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 Jul 1 2004, 09:55 PM
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my boyfriend's halfway across the world doing some study program in china. and i won't see him for another month and a half and then he's going straight to college.
 is it a lost cause? i'm not sure if i should end things while they're still good or wait for him to find some smarter, better, nicer college girl and forget about me. rawr. this sucks.
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Jul 1 2004, 10:30 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
hey hey, don't be so upset.
It's not a lost cause if you reallly like him. I've had a long distance relationship and it went pretty well (for the most part)considering he was 3000 miles away. (it ended recently, but don't let that scare you. i think it was worth trying, and you might have better luck!) Anyways, college kids have a lot of time off (winter break = 1 month), so it's not like you won't see him for a long period of time. one thing tho, it takes a lot of time and energy to make long distance relationships work (there might be times where you feel like giving up, but if you both keep trying, then it should be ok). so if you're up for the challenge, go for it. don't worry about other girls stealing him away either. if you both like each other a lot, then things should be fine. besides, you wouldn't want to regret ending things with such a great guy, would you? best of luckies =] |
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Jul 2 2004, 01:53 AM
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 t a c o s Group: Member Posts: 1,187 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,122 |
wow how long have ya'll gone out? i went into my 2nd yr of college with a relationship of only 2 months and it sucked. i can't do long distance. i didn't love her, and i missed her too much. i think the more you love the guy the stronger you are and the more you'll be able to wait =)
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Jul 2 2004, 08:33 AM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
Long distance is hard, but you can always try...
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Jul 2 2004, 09:26 AM
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Yes true...at least try.
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Jul 2 2004, 01:46 PM
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i really hope things work out. if he loves you seriously, he won't do something stupid to hurt you. i mean you'll see him a couple of months or something so you shouldn't be scared
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Jul 2 2004, 02:17 PM
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QUOTE(mai_z @ Jul 2 2004, 8:33 AM) Long distance is hard, but you can always try... it's hard , but never know what's gonna happen? |
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Jul 2 2004, 04:03 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
Hey, if you two love & trust each other so much, I bet you guys can make it through.
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Jul 2 2004, 04:26 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
if you both really care about each other the distance won't ruin what you two share .. have faith in the relationship .. as long as you stay faithful and wait for him i'm sure he'll do the same .. best of luck .. try to write and keep in touch with each other everyday when possible and it should be just fine :D ..
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Jul 2 2004, 05:59 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i think its worth the try if u really like him, its better to try and fail than not to try at all
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Jul 2 2004, 06:43 PM
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Its true...keep in a heart of gold for him...and see soon...when he comes back that he truly loves u with his heart....not to be negative or anything.....i do now live across the world now from my ex.(now) since i found out she found someone new. Even though i was coming back soon.....but hey dont worry....belive wat is in ur heart cause only a faithful heart can make wishes come true.
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Jul 2 2004, 07:20 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
dont worry if you love him and he loves you he wont fine another girl besides you pretty attractive lols but yeah just dont give up hope if you love him good luck
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Jul 2 2004, 10:28 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
if you love him then its worth it. my fiances going 5 hours away next year to college from my college. :(
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Jul 3 2004, 03:26 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
Long distance is hard yeah... But if you both love each other, then it's worth a shot.
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