my BF just broke up with me.. |
 Jul 2 2004, 04:55 PM
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alli  Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108  |
ya umm my bf just broke up with me today...and it like realli hurts..i cant stop thinkin bout it..and i feel like it was my fault he broke up with me...i cant stop crying..and i think im depressed...is there something rong with me ?? help!!
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Jul 2 2004, 05:01 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
aww im sorry to hear that
 and theres nothing wrong [i hope] maybe you cant get use to the pain. it hurts the most in the beginning but when you stop seeing him and thinking bout him it hurts less and eventually you will get over him. it mite take some time tho. its best to go hang out with your friends more often and dont spend too much time alone cuz lots of people do silly things when their depressed. dont think bout it too much. if he was a good boyfriend he wouldnt break ur heart. im sure youll find someone who can treat you better that wont break ur heart. but you gotta have paitience. it takes time. hope you feel better soon. dont do anything silly 
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Jul 2 2004, 05:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,755 |
FIRST POST BY A GUY!
nooooo lol well any way. . . na its natural to think about him and cry. dont worry too much though. give it time, you will get over him 
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Jul 2 2004, 05:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
sorry to hear that..
 no nothings wrong with you...a lot of other girls would cry if their bf broke up w/ them especially if they really liked him |
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Jul 2 2004, 05:06 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
no, nothing's wrong with you- its natural to feel that way after a breakup. i'm so sorry about what happened, and i understand what you're going through. this also happened to me a couple of months ago. however, in time, you'll get over him. don't worry- you'll find someone better. feel better!
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Jul 2 2004, 05:22 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
moving to relationships...
 well you should move on dear!! there are plenty of guys in this world, and i think that if you cry and stuff, its like giving the advantage to that jerk. just try to be happy even if its hard, and show that jerk that youcan live without him!!  i know it must hurt, but it will hurt more if you dont let go...
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Jul 2 2004, 05:37 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,505 |
nothiings wrong w/ u at all.all u need is time. don't worry you'll bounce back. in the meantime try to have fun. go out wit sum friends. and he's probally not the one for you. he doesn't deserve you. hope u feel better!!
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Jul 2 2004, 06:00 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
y would that be wrong? lol that jus means u really like him and u miss him its okay.... ur still young, get over it and start checking out hott guys =P
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Jul 2 2004, 07:33 PM
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 -nicollette- Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,309 |
QUOTE(laur3nw @ Jul 2 2004, 5:04 PM) sorry to hear that.. no nothings wrong with you...a lot of other girls would cry if their bf broke up w/ them especially if they really liked him definitley! |
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Jul 2 2004, 08:48 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,406 |
cheer up.. its okay.. its not the end of the world.. yah i know moving on is hard.. jus dont be so hard on yourself..
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Jul 2 2004, 10:24 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
Theres nothing wrong with you. Youll feel better...eventually, it takes time.
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Jul 2 2004, 11:51 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
hey, nothing's wrong with you. it's perfectly natural to feel this way. i know you probably miss him, but the only thing you can do now is to do stuff that'll take your mind off of him... go out with a bunch of friends, see some movies, shop, go to Six Flags, anything will do. who knows? maybe you'll find someone that's even better than ur ex while you're hanging out with your buddies.
hope you feel better soon and that things will eventually work out~ p.s. don't blame yourself for the breakup. he's the one that stopped trying, not you. cheer up =\ |
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Jul 3 2004, 12:06 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
im sooo sorry to hear that!!!!
but there is nothing wrong with you!!!!!! i felt the same way when my ex broke up with me too!!!! all it takes is sum healing time... and you'll be back on your feet b4 ya know it!!!! i guess it wasnt meant to be.... dont worry there are better guys out there!!! |
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Jul 3 2004, 12:17 AM
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There should not be anything wrong with you because there has to be a reason of why you guys split up and it must be both of each others fault so dont worry. You should talk it out with your boy friend before the situation will get worst. I hope you and your boy friend will be back together soon. Good luck !!!
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Jul 3 2004, 01:13 AM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
IT AIN`T YOUR FAULT.
why the heck did he break up with you in the first place?? did you ask him?? was it a good reason?? don`t push yourself for this. MOVE ON!!! he ain`t EVERYTHING. if you were like in your 20s then that`s an excuse to be all sad. but if you`re still in your teens then WTF? you still got your whole life!! |
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Jul 3 2004, 01:16 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
omg im soooooo srry that happend
i hope u feel better and no its not ur fault. its hys loss
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Jul 3 2004, 03:11 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
Aww I'm sorry hun. But just be brave and you'll get through this. Time heals all wounds.
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