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gamergirl88
post Jul 4 2004, 02:55 PM
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Okay...here's the problem. My ex boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago, in fact, he really broke up with me. I started dating someone else, and then he started calling me all the time. I told him how much it bugs me, but he says "You're just on your period" !!

He's left 20 messages on my cell in the past 4 days saying he's coming over, or he's going to kick my new boyfriend's ass. When the phone rings, I have to pick it up and wait for someone on the other end to say hello before I do to make sure it isn't him. He learned I was doing this and then calls and sort of breathes on the phone like some stupid teen flick.

I'm thinking about calling the cops or looking into a restraining order, cuz I shouldn't have to screen my calls or be afraid to check my messages.

Thanx for the advice.
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 03:07 PM
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mayb u should tell him to stop or else ull call the cops.
 
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wow that's kinda weird and scary. i mean...it's not your fault that he broke up with you! have you told your new boyfriend about it? maybe you should tell your ex that you don't want those phonecalls and tell him to stop being a retard. you're right, you shouldn't have to screen your calls to see if it's your ex or not, but don't you think filing a restraining order is just going a bit far? maybe you want to talk to him first. if you can.
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sorry if i'm not helping or anything :(
 
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wow, thats realy weird and freaky. maybe you should talk to him about this or something even if he says that your only being like that cuz of your period or whatever. you should also talk to your boyfriend and probably set things straight there too. probably getting help is a good choice before calling cops or anything too extreme
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 05:08 PM
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Whoa. That's really creepy.

Talk to someone about it.. and definately tell him to stop.
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post Jul 4 2004, 05:39 PM
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I think you should tell someone.. if you dont wana call the cops.
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 06:55 PM
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QUOTE(babygurl_xtacy @ Jul 4 2004, 5:39 PM)
I think you should tell someone.. if you dont wana call the cops.

^^ TELL YOUR DAD OR YOUR MOM!!!

and if they advice the cops....LISTEN TO THEM!!! so what he`s your freakin` ex-boyfriend!!! HE`S OUT OF YOUR LIFE BECAUSE YOU GOT A NEW BOYFRIEND!!! you shouldn`t really care about your ex unless you freakin` have feelings for them.
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 07:58 PM
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oo stalkers... very scary!!!! yess you should tell some1 you trust!!!! like your parents or a big bro/sis!!!! and then maybe they can handle it from there... stay away from him, and also did you tell your bf about him? cuz he's probaley the target... both you and your bf should stay away from him and his friends... cuz ya never know wut could happen!
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 08:13 PM
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He doesn't sound like too serious of a stalker.. My ex says he's going to kill my bf. I'm not too worried though. He doesnt even know who my bf is _dry.gif

Why screen your calls? Just say 'hello?' and if it's him, hang up. He might get the point then. If not, threaten him. If that doesn't work, beat the crud outta him. If that doesnt work.. yeh, call the cops.
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 08:16 PM
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QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Jul 4 2004, 8:58 PM)
oo stalkers... very scary!!!! yess you should tell some1 you trust!!!! like your parents or a big bro/sis!!!! and then maybe they can handle it from there... stay away from him, and also did you tell your bf about him? cuz he's probaley the target... both you and your bf should stay away from him and his friends... cuz ya never know wut could happen!

yup...tell someone dat yoohs trust nd maybe dey will call da cops fo yoohs
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 09:20 PM
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okay I had a x that did the same thing, and it only gets worse...stop it now. and talking doesnt really help it. Not too much can help it. Because if hes determined enough he might keep at it (like mine). Talk to your parents about it, I know it sounds stupid, but seriously they can help you get help. Get the police involved if need be.
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 10:41 PM
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I HATE STALKERS! theres this stalker guy on my xanga.. but i think i kno who it is or not sure. i think u should tell someone
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 11:44 PM
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o god.. stalkers are the scariest ever.. i think u should call the police
 
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post Jul 5 2004, 03:41 PM
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QUOTE(fullmusicedmajor @ Jul 4 2004, 10:20 PM)
okay I had a x that did the same thing, and it only gets worse...stop it now. and talking doesnt really help it. Not too much can help it. Because if hes determined enough he might keep at it (like mine). Talk to your parents about it, I know it sounds stupid, but seriously they can help you get help. Get the police involved if need be.

i agree with fullmusicdmajor. of course, you should tell people about it (like your parents and closest friends) and call the cops if necessary. make sure this situation doesn't get worse. it's already sounding pretty creepy. =\
 
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post Jul 5 2004, 04:03 PM
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ehh hes not stalkin u, its harassment n its not lyk hes physically harmin u or ur new bf, hes jus tryin ta act all big n shit

jus call tha cops its not that hard, tha operators should b nice ppl flowers.gif or make ur bf call tha cops

im kinda iffy bout tha tellin ur parents thing...they might become waaay overprotective afta this
 
