What should i do?? |
 Feb 9 2009, 08:18 PM
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 the name's mario  Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520  |
Okay... here it goes..
i like this girl but the thing is that i don't know much about her.. i started to talk to her on myspace this weekend.. and today we talked after school for a while and i was ready to tell her that i like her but i was scared of how she was going to react.. & to kill the moment... so what should i do cuz i think she likes me too.. but i'm not sure... should i tell her?? and to the girls: 1. if a guy who just started to talk to you and told you that he liked you what would you think and how would you react... 2. if you liked a guy and the guy just started to talk to you and out of nowhere he tells you that he likes you, what would you do?? |
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Feb 9 2009, 10:00 PM
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I think you should keep on talking to her & get to know her better. Don't rush into something; give it some time.
1. I would be... confused? I can't really find a word for it. If I guy told me he liked me after only talking to me for a few days, I'd find it weird. I mean we don't really know each other & to just say "Oh I like you" is a bit random, you know? 2. I'd be really happy for a second but after I'd still be confused. Honestly, I think you should just give it some time. Be patient. |
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Feb 10 2009, 12:17 AM
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the name's mario Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520 |
that's the thing i want to give it some time to get to know about each other.. but it kills me i just want to get it over with...
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Feb 10 2009, 05:36 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Feb 2009 Member No: 713,985 |
Don’t worry about it. 1st you have to know everything about her then be a best friend after that propose her .My 1st answer is, I will confuse then think is he appropriate for me? Then I will tell him my answer and my 2nd answer is I will be happy.
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Feb 10 2009, 10:42 PM
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 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,020 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,768 |
bro its hopeless dont pursue too much, i however am very happy and engaged / getting laid every night, so there's hope, but not in that one, but i'm very happy with my life :] :] :]
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Feb 10 2009, 11:30 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
i think you should wait a little. you don't want to rush into things too quickly especially if you just started talking to her.
1.) i would tell him to relax, don't rush into things. and i think it's too soon for you to tell me that. let's get to know each other first (; 2.) isn't it the repition of number 1? anywho, i'll start to think differently. i would let myself not too friendly but not too distant? i'd be cautious of myself though. |
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Feb 10 2009, 11:54 PM
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the name's mario Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520 |
^^ no no.1 isn't the same as no.2 cuz #2 is if you feel something back for the guy!! meaning that you both like each other
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Feb 11 2009, 12:38 AM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
ohh sorry, i was skimming through the question. but my answer would still be the same because i wouldn't let myself get too attached quite yet. but i would like to keep the flow going (:
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Feb 11 2009, 10:29 AM
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my whole deal is that
you let your actions speak for you kick it wit her make sure that u take every advantage you get to kick it wit her and all that joke around wit her have fun wit her get her to open up to you but don't OD it to the point where it gets to be like brother sister kinda stuff when you think u connected wit her well enough then u can let her know how u feel if she hasn't already gotten the hint |
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Feb 13 2009, 01:06 AM
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the name's mario Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520 |
well like 2 days ago i found out that she has a boyfriend, but she's unhappy in her relationship... so she told me that she didnt even got happy or excited with the presence of her bf.. only for other ppl
on a msg she told me that she tought i was a cutie back in december when she was single, then today i decided to tell her after school that i like her.. and she was ok with it.. and in a msg she told me that she had a bad day and that made her day a little better, and that when she told me that she din't get excited on seeing her bf only other ppl and by other ppl she was meaning me... cuz i was sweet!! so what would you girls do.. if you where on her shoes?? end the relationship with the bf and give it a try with the new guy?? i want to know what most of the girls would do... She gave me hopes with today's msg..  
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Feb 13 2009, 01:16 AM
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Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,020 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,768 |
she's using you
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Feb 13 2009, 09:07 PM
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the name's mario Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520 |
nahh she's not she is such a smart and nice girl to do that....
EDIt: and i send her baloons & small bear today since i was not going to see her tomorrow |
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Feb 13 2009, 11:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Administrator Posts: 8,629 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 498,468 |
Aww that's cute. But isn't she still with her boyfriend?
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Feb 14 2009, 08:13 PM
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 f your couch Group: Official Member Posts: 3,089 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,301 |
first of all, if she has a boyfriend you should back off until she ends it. if she really wants out of her relationship she'll get out. i'm not saying you can't talk to her as a friend just don't push the whole i like you thing. put yourself in the boyfriend's shoes: how would you feel if your girlfriend was basically starting another relationship behind your back? cheating on you and wasn't decent enough to tell you? don't be the girlfriend thief.
