should i believe him?, HELP? Options

[s1cktypeS]

last night me and my bf went to speedzone with a couple of his buddies. he was goin on this one ride so he told me to hold his cellphone. once he was in line, i sat down with his homies. then i was thinkin if there's anything happenin with him and his co worker. cuz i know he's all being nice and shit to her to get on her good side so she can put in a good word with her dad about maybe hiring him to work at the auto center. so once i got in his phone, all i saw was all this shit like "oh i'd feel better if we were cuddling." or "oh can i come over sometime?" i got so mad that i excused myself from his friends and walked over to where he was. i showed him his fone and i was like "you wanna tell me wtf this is?" and he was juz like i'll tell you later. and i was mad and i raised my voice a lil bit and pulled him by his sweater. i was like "NO! I'D LIKE AN EXPLANATION NOW!"

so he got out of the line and we talked
he was all like oh that's nothing
we're juz joking around we're juz friends
i was like i know how you are
and you don't flirt
he's all i'm like that with all the girls
and he corrected himself well maybe not
and i raised my voice again
i was like "NO UR NOT! UR ONLY LIKE THAT WITH HER!"
and he's like that doesn't mean anything
all i can say was "thats total bullshit right there"

i didn't get to say this to him last night cuz his friends where there
and like he takes more time talkin to her than me
he takes the time to call her to say goodnite and goodmorning
and he barely talks to me

idk what to believe
should i believe him when he said that it doesn't mean anything?
what do you guys think?

[Maccabee]

ummm...I think you shouldnt take it to seriously. But he is flirting with her. He prob just wanted to flirt with a girl.

[Melie]

i know exactly how you feel because i've been there myself. if a man is confronted with something like this, they will deny it even with hard evidence in front of them. your best option is to go with what your gut says. it never lies and it's always right. you're still young and you probably weren't dating long (i'm saying over a year). so ending this while it's still new is best for you. because down the road you may have to face this same situation if not worse if it's not fixed right now. if he's not man enough to say to you that he's interested in someone else and he wants to move on, then he's not gonna be man enough to admit that he's flirting with another woman.

[illriginal]

Men are horn dogs. When are female going to realize that a man isn't a man until he fully matures and has self respect.

[Evony]

you're talking about jj right?


dude, i'll explain it for you.
you're like the berry that fell on the ground.
hes trying to pick the fresh berries
he thinks hes a player
don't trip too hard
HAHA

[creole]

@ s1cktypeSF
I'm totally on your side. A boyfriend should be loyal, serious, honest, and communicatable.
Your boyfriend needs to learn to NOT cross the line. Even if he is a guy, he should know his
limits of when to flirt and when to know that he has a girlfriend.

If he's talking with her more than you, that's obviously suspicious. I can understand if he talks to a family member more for advice or company, but why would he want to keep talking to a co-worker? Seriously, I would only talk to a co-worker at work and only at work. I' would only let them have my number for EMERGENCY business, not PERSONAL conversation.

If your feeling mistreated, then speak up. You can't just sit there with his friends and him flirting with girls right infront of you. Guys don't really understand how girls feel suspicious or jealous. Girls have reasons to be like that. Out of love, not out of ignorance. He has no exucse whatsoever to say you're jealous.

I hope you work things out.

[batman]

i know exactly how you feel because i've been there myself. if a man is confronted with something like this, they will deny it even with hard evidence in front of them. your best option is to go with what your gut says. it never lies and it's always right.

I agree with this.

My mom told me the same thing and now I'm getting homesick

[Burenduhhx]

i know exactly how you feel because i've been there myself. if a man is confronted with something like this, they will deny it even with hard evidence in front of them. your best option is to go with what your gut says. it never lies and it's always right. you're still young and you probably weren't dating long (i'm saying over a year). so ending this while it's still new is best for you. because down the road you may have to face this same situation if not worse if it's not fixed right now. if he's not man enough to say to you that he's interested in someone else and he wants to move on, then he's not gonna be man enough to admit that he's flirting with another woman.

^ yeah, melie said everything i said.
i know how you feel, wow it pisses me off.

[fameONE]

Your boyfriend tried to have a debate about what drivetrain in a car is more efficient when it comes to racing (he was on your screenname). He seemed like a douche.

Jussayin'

[Evony]

i know him too. hahahahahahah loser
you got played hahaha

[Deospeon]

If you leave him now..