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post Jul 5 2004, 04:06 PM
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woah thats just freaky- tell him to lay off or youll call the cops- i mean, HE broke up with YOU right? he shouldnt have a problem. get caller ID if you want ;)
 
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post Jul 5 2004, 07:50 PM
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Kill him
 
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post Jul 5 2004, 09:00 PM
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yes tell him to stop it! remember to use "i" statements cuz it brings out ur power more. "i dont want u calling me"
 
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post Jul 6 2004, 03:26 PM
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Actually, you should refer to yourself in third person if you want to sound assertive.
 
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post Jul 6 2004, 05:46 PM
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i say give him a piece of ur mind. as in.. go off on him and kick his ass rolleyes.gif "You go girl" .. lol hahaha
 
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post Jul 6 2004, 06:08 PM
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I wouldn't go as far as the police...Tell your parents...

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post Jul 6 2004, 06:16 PM
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ooo i had the same problem, just ignore him and when he calls u and u hear his voice just hang up. it worked for me... pinch.gif sry if its no help
 
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post Jul 6 2004, 10:17 PM
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Tell close friends first .. or your parents .. if it really gets outta hand call tha police! =]
 
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post Jul 6 2004, 10:30 PM
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Kill him

Took the words right out of my mouth.
 
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post Jul 11 2004, 10:35 AM
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blink.gif That's creepy. I would tell him to stop. Threaten to call the police and all that good stuff.
 
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post Jul 11 2004, 12:11 PM
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i wouldn't call the cops yet. tell him to stop and if he dosen't maybe u should call the cops.
 
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post Jul 11 2004, 12:33 PM
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whoa.. stay away from him. he sounds dangerous. if you do talk to him don't do it alone..
 
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post Jul 11 2004, 01:03 PM
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OMG. That's scary. I suggest telling him to stop. If he refuses to listen ask your parents if it would be okay to call the police on this a-hole.
 
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post Jul 11 2004, 01:57 PM
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QUOTE(gamergirl88 @ Jul 4 2004, 2:55 PM)
Okay...here's the problem. My ex boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago, in fact, he really broke up with me. I started dating someone else, and then he started calling me all the time. I told him how much it bugs me, but he says "You're just on your period" !!

He's left 20 messages on my cell in the past 4 days saying he's coming over, or he's going to kick my new boyfriend's ass. When the phone rings, I have to pick it up and wait for someone on the other end to say hello before I do to make sure it isn't him. He learned I was doing this and then calls and sort of breathes on the phone like some stupid teen flick.

I'm thinking about calling the cops or looking into a restraining order, cuz I shouldn't have to screen my calls or be afraid to check my messages.

Thanx for the advice.

Wow, thats kinda scary... You should TELL YOUR PARENTS. They can deal with the situation. If he rlly bugs you like, every 2 hours or somethin like that, maybe u should call tha cops or something...
 
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whoa.... if that wus me, i'd kick HIS ass. lol. but yea, you should tell sumone bout this.
 
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Ya should tell em stop.. Or tell ya mommie dem..
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post Jul 11 2004, 08:57 PM
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Stay near ur new BF. If ur ex tries to hurt u ur bf should protect you. Unless he is a nerd geek w/e and cant fight. Then you tell ur mom or threaten him to call the cops.
 
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post Jul 11 2004, 09:05 PM
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QUOTE(HiddenFaerie @ Jul 11 2004, 10:35 AM)
blink.gif That's creepy. I would tell him to stop. Threaten to call the police and all that good stuff.

yup i agree. i mean he has no rite to do dat, nd to make u go throu all dat
 
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post Aug 9 2004, 12:55 PM
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well first of all ya shoulda told ur parents, friends, or ur bf....mayb all u can do is tell him to stop or u'll call the police....b w/ people ya kno all the time...u'll b safe
 
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post Aug 9 2004, 02:42 PM
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thats really scary =/
why does he care if you have a bf anyways
hes the one who broke up with you
talk to someone about it..someone who can help you and protect you
 
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wow u got a real problem on ur hands but i really think u should call the cops keep the messeges for proof if ur ganna get the cops in it for ur safty and ur new bf
 
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post Aug 9 2004, 05:02 PM
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tell ur parents or a friend, if ur getting really creeped out just get a restrainin order lol.

or u can call the f**ker up and just be really mean and straight forward , for example "quit calling me u f**kin loser its over, get a life"
 
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she obsivously can't tell him to stop..bc he wont understand! lol...just call the cops on him....
 
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