What qualities of a guy a girl would dig for..., The most? Options

[pm3k]

Hello... just wondering what qualities of a guy YOU'd dig for... you as in girls. ... gimme the best answer in ur opinion

i'mma guy btw.. lol... i just thought that i'd get more girls answering... guys can.. post?

some vote options are somewhat mixed with other options... i think... so just answer your best...

vote and gimme some explanation of y u chose whatever... i appreciate it wubz u all

[xHalf nHalf]

the most important thing to me b4 anything else is HONESTY. you have to be able to TRUST a person b4 ever really getting serious...

[xjjajeengx]

i think that the most important quality in a guy should be how much they care... they should be able to be loving to you and caring for your problems. i guess i aguy should be dependable, and not a jerk who only cares about how you look and what you do to their rep. those kinda jersk should go to the toilet and flush their butt down it.

[LiNHy POO]

physical features are smiles, pretty eyes, arms, and hands!!!!! if he has a cute face he is cute already!!! body type.. dont really care.. but eehhh i hate it when girls say they want 6 packs... i find it really shallow!

i look for intellgence, ambtion, and humor!! i like to be able to talk to him... and he has to have goals in life, but still be able to joke and play around!!! im not very picky... or at least i dont think i am!!!

[diezelbabygrl_xo...]

ok..im being honest here- i look for tha physical side of him 1st..i like muscles..BIG (not steroid big btw) i like a guy who can so 2 sum it all up..i like tha strong silent type but if tha guy has hair long thats jus
makes me wonder if hes str8...ehh....btw (i hope im not being 2 picky) i like 'em italian


(vin diesel is in tha middle, john malkovich last on tha right)

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[x_i l o v e y u]

what about being funny? i love guys that can make me laugh

[babixlilac]

i jus need a guy to b dere fo me wen i need him nd he must be nice to me. da apperance dun matter

[itz_soyoungy]

i wouldn't really like him calm.... nd good in grades... well dat would be nice but i wouldn't ask for it though... i usually like boiz dat make me laugh a lot nd makes me foget about mah problems..

[SarahxJoy]

I voted for having him relate to you somehow. I think it helps with communication, and other than that, helping others and being considerate is good.

[Winter]

I like guys who can relate to me somehow. Then I feel like they really understand me.

[I_feel_beautiful]

i think the most important thing is understanding and like not being selfish. i just think thats really important. number 2 is trust and number 3 is the rest

[sheddingtears]

First he's gotta be awesome-looking.
He's gotta be nice, smart, athletic, and real sweet.
And finally, we gotta have some common interests.

[islandkiss]

they're all good qualities.. his personality is the most important..

[Longhorn]

guys that are nice and considerate of others are the ones i go for. they care about what you think and they will not just walk all over you. them having good looks is a plus though! haha

[rae]

I picked Being patient, calm and nice to others... it's really important how he treats everyone, not just you, although that's important too.

[inthemudhole]

I chose, "He relates to you somehow."

I'm not shallow.
I go for the personality first..
Looks are not important at all.
Sure, if he's cute.. that's nice.
But, yeah. I go for the personality and such first.

[pm3k]

good answers y'all..

i'm not sure whether appearance matters the most.. like.. if u think that way.. the furthest u can go is a one-nite-stand?

[maia_dc]

~~Being patient, calm and nice to others.~~

Thus said, most of the guys I know are inconsiderate rude asses. Being me, I have a bad temper, and get annoyed easily. ^_^;; So I would like a guy to be patient and calm, not the type of guy who would get into fights with you. Being nice is always good, because that's what would attract me to him in the first place. =]

I personally think six packs are a maaaajor turnOFF. Blah, all that muscle scares me. It's nice if he's cute and hot, but he doesn't have to be like, a body builder or something. X_X I like it when guys are athletic, but "sexily skinny." Like Johnny Depp... *sighs*

[LatinaLady]

i picked the first one cuz i like the body. i like him to be strong. =) so sexy =) lol

[ikayto]

lets see......i think i fit most of those options ahah except the nice body, volleyball season is over :(.......3.8 gpa and i is purdy

[smallymollyLINDA]

i picked the first one cuz i like the body of hiz....

