what is up with guys?! |
 Jul 4 2004, 09:41 AM
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Okay like my ex and I broke up 3 months ago and we haven't really talked much after the break up coz of that awkward phrase. And now he's started talking to me, like 24/7. And it's just like the old times again, where we flirt and laugh and talk about the future.
He knows I get depressed a lot about school and the pressure, and he's always there for me. He even made a special studying timetable for me. He's even helped me to break up with this guy I'm, dating (er, was dating anyway...). And after another of my depression outburst again today, we got talking about us. To be honest, I never stopped loving him. And I just started crying and screaming at him. I told him that I still loved him but at the same time, I hated that feeling. And how it's making me hate him. And he just supported me. He admitted that when I got together with the other guy, he was jealous. But another part of him was happy that I had someone. And he says he doesn't know if he loves me or not. And it's long distance. With my national exam and his boot camp, we'll only be able to see each other at the end of the year or early next year. He says there's nothing we can do but to wait. And when we finally see each other, things will get sorted out. He's so nice to me. You know, he's actually getting a cell for me coz he knows I can't afford one just yet. I know he wants me to be happy, that's partly why he offered. And another part, I think it's coz he wants me to call him. My parents never let me make international calls. But if I had my own cell, I could get an international package. I'm scared. I honestly am. This is indeed, a fairytale, just like he always said. I'm scared this fairytale isn't going to get a happy ending. |
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Jul 4 2004, 10:21 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,032 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,398 |
most fairytales are happy in the end.urs are gonna be jus like a happy fairytale.i guess dont worry bout it jus call him wen u wanna hear his voice.
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Jul 4 2004, 10:26 AM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
Hopefully, it will. Just hope for a better future. You two seem really close. And that's gonna bring you two together no matter how far apart you guys really are physically. Don't let distance or not seeing each other tear you two apart. Let the love and the faith overcome that.
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Jul 4 2004, 12:29 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
myths are supposed have a bad ending...[those stories with gods & goddesses in them...yup....tragic endings..]
fairy tales always have good endings....because God made them to. honestly....he really cares for you alot..and that`s wonderful [i`m jealous  ]. but long distance isn`t really the thing...maybe he really misses you and just wants the feeling of being near you...but you can`t really call that love..can you? hmm....that maybe love..yeah...he pretty much misses you, but is unsure of restarting the relationship mode thing....overall...do you want that? him back in your life? |
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Jul 4 2004, 12:53 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
aww thats so sweet tho.. sounds like a korean drama... dont worry.. i think that wen u think its a tragic, the happiness stays til the end, so stay till the end =] but if it doesnt work out, its ok rite? jus dont put too much of ur heart into it, and plus u guys did try.. so even if u guys are gonna go through hardships, u kno at least it was worth the try
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Jul 4 2004, 01:29 PM
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grrowl Group: Member Posts: 393 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,727 |
YES, WHATS UP WITH GUYS? :D??
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Jul 4 2004, 03:09 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
like every1 said, fairy tales have happy endings
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Jul 4 2004, 05:12 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
aw .. hes so nice to you! .. i hope it works out =]]
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Jul 4 2004, 05:18 PM
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 Pimp Status Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,200 |
Tha does make for a great story...Maybe things will turn out great, and maybe they wont...But have hope...And dont give up...take care or yourself kid and we're all crossing our fingers for ya..
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Jul 4 2004, 09:17 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
fairy tale="and they all lived happily ever after". Good luck!
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Jul 4 2004, 10:21 PM
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 Peter aka Peetah =) Group: Member Posts: 198 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,046 |
oh guy, here's a guy's POV..
I broke up with my ex not long ago.. and I still had strong feelings for her after weeks... then I was slowly losing my feelings for her since she didn't give me the respect I expected.. i'd feel jealous too if my ex got another guy not long after we broke up.. i find that disrespectful - since "i" wouldn't do that.... it would just give your ex mixed emotions and think whether there is another chance or not... and what u mean by happy ending - back together??? it seems that he's looking forward in seeing u again  3 words: "Good luck la~" haha  i'm trying to act fobbbish
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Jul 5 2004, 08:10 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Jul 5 2004, 1:29 AM) overall...do you want that? him back in your life? Yeah, I do... A lot. QUOTE oh guy, here's a guy's POV.. I broke up with my ex not long ago.. and I still had strong feelings for her after weeks... then I was slowly losing my feelings for her since she didn't give me the respect I expected.. i'd feel jealous too if my ex got another guy not long after we broke up.. i find that disrespectful - since "i" wouldn't do that.... it would just give your ex mixed emotions and think whether there is another chance or not... and what u mean by happy ending - back together??? it seems that he's looking forward in seeing u again 3 words: "Good luck la~" haha i'm trying to act fobbbish After we broke up, he started going out with this girl. Then I got together with the other guy. So I dont' think it'll be like... disrespectful... I want a happy ending. I wanna be able to just stay in his arms, and be able to feel like nothing else matters except us together. |
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Jul 5 2004, 11:28 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 164 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,737 |
Aww that's so cute! I want a guy friend that is really close to me.. he seems really sweet and if you guys love eachother in the way you do... as in best friends, then ou won't lose faith in eachother and it'll turn out to be a happy ending
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