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Feb 14 2009, 10:29 PM
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 Melieized Group: Official Designer Posts: 1,372 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,715 |
QUOTE(smash415 @ Feb 14 2009, 08:13 PM)  first of all, if she has a boyfriend you should back off until she ends it. if she really wants out of her relationship she'll get out. i'm not saying you can't talk to her as a friend just don't push the whole i like you thing. put yourself in the boyfriend's shoes: how would you feel if your girlfriend was basically starting another relationship behind your back? cheating on you and wasn't decent enough to tell you? don't be the girlfriend thief. ^ i agree WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND |
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Feb 14 2009, 11:30 PM
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the name's mario Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520 |
QUOTE(manny-the-dino @ Feb 13 2009, 10:05 PM) Aww that's cute. But isn't she still with her boyfriend? not anymore they broke up the same day i told her i like herQUOTE(smash415 @ Feb 14 2009, 07:13 PM) first of all, if she has a boyfriend you should back off until she ends it. if she really wants out of her relationship she'll get out. i'm not saying you can't talk to her as a friend just don't push the whole i like you thing. put yourself in the boyfriend's shoes: how would you feel if your girlfriend was basically starting another relationship behind your back? cheating on you and wasn't decent enough to tell you? don't be the girlfriend thief. they broke up on thursday, and i bought her ballons on friday.. so technically i didn't do anything wrong
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Feb 15 2009, 03:35 PM
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f your couch Group: Official Member Posts: 3,089 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,301 |
just don't rush it.
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Feb 15 2009, 03:37 PM
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 kthxbai Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,832 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 621,203 |
I don't get the point in teen dating
 The whole goal for dating is marriage.. is it not? It's not like you're going to get married while you're a teen, so why date?
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Feb 15 2009, 03:40 PM
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 Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
^ There are people who marry there high school sweetheart. Also it's practice, and just human nature to give affection.
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Feb 15 2009, 03:49 PM
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kthxbai Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,832 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 621,203 |
Meh. I don't think I will ever get married. I would like to, but I just can't see myself married...
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Feb 15 2009, 05:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Administrator Posts: 8,629 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 498,468 |
Yeah like I said, I think you should take your time, Mario. Just enjoy each other's company & don't rush into anything. At least now you know she likes you so you don't have to worry about that.
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Feb 15 2009, 07:43 PM
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the name's mario Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520 |
^^yehh. she told me she likes me..
so now we're just going to get to know each other more.. since we barely know each other QUOTE(IWontRapeYou @ Feb 15 2009, 02:40 PM) ^ There are people who marry there high school sweetheart. Also it's practice, and just human nature to give affection. exacly |
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Feb 16 2009, 03:00 PM
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You should definitely pee in her butt.
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Feb 21 2009, 08:21 PM
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the name's mario Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520 |
sh*t i'll pee in your f*cken face and then murder you, you wh*re
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Feb 23 2009, 09:12 AM
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QUOTE(rockguy @ Feb 21 2009, 08:21 PM) sh*t i'll pee in your f*cken face and then murder you, you wh*re  dam.. all this she likes me i like her crap remind me of middle n high school.. haha any huu.. gl kid |
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Feb 23 2009, 10:36 AM
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 cαиdчмαи™ Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Feb 2009 Member No: 713,621 |
look; if you realy like this girl which im guessin that you do, well then keep talking to her, be with her through her rough times and she will notice how much you've been there for her and it she will notice how much you care for her and if she ends the relationship with her boyfriend then, dont go right ahead and ask her out just wait and until you see that she might be ready to be someone then just tell her how you feel and dont be scare to ask her out cus if you dont tell her and she likes you; well then she might never know it so just do dont be shy!
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Feb 23 2009, 01:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
^DAM.. i wonder you gay or not.. but then i go chek u profile.. say u gay.. cuz that post make me feel gay 2.. LMAO
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Feb 23 2009, 03:17 PM
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cαиdчмαи™ Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Feb 2009 Member No: 713,621 |
QUOTE(PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL @ Feb 23 2009, 02:41 PM) ^DAM.. i wonder you gay or not.. but then i go chek u profile.. say u gay.. cuz that post make me feel gay 2.. LMAO who me?!?!?! im bi |
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Feb 23 2009, 03:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
why you flirting yo..
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Feb 28 2009, 02:58 PM
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the name's mario Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520 |
QUOTE(KilluhErick @ Feb 23 2009, 09:36 AM) look; if you realy like this girl which im guessin that you do, well then keep talking to her, be with her through her rough times and she will notice how much you've been there for her and it she will notice how much you care for her and if she ends the relationship with her boyfriend then, dont go right ahead and ask her out just wait and until you see that she might be ready to be someone then just tell her how you feel and dont be scare to ask her out cus if you dont tell her and she likes you; well then she might never know it so just do dont be shy! umm...  they broke up a long time ago .. hahaand i said it before on the topic... and she does like me.... we'e are talking.. |
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Mar 28 2009, 11:30 PM
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the name's mario Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520 |
ok so we started talking since like the begining for about a month and two weeks so how much more should i wait to ask her?