[x hYpErRoSeY x]

what about being funny? i love guys that can make me laugh

same- alot more buh thaz one of them

[xoterezza]

hm. sense of humour isn't their so I chose relates to you in some way =) I think it would be easier to get along if we have something in common, ne?

-Teressa

[emrzz09]

it isnt on the list, but my main thing is a sense of humor. if i find an amazing guy, but he cant make me laugh, i couldnt have a future with him that sounded weird, but its true. a guy has gotta make me laugh

[Archana]

sense of humor, and has to be able to keep a conversation going.

they have to be chill enough to be a friend :)

[phatty]

a little bit of all. tall, nice body, cute face, smart, funny, nice, yanooo

[angel-roh]

i usually like a guy who is

patient, friendly, nice, helpful, loves children, love helping the elders & the poor & the sick, korean, loves dancing and singing, outgoing and not shy, gotta make a girl laugh, taller than me, not fat and not skinny just middle, smart not REALLY smart like albert einstein, cute face, and knows how to make someone smile^^;; and a guy who doesnt flirt no girls... and alwais ask where he is going and permission if he can go with his girl friends...hehe im glad justin is all of them...lols...it was hard to search a guy like him...hehe

[aZn_hApPy05]

i like a guy who likes the same kind of music like me ( linkin park, hoobastank, taking back sunday, etc.) and if hes got that going then i have to like his shoes (chucks, vans, etc.) when i see a guy i think is cute, i check out his smile then go straight to his shoes. thats how i do things....

[pm3k]

what's with the 2 votes of "being popular" <-- that doesn't mean anything whoever that voted for that...

[cleec]

I love when a guy is funny but doens't try too hard it just flows. He just know how to make people laugh without even trying to. I always want him to be able to have a good converastion and actually make an effort to talk to me

[weirdness]

i onno. =\ i like boys who arent evil n they make me laugh n theyre not selfish n yea. =\ not too bad looking neither. just someone you feel warm when ur around them

[pbear]

Someone who is easy to talk to, so I guess...someone who relates to me?

[ComradeRed]

what's with the 2 votes of "being popular" <-- that doesn't mean anything whoever that voted for that...

Popularity is power, and power is sweet.

[sunissed14127]

i mostly want guy who can make me laugh when im sad,listen to me when i have problems,and can relate to me <-me dreaming of the perfect guy

[mouse_3k]

it isnt on the list, but my main thing is a sense of humor

yah. i love guys who make me laugh. Guys have to be nice to others and not shy *unlike me..* but if they can get the true me out instead of hiding, then it a +. my babi has all the qualities i need. He makes me laugh like everyday, im myself around him *I can burp like a pig infront of him*, he makes me feel good.

Also, I like a guy who isnt like *oh ur a girl, i cant play dead arm* type. He gotta like wrestle with me and stuff but still be nice and sweet and gentle about it. Like if i punch him (playfully), he gotta either laugh it off or playfully punch me back. I like playin rough games wit my bf. so perfect for me

[x AZN D0RKii x]

the first one how would you fall for the guy if you don`t like how he looks ? i know looks aren`t everything but would you just go up to someone your not interested in and start flirting .. ? so yeaa ..

[xsweetdreams12x]

He's gotta have looks and a personality. I usually fall for guys with baby blue eyes... lol But honesty and understands what I'm saying without me having to explain everything is really good too.

[conster]

i like it wen a guy is considerate and generous to everyone around him =) thats a great plus

[lilsammie13]

i put as he relates to me .. cuz im interested in guys with a good personality and a good sense of humor .. but attractive at the same time lol .. and i think that the good sense of humor relates to me a lot!

[happygoluckyng]

I like some guys that are really sensitive not afraid to cry with a hot body.....lol but some guys that are hot with a good personality, funny, and a good dancer.....

