play it safe or take the risk? |
 Jan 22 2009, 01:39 PM
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What do you do? Just curious on what people think.
Say you're having fun just being close with someone and flirting but nothing serious. Do you a) just let things be, and enjoy whats there or b) take the risk and try for something more resulting either in getting together or just losing what you had in the first place and making things awkward I've seen this situation happen a lot and I don't know what decision I would make so I'm just curious to see what y'all have to say, haha. 
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Jan 22 2009, 04:37 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
i think i would choose A. i wouldn't want to ruin anything and make the first move. but then again, i'll miss my chance. but hey, if the partner wanted the girl, the partner would make the first move first i guess.
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Jan 22 2009, 04:39 PM
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you only live once
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Jan 22 2009, 04:44 PM
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I would just let things happen. Sometimes relationships unfold without having to take risks.
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Jan 22 2009, 05:02 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
^i agreee :]
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Jan 22 2009, 05:35 PM
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I think i would choose A
i did have one time though it seemed my guy friend was "closer" to me than usual, i didn't mind because he was doing it and i knew that our frendhsip would not have gotten effected |
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Jan 22 2009, 06:10 PM
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Amberific. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
QUOTE( @ Jan 22 2009, 06:06 PM)  Its all timing and choice of words. Not too early, not too late. Depending on the person, you go in gently or you go in hard. You make it sound like war.Love is a battlefield... </80s music> |
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Jan 22 2009, 06:26 PM
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id let things happen unless theres a good reason not to
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Jan 23 2009, 04:32 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
dang, you use good words or analogies (i think thats what it's called) (: ^
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Jan 23 2009, 09:29 PM
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Does he go to school with you or work with you? Either way, I think you should take the risk. Flirting's fun for a while, but you'll never know what could happen unless you take a chance.
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