Are you happy? |
 Jan 7 2009, 07:49 PM
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 here, here, and here  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103  |
Are you happy:
Being single? In relationship that you are now? In a relationship with another person? Hooking up? or Married? Why?  Honestly, I always get asked by my mother if I am happy being single. She doesn't know that I'm not. I would like to be in a relationship but technically I'm afraid to commit. |
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Jan 7 2009, 07:55 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
I'm happy being single, because at this point in my life I am not a commitment person. I don't need someone else to make me happy. I have enough things to focus on.
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Jan 7 2009, 09:00 PM
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 Has a PhD in horribleness Group: Member Posts: 866 Joined: Sep 2008 Member No: 686,301 |
I'm content, I wouldn't mind a relationship, but I wouldn't say I need or want one.
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Jan 7 2009, 09:28 PM
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 Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
I'm happy with my boyfriend of 5 years. Whenever I'm with him, I can't stop smiling and it's like a shot of happy drugs with him.
You don't HAVE to commit! You can go on dates and get to know different guys until you find one that's awesome enough. =) |
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Jan 7 2009, 09:33 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
Ive been really happy that Ive been with my boyfriend. Today we have officially been together for 8 months and we both couldn't be happier.
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Jan 8 2009, 12:26 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 70 Joined: Nov 2008 Member No: 695,640 |
i have times that i was happy in my relationship.
but there were more times that i cried. |
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Jan 8 2009, 02:57 AM
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 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,155 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,404 |
QUOTE(karmakiller @ Jan 7 2009, 04:55 PM)  I'm happy being single, because at this point in my life I am not a commitment person. I don't need someone else to make me happy. I have enough things to focus on. This.Sure, it'd be nice to have someone, but it's not my biggest priority right now. |
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Jan 8 2009, 03:00 AM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
I'm not happy. I mean when I'm single, having a relationship doesn't really come to my mind that often. It's whatever to me. But it's just those damn holidays that come by around, like Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years, Valentines, that really makes me sad, when I have nobody special to spend it with. =\
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Jan 8 2009, 03:17 AM
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 Vae Victis Group: Official Member Posts: 1,416 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,227 |
I'm set on being single because I am against the concept of having a relationship with somebody else. So far, my track record is near perfect (not unblemished because there was the shameful time when I went to a school dance).
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Jan 8 2009, 03:18 AM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
^ I can't picture you at a school dance. Do you have pics for proof? Or did you burn them immediately to eliminate any future references and evidence that you attended a school dance.
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Jan 8 2009, 04:24 AM
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Vae Victis Group: Official Member Posts: 1,416 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,227 |
I don't know where it is. You'll have to get your propaganda images elsewhere.
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Jan 8 2009, 04:42 AM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
I'm completely happy with where I am right now in my relationship. It could go further, and it probably will go further.
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Jan 8 2009, 07:31 AM
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 This bag is not a toy. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,090 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 583,108 |
QUOTE(Reidar @ Jan 8 2009, 02:17 AM) I'm set on being single because I am against the concept of having a relationship with somebody else. So far, my track record is near perfect (not unblemished because there was the shameful time when I went to a school dance). Uh oh.. Sounds like you and Dee are having issues. Do you want to talk about it? That's what friends are for. ..I'm one to make fun of other people, I'm really hung up on someone who doesn't want to be with me. Or rather, someone who wanted to be with me for about a month and a half and then decided he wasn't ready to be in a relationship. (No, I'm not happy.) |
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Jan 8 2009, 04:50 PM
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This bag is not a toy. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,090 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 583,108 |
QUOTE( @ Jan 8 2009, 06:42 AM) I'm going to punch this man in the face. If punching him in the face will make him change his mind, then be my guest. 
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Jan 8 2009, 06:38 PM
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DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
QUOTE( @ Jan 8 2009, 06:42 AM) I'm going to punch this man in the face. You and me both, then we'll Dani out to dinner  (dun worry, I'll steal his wallet, so I'll pay) |
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Jan 8 2009, 07:31 PM
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here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
QUOTE(Tung @ Jan 8 2009, 03:00 AM) I'm not happy. I mean when I'm single, having a relationship doesn't really come to my mind that often. It's whatever to me. But it's just those damn holidays that come by around, like Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years, Valentines, that really makes me sad, when I have nobody special to spend it with. =\ This is exactly how I outlook on it.  Libertie- Guys are jerks and girls are bitches majority of the time.  I'm having a hard time committing because I have hard time trusting them.. |
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Jan 8 2009, 07:51 PM
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poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
QUOTE(libertie @ Jan 8 2009, 04:50 PM) If punching him in the face will make him change his mind, then be my guest. aww 
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Jan 8 2009, 08:43 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
i have a girlfriend who works with me 5 days a week..outside of work i see her maybe once a week