[perdyperdybirdy]

they'd have to talk to me, not just listen, but listening is also good. honest. nice to others, a friend, eyes yo. definatly the eyes. has to be rip, long hair (u know, the skaterish hair). sweet, caring, has a sense of humor, understanding, intellagent, abs man...abs....taller then me. won't freak out if i try to hug him. has to hug me back and say good night. has to be able to talk on the phone. can't be cruel. funny. yeAH i expect alot in a guy. now im running out of things to say.

[sammi rules you]

I look for a guy who shows that he cares about people and doesn't try to act tough all of the time. Even if he's not sentimental all of the time, he shows it when he needs to.

[dani41790]

i like a guy who relates to me

[whomps]

Eh.. I think they have to be sweet. And make me laugh. But I laugh a lot xD

[*CEP*]

Money...it's all about the money.
You have to pay me to swing that way.
Unless you're Brad Pitt. Then all you gotta do is say, " hi "

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[swtpumkinpie]

most of the above. i like the eyes and mouth. a good personailty and humor. easygoing. can be serious but isn't allllll the time.

[xx angelbabu xx]

any guy that can make me smile and laugh is good..

[redpeony]

uuuuuummm lets see here:

first and foremost he has to be respective. not just to me but to everyone in general. he also has to be able to make me piss in my pants laughing, because of course that is extremely vital. being smart helps (more so in making decisions than getting good grades in school). Willing to try new things. not too shy, good hygiene is a pretty important one as well. Honest and charming, sweet and understanding. he should be in shape but not scrawny. not expect me to change anything about me. Not controlling or a jerk. Finally he must be willing to watch all 82 hockey games a season with me WITH NO COMPLAINING.

there's the perfect guy for ya.

[enticing.]

they have to keep me laughing, or else it's just kinda boring.

[whiteandyellowsn...]

so there where previous forums about the diff type of guys you like... but this one i was wondering what you gals out there look for in a relationship...like in a guy.....
*piggie*

[inquisitive_]

Someone who can be my boyfriend as well as my friend. Someone funny and who isn't afraid of acting like a cornball.

[xsweetdreams12x]

-Loves animals
-Hott
-Taller than me
-Sensitive
-Brings me roses
-Loving

[LiNHy POO]

personality
- sense of humor
- independent
- intellgent
- respectful of my choices and beliefs
- caring
- romantic

as for looks
- dark hair
- cute smile
- nice arms
- tall

[pm3k]

personality
- sense of humor
- independent
- intellgent
- respectful of my choices and beliefs
- caring
- romantic

as for looks
- dark hair
- cute smile
- nice arms
- tall

what do u mean by nice arms?

like.. are u talking muscles or the amount of hair he has

[Fashionista225]

intelligence, ability to hold up a conversation about a lot of different things, sense of humor, trustworthy and trusting, honesty, loves to have fun, somewhat dangerous

Taller than me, nice hair, lips and eyes, clean, good kisser

haha i could go on for days!

[*CEP*]

- Topics Merged -

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[True_Love]

i picked related to me. :laugh
btw how come my av. isnt showing.

[LiNHy POO]

what do u mean by nice arms?

like.. are u talking muscles or the amount of hair he has

haha.. meaning muscles are nice..

[sweetbaby109]

eyes, smile, hair, height, smart, funny, outgoing, nice, a great body and...i think thats it lol

[froglvr4]

must i repeat myself?

first you go up to her with money in your hand. then you give her the money. then you ask for a hug. but if she doesnt give it to you, give her more money. and then if she still doesnt give it to you, try her best friend.

[lilphoenix]

I chosed: Relates to you somehow...

My guy has to understand me, and that would lead to respectfulness.

Or else the relationship wouldn't work out.

But I wouldn't know, I haven't dated b/c well... the 'right' guy hasn't come yet.

[Just_Dream]

I say Relates to you somehow because I want someone who knows how I feel about things and can understand my weirdness. I don't want a guy who's judgemental towards me. PLUS, I think guys who try so hard to look good and such are really full of themselves. And guys who are smart, they might think of me as an idiot, even if I get good grades. I am not that knowledgeable. I just get good grades becaues I DO my work. But there are so many people who are so intelligent and such that they would look down upon me and judge me. But there are some guys who are smart who won't do that, and those are hard to find, IMO. My bf's sorta smart, just really lazy Ah well, I am lazy too hahas. SEE< another thing we have in common! Bleh and my bf's wierd, so we share so many qualities.