[Tsukuyomi-No-Mok...]

honestly it makes us look bad when that kinda shit happens but yea i say you test him him once
he fails then he's done
cause i mean yea you saw those messages but if u can find something further then yea u can make ur judgment cause i know guys who i mean they got g/fs and at the same time they still flirt wit they friends but that's simply it they don't go any further with it and yea after their girl catches on to it they explain it or they tell em that the girl means nothin to them and then it stops so yea if it continues then yea def. leave him but make sure that u don't make a mistake cause if u make an accusation and ur wrong think bout where it throws the guys view of you
i'm not saying hes right for what he did cause obviously he shouldn't be flirtin wit another girl it's cool if they friends and all that and they get along but flirtin crosses the line.

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

If he breaks up with you, I already know who he will be with. Dude got a backup plan.

[s1cktypeS]

i know him too. hahahahahahah loser
you got played hahaha

who are u and how do u know him?

[s1cktypeS]

update:

well we talked about it more the night after cuz he slept over my house
and he kinda felt guilty that he's making me feel all sad and shit
now we're closer than ever

we practically live together anyways since he sleeps over so much

oh and he's all like i'm not gonna talk to her to anything anymore
i told him i believe him
but if i stop by his work and i see them talkin
his car is gonna get it
then him





who ever has the username c**t... who the f*ck are you and how do you jj?
he told me to ask you that.

[gojira]

lol i knew you werent going to break up with him

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

lol i knew you werent going to break up with him

Word, she going to have a remix to that TPain song when it happens again talking about :

"Ohhhhhhh I can't believe it
Ooh ooh he cheated on me on me
He he no longer want me want me
Now I am lonley awwwwwww"

[s1cktypeS]

i would've broken up with him
but he really was sorry about it
and he's been real honest and stuff to me

idk...
its hard to explain
but i'm sure stuff like this wont happen again

[gojira]

im the same. i haven't said i love you to my parents since 5th grade either. i don't even give em a kiss on the cheek or a hug. idk i juz don't like doing it.
well about the whole i love you thing. a couple of weeks into me and my bf talking, he already told me that he loved me. when he said it i didn't know wat to do. all i said in my head was "already? did he really mean it?"
he told me he did. and i couldn't say anything. he asked me if it tripped me out. and i said yeah. cuz we juz started talking.
but i do love him a lot.

i've seen my bf's plenty of times.
cuz once in a while we'll stay at each other's place
and unlike him when i do take a shower and go back to either one's room, i keep myself covered unlike him.
like when he gets to the room, he knows i'm there
and he juz drops his towel all the time

my bf both want one
and he can't wait til i get my type-s
he has an FG1 ryt now

my bf has a 07 Civic LX
it used to be the Nighthawk Black Pearl color
but he got it painted to Berlina black

happy thanksgiving everyone!!!
i doubt im gonna have a good one this year
for 1, i think everyone is juz gonna bug me during our tanxgiving dinner.
i really can't stand my relatives. i know that sounds bad but thats juz the way i feel. the only ppl that i like talkin to in my fam are my cuz jojo, bebe, and jervis. cuz they're the close ones to me and understand me.
2nd: my boyfriend is 60 miles away from me. sad.gif i haven't even seen him yesterday and today and prolly not tomorrow which is gonna suck like hell. cry.gif i can't even talk to him on the fone cuz he forgot his charger at his uncle's place.

well i stayed home today.
sucked so bad.
i didn't even get to see my bf today
or for that matter i havent seen him for 2 days already
and i usually see him everyday.
i'm prolly not gonna see him til saturday or sunday.

if i had the money, im gonna buy me and my bf plane tickets to the philippines.
anyways, we've been talking about having a vacation there for the summer.
we're planning now so we can save up for it.

the only person that has seen me naked
besides my parents and some of my nanny's when i was little
is my bf

well me and my bf both like giving and receiving oral sex.
he actually loves when i give him oral

we the rsx is my dream car.
and don't worry all my car decisions go through my bf.
his dream car is an AP1.

[Tomates]

ummm...I think you shouldnt take it to seriously. But he is flirting with her. He prob just wanted to flirt with a girl.

on the contrary i think it should be. Ive been dating my boyfriend for 10 months and if i found out he was saying things like that to another girl i would question him and ask him what the world he is doing.
If every guy or girl decided not to talk to their beau's with situations like that then it would be just a whole cheat fest out there.

I would talk to him and tell him that this is bothering you and politely tell him to stop. If he does it again tell him and briefly warn him that there will be consequences of doing it a third time. If it doesn't stop then it would probably be best to cut it off. You should be happy in a relationship, not worried and sad.

[gojira]

its not that big for me
and i already went shopping 2 weeks ago
i'll prolly juz buy the present for my bf.
its $180 regular price so i hope they cut the price.

my boyfriend put this up on his forums and on his aim:
i am very thankful for Casie. whom just like my mother, puts up with an enormous amount of bullshit everyday and still manages to find love to give me. through words, emotions, expressions, and even a smile, i feel loved. i love you too.
it made me smile and tear up a lil bit

i spent the whole day with my bf.
from 8am - 230am

my bf went home to hesperia
he does it every 2 weeks
to get clothes
cuz he moved and and he's livin closer to me
wid this uncle.

my happiness relies mostly on my boyfriend.
like if don't talk to him everyday or see him once in a while, u'll see the difference in my mood.
i'm very cranky and i'm a bitch when that happens. nuke.gif
normally i'm a very quiet person, i like to observe things.

i had my hopes up to go out today. cuz me and my boyfriend we supposed to go to the movies last night after he got off work. but then his mom wanted him to go to his uncle's house to eat dinner. he called me and said that he'll call me later so we can meet up. so i went to the village [which is like a hangout spot in my area] to kill some time. then about 45 mins later, he calls and said that he's on his way to the village. he tells me to buy the movie tickets but its too late already. so we just ended up going to the pool hall to play. then went to his friend's house to watch a movie.
i really didn't wanna go to his friend's house. and then when we were making food to eat before watchin a movie, he tells me: "we're just gonna go and watch a movie tomorrow" which is today. and the whole day he hasn't even tried to contact me.
it sucks cause he does this all the time. and it really hurts. he doesn't even know. even if i tell him, it seems like he doesn't even care.

i'm interested in:
* cars and everything bout it
* volleyball
* basketball
* video games
* going out for a drive
* cruisin
* adventures
* going to the beach
* late night conversations with my bf
and a lot more...

well.... i never had a valetine before. sad.gif
yah i know how sad right?
now. i have a boyfriend. and to just spend time with him is good enough for me. a don't expect any gifts from him. i'm already making him a card. i'm still looking for something else i can give to him along with the card.
that card is gonna explain how i really feel about him. cuz lately it seems like he's been misunderstanding me a lot.

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[Tomates]

i wouldn't call it dick whipped. Im not saying he cant talk to other girls

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

Stop, you killing me right now.

[hypnotique]

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LOL

also.
http://encyclopediadramatica.com/Pathetic

[gojira]

i wouldn't call it dick whipped. Im not saying he cant talk to other girls

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you must be blind if you didn't see the gigantic, bolded 'my bf' quotes. they're not my posts.

btw yall

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[Deospeon]

LOL!
You guys are gone cucu!

[gojira]

I would talk to him and tell him that this is bothering you and politely tell him to stop. If he does it again tell him and briefly warn him that there will be consequences of doing it a third time. If it doesn't stop then it would probably be best to cut it off. You should be happy in a relationship, not worried and sad.

i can't believe i didn't catch this.

[Tribal J_Rome]

i wouldn't call it dick whipped. Im not saying he cant talk to other girls

[s1cktypeS]

lol i knew you werent going to break up with him

i never said i was gonna

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

i never said i was gonna

Not to be rude or anything, but the thought must have crossed your mind. After all you did say this :

i would've broken up with him
but he really was sorry about it
and he's been real honest and stuff to me

idk...
its hard to explain
but i'm sure stuff like this wont happen again

[hypnotique]

[hypnotique]

[*BOSS*]

JDM 4 LIFE

[shoryuken]

HAHAHA shamwow...

i c da cummmurrsiall onee tymee.. shiett funni..

[lidoxtitty]

he must have taken your virginity man!

[s1cktypeS]

JDM 4 LIFE

random

[emberfly]

OMGODDDDDDDD that seriously has to be the funniest thing I've ever seen

[*BOSS*]

whats with all the shamwow? i was actually thinking about it buying one

[s1cktypeS]

whats with all the shamwow? i was actually thinking about it buying one

don't
they over exaggerate stuff on the commercial
we bought one and its not wow-ing me at all
not even a teeny bit

[*BOSS*]

this dude scares the shit outta me cause I think he can convince me to tampons for myself but i dont have a vagina

[hypnotique]

this dude scares the shit outta me cause I think he can convince me to tampons for myself but i dont have a vagina

I wonder what sex with him is like