004, 04:36 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
is it just me.. or are you a bit unfaithful?
I think you should stay with alex. he seems loyal. |
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Jul 7 2004, 06:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,505 |
i say stick wit your b/f. he sounds understanding and you don't get that alot with guys. You just met pat so you don't know much about him. I say stay with your b/f while you get to know Pat as a FRIEND.
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Jul 7 2004, 06:34 PM
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ooo la la Group: Member Posts: 433 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,853 |
QUOTE(brokenskys @ Jul 7 2004, 1:31 AM) well i mean... if youve been with alex 2 weeks... thats not exactly a long time either... and it doenst really seem like you "love" either. i guess in my personal opinion i jus believe that it takes longer than that... to really love someone well it depends how long she's known the guy. i mean if they were good friends before they started dating then its reasonable. |
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Jul 7 2004, 06:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 233 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,422 |
alex seems loyal... and your relationship could last a loong time with him. stick with him..
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Jul 9 2004, 06:41 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
i think you should sorta work on your relationship a bit.. i mean..this happened to me before
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Jul 9 2004, 07:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Well, this may sound corny, but do what's in your heart. Like, spend the same amount of time with both of them. Like, don't cheat, that's not what I'm saying. Spend time with Pat as a friend but don't do anything foolish. After maybe some time, choose who you feel more comfortable with.
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