[BeautifulSoul]

I like guys who are nice, honest, loyal, and patient. Otherwise, they're just like a piece of trash I throw away.

[dfly112]

heres some stuff grls say dey like bout me:
tall
protective
caring/nice
good personality
athletic
funni
crz sumtimes
dark natural skin color w/out goin out in the sun

[nlgrl]

relates to u somehow....

[JoelyMoleyLoVeR]

i like for a guy to be funny and not afraid to be his self and to tell what he likes and what he doesnt like. i wouldnt want a guy to hold something back that bothers him just because he doesnt want to break up. and i dont want a guy with like huge muscles...i like wimps i dont really care if the guy is hot or not i usually like guys that are different. and i would like to have some things in common with the guy like to be into the same kind of music. thats alot to ask for in a guy...

[cutielilsuga]

i dig their body
and then i look at their personality and stuff
but the bod is the one

[tallaznkate]

WHEN i FiRST SEE THEM, iT'S LOOKS BUT THEN i LOSE iNTEREST iF THEY'RE NOT iNTELLiGENT.

[slicin_dicin]

haha his lookz~

[morgs8384]

hrmm when i found my boyfriend, i was looking for sensitivity in a guy. because then he will try and understand me more. sooo i looked for that, a sense of humor and ofcourse his bright blue eyes helped

[xnastyninjagrlx]

I think appreance somewhat matters. We have to admit it's only human instinct to look at the outer appreance first...BUT qualities that really count in the long run are a sense of humor, sensitivity, intelligence, and honesty.

[huney8o8]

well physical appearence iz alwayz a good thing.....but he has to have a good personality! he needs to be honest...i need to be able to trust him! he needz to be able 2 be himself....around meeh and his frenz! umm....therez other stuff....i jus can't think rite now!

[1--GIRL]

Everything you said in the poll!

[mellyshelly]

I voted for "being patient, calm and nice to others". I dont know why, but I'm very attracted to guys like that.. no matter how you look (jus like not meat stickin out of your shirt)..and guys who can sing <33

[*x1227x*]

Hmm..

Personality:
* Funny
* Average Intelligence
* Sweet
* Loves me for me
* Doesn't act different when around his friends
* Is similar to my personality

Looks:
* Cute
* Nice smile
* Braces [or]
* Straight/Clean teeth
* A bit of muscles
* 4 pac

There are some more, but these are the ones that I just thought of.

[y0urelectrikk]

someone who has the same interests... and a good personallity. But looks are a bonus!

[mmhmichelle]

Isn't it all for personality first,then appearance after that ?
Well,that's how i move.

[*yrrnotelekktric*]

the ability to make me laugh :

[synthase]

if he is faithful, loyal
and knows how to trea a girl

[angelrevelation]

I said 'being kind'. of course, other characteristics are important. i love funny, sweet guys, but who have a serious, deep side. they also have to relate to me somehow, and be thoughtful and have some sort of passion. other then that, physical attraction is a plus.

[unconfirmed_exis...]

I personally dig guys that have/is

-confidence
I highly admire anyone really with that.
(Course too much of that isn't too great either)

-bright and or creative
Eh, I'm not the brightest kid on the block myself
but I like those that are, I feel like I can always
learn from them and start up good habits.
Plus that's what urberly attracts me to a person,
someone that stands out by thinking outside the box.

-comfortable person being around
Everyone has a different preference,
but it's always good to be have someone
that compliment the sort of person you are
so when you are with the person it won't be so awkward.

-naturally a good person
No one wants to call a guy that drinks until he's throwing up places,
comes home with HIV positive prostitutes, and overall an bitter/abusive guy.
But nobody wants a person that goes around pretends to be bambi
just to get the person they like's attention. So it would be helpful
if people be themselves so it would be easier to
determine who's naturally a loyal heart dropping charmer
and who's the smelly pond-scum.

