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post Jan 22 2009, 10:30 PM
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post Jan 22 2009, 10:44 PM
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post Jan 22 2009, 10:45 PM
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yeap right infront of my eyes. i lost my best friends. sandra & justin. grrr ): anywho, i tried to keep it alive by keeping touch with them by texting and trying to say hi. but it just died, they gave up on me way before it started -___-! so sad, i'm gonna cry in my corner! ugh, lol, oh welll. it happens!
 
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post Jan 22 2009, 11:11 PM
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I watched a friend of mine die and it was probably one of the hardest things to do.
it was akward too cause i was in the car behind him and a drunk driver hit his car and then crashed so i got out to check on the accident and it looked really bad and all that and i go to pull him out and i pull outta the car his arm and then realize his arm isseparated from his body and then i find the rest of him crushed into the tree next to the car barley breathing and barley alive and all that and the other driver was in critical too and i mean my and my other friend matt were sittin there freakin out tryin to calm each other down and get help and i mean it really sucks tellin ya friend things will be iight when they don't look like it and you know it won't be but it's even harder when they know they are gonna die and they start givin u their last words and all that tellin you that they were glad they got to know you and all that

that night i cried my eyes out cause i lost my best friend and that shit was hard cause he died in my arms before the paramedics got there and the other guy like barley made it.

it's hard to deal with but it's been years since then and I mean I jus do what i can to prevent drunk driving cause i hate it and it's the worst way to die since it's so unfair
so i never drink before i drive and i never let my friends drink and drive.
 
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post Jan 22 2009, 11:23 PM
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dude thats sad :'[

I watched a couple of friendship's die. My bestfriend and her boy broke up after a year and a couple month relationship. I was close to her boyfriend we would always chill and grumb on food and have inside jokes but he had to go cheat and F up everything. He used to be a good friend til he F'd up. We drifted and never really spoke after that. Then a year later me and my friends saw him again and it was awkward. We jst look'd at eachother and didn't say anything. I really wish that we we're cool again and it would be the good times again...
 
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post Jan 22 2009, 11:33 PM
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QUOTE(Tsukuyomi-No-Mokoto @ Jan 22 2009, 11:11 PM) *
I watched a friend of mine die and it was probably one of the hardest things to do.
it was akward too cause i was in the car behind him and a drunk driver hit his car and then crashed so i got out to check on the accident and it looked really bad and all that and i go to pull him out and i pull outta the car his arm and then realize his arm isseparated from his body and then i find the rest of him crushed into the tree next to the car barley breathing and barley alive and all that and the other driver was in critical too and i mean my and my other friend matt were sittin there freakin out tryin to calm each other down and get help and i mean it really sucks tellin ya friend things will be iight when they don't look like it and you know it won't be but it's even harder when they know they are gonna die and they start givin u their last words and all that tellin you that they were glad they got to know you and all that

that night i cried my eyes out cause i lost my best friend and that shit was hard cause he died in my arms before the paramedics got there and the other guy like barley made it.

it's hard to deal with but it's been years since then and I mean I jus do what i can to prevent drunk driving cause i hate it and it's the worst way to die since it's so unfair
so i never drink before i drive and i never let my friends drink and drive.


awhhhhh! that's so sad ):
 
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post Jan 22 2009, 11:49 PM
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Yes. We were best friends at the time & I didn't want our friendship to end but she just started to change. She was acting like a real bitch & started talking shit. Whenever we see each other now we'll either ignore each other or say hi.
 
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post Jan 23 2009, 04:03 AM
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post Jan 24 2009, 12:05 AM
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1. Try to become better friends with him or her again; it doesn't always work, but it's always worth a try. Bring up conversations with them. Compliment them, be honest with them, tell them what they'd like to hear; don't be rude or obnoxious.
2. Find out the extent of the "separation." If your friend acts just like old times when they're around you alone, then that just means they're showing off to their "new" popular friends.
3. Let them know that you feel they've changed, but don't emphasize it too much. Send you friend the message, then drop it. If they really want to be your friend again, then they will be.
4. Remind them of 'the good times' you've spent together. Evoke all their memories, bring up funny incidents and basically, just chat with them. Catch up on what you might have missed.
5. Moreover, make sure you aren't the one that has changed. If you are, I think you have some serious apologizing to do.
6. Make a new friend. If your old friend is mean, why waste your time trying to be friends with someone who hates you?


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* Most of the time it's obvious if they are slipping away from you, you can most of the time tell by them either ignoring you, not inviting you to social things, or just all around being mean.


Things You'll Need

* A good attitude
* A strong heart
* The ability not to cry over them

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* Never try too hard.
* Don't try to start a fight. Their friends are usually on their side, and they will win.
* Make sure you get the message across that they've changed, but don't make that the only subject you talk about.
 
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