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Mar 29 2009, 01:11 PM
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QUOTE(hermes @ Mar 29 2009, 12:30 AM) ok so we started talking since like the begining for about a month and two weeks so how much more should i wait to ask her? dat kinddaa loongg.. goo askkk noww.. BUTTT... telll moii boutt dizz furrztt... U THENK SHEE LYKE LYKE U or jizz frreindd.. |
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Mar 29 2009, 05:58 PM
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the name's mario Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520 |
nahh, she does likes me, if she liked me as a friend she would of told me before..
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Mar 29 2009, 07:52 PM
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QUOTE(rockguy @ Feb 9 2009, 09:18 PM) Okay... here it goes.. i like this girl but the thing is that i don't know much about her.. i started to talk to her on myspace this weekend.. and today we talked after school for a while and i was ready to tell her that i like her but i was scared of how she was going to react.. & to kill the moment... so what should i do cuz i think she likes me too.. but i'm not sure... should i tell her?? and to the girls: 1. if a guy who just started to talk to you and told you that he liked you what would you think and how would you react... 2. if you liked a guy and the guy just started to talk to you and out of nowhere he tells you that he likes you, what would you do?? QUOTE(hermes @ Mar 29 2009, 06:58 PM) nahh, she does likes me, if she liked me as a friend she would of told me before.. lol kidd.. u wan diz gurl da lyke lyke u.. wat i c.. shee nevaa telll u shee lyke lyke u.. u jizz saii she lyke lyke.. i git $5 she putt u enn freiind zzonne.. telll moi wat happin wen u askk hurr owl.. |
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Mar 30 2009, 12:29 AM
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the name's mario Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520 |
QUOTE so what should i do cuz i think she likes me too.. but i'm not sure... that was before we started talking talking, she still had a boyfriend a the time msgs that i got from her QUOTE you are so incredible because you are a super sweet guy!!! have never met a guy sweeter than you..sounds cheezy but its the truth!! I hope i dont freak you out telling you this ha:P I always think about you at some part of my day and you are never forgotten but i always wonder what you think of me... im a little worried that you dont like me..or like who i am..because i could be weird sometimes.. :P QUOTE .......well i think its because most girls would date those crazy cocky guys...
i myself dislike guys like that.. The thing about you is that you dont even have to try..youre such a sweet person with out even trying and i think youre such a cutie...its just youre natural self that i like! youre great!!! well i could go on and on...:) ha... |
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Mar 30 2009, 10:04 AM
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 Ummm... I can't think of anything creative to put here Group: Human Posts: 410 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,965 |
QUOTE(PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL @ Feb 23 2009, 02:34 PM) why you flirting yo..   You didnt even have to say that. lol |
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Mar 30 2009, 10:58 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
^stukki.. stopp tryda flirtt 2..
 QUOTE(hermes @ Mar 30 2009, 01:29 AM) that was before we started talking talking, she still had a boyfriend a the time msgs that i got from her well... wtf u waitenn 4.. askk hur out.. oh ye.. i styll git $5 saii shee onlii c u lyke buddii noww.. 
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Mar 30 2009, 12:43 PM
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Ummm... I can't think of anything creative to put here Group: Human Posts: 410 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,965 |
Dont flatter yourself Prince
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Apr 4 2009, 02:59 PM
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the name's mario Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520 |
QUOTE(PrinceGonnaChokeaBEECH @ Mar 30 2009, 10:58 AM) oh ye.. i styll git $5 saii shee onlii c u lyke buddii noww.. wrong boyMe QUOTE and do you like me?? or like me, like me? Her QUOTE Mario, I like you! Like you!
Like, 'i like you i want to kiss you' like you lol but yes i like you "that way" |
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Apr 5 2009, 10:53 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
suu wat ginna happin noww...
ima saii shii ginnaa dumm u @sss sooon... ^^ waatchh.. |
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Apr 6 2009, 10:35 AM
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Ummm... I can't think of anything creative to put here Group: Human Posts: 410 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,965 |
Why you gotta be a Negative Nancy, Prince? Why cant you be a Positive Pete?
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Apr 6 2009, 02:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
cuzz i wanntt noboddii butt CHU...
i wanntt noboddii butt chuu nobodiii butt chuu |
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Apr 7 2009, 09:00 PM
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the name's mario Group: Official Member Posts: 1,270 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 656,520 |
QUOTE(PrinceGonnaChokeaBEECH @ Apr 5 2009, 10:53 AM) suu wat ginna happin noww... i asked her if she wanted to be my girlfridn and she said yes.. so.. i guess this can be closed.. :/ |
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Apr 7 2009, 09:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Administrator Posts: 8,629 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 498,468 |
^Aw yay! Congrats.
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