Eh that's all I managed to think up of.

[*Intercourse.*]

Relates to you somehow, intelligence, being kind. Its kind of hard to choose. I usually just say personality wise you can get along with, so shares certain qualities with you and also being smart. On the poll I choose his intelligence. I love creativeness as well, and someone that I can be 100% comfortable being myself around. If you can't be yourself then why bother?

[lalalalala12345]

i voted for Being patient, calm and nice to others. i would hate it if my bf was the opposite of that.

[shortnsweet88]

I chose that he has to be able to relate to me somehow.
If you are curious about what girls like...well what I like is:

+Great Sense of Humor
+Nice
+Sweet
+Confident
+Smart
+Good Looking
+and brush your freaking teeth...guys with good teeth is a turn on. :)

[michellerrific]

He should be good looking and nice of course but i really like a guy who shares a lot of interests with me. It adds more of a personal touch to a friendship/relationship.

[multifaceted]

he hasta look somewhat decent. In case you end up marrying, that is the first face a girl sees.

intelligent and knows what his priorities are

funny and romantic at the right times.

knows how to keep his eyes off of other women. lol

[Gypsy Eyes]

Romantic, funny and loyal are key for me.

[yeah toast]

He has to have morals.

[timeflies51]

relating to me somehow, most definitely.

whenever i find out something about someone like that is just like me, it just makes me all that more attracted to them.

having similar interests does help with conversation and such. but for me, i want someone who is exactly or almost exactly me. some people are like, "why would you want to date yourself?" because i like myself. i'm comfortable with myself. since i'm comfortable with my own attributes, i'm comfortable with someone who has similar attributes as me.

so yeah, that's what's most attractive for me.

[RAWRstephishere]

I just like a good personality and pretty eyes. :D

[alysaphobia]

Relating to me.
But it's nice to have a healthy balance of all those traits, really.

[panther]

He has to have morals.

Thats the only thing i dont have!

[EmoEyelinerx]

Patient, calm and nice to others. But also he would have to relate to me somehow and have a good physical appearance.

[Imlearning]

A guy that can make me laugh.

But at the same time he knows how to be serious. A guy I can hang out with, when im around my friends. or when hes around his friends. and he doesnt try to go to far with everything.

A gentleman def. Opens doors foor me, stands up when i leave the dinner table.

Hah. yeah im really old fashioned.

I just would want a guy that loves me for who i am and who i can talk to about anything & everything. And would be willing to listen.

Someone who i don't have to worry about looking worse than other girls when i'm with him cause i know he loves me & only me and thinks even when i look a mess.. that im the most beautiful girl on the planet.


Good looking, smart, confident, but not cocky, taller than me, caring, sweet to other people, morals and please make sure you dont have yellow teeth. alot of guys i date have teeth like that & its disgusting.


Thats alot to live up to eh?

[xBUTTMUNCHx]

being nice, calm, patient and somewhat can relate to me. YET. he does have to look good(: lmfao.

[kimmytree]

Someone who is courteous, honest, kind, spontaneous (but then knows when to be serious), clean (self explanitory), half-way intelligent, romantic, supportive, mature.... gahhhh. I could go on forever.

[NgocQuyen]

i love Thuan because he understands me the most. he's someone i can run to with any problem and he'll help me through it. he wouldn't turn his back on me, and he can make me smile&laugh no matter what. he's just amazing how about that? ;]

[Rachel]

Romantic, funny and loyal are key for me.

Me too. They have to make me laugh or else it's done. Romance keeps the relationship fun. Loyalty is also key because I am never putting up with a cheater again.

[LisaM2007]

I picked the first one but only cos having a good sense of humor wasnt there!

[KayleighKins]

I'm going to go ahead and say that all those things matter to me the most except for "Being a popular guy in school".

Ya, I go for my idea of perfection.

Although I voted for "Being patient, calm and nice to others."

Because I need someone who doesn't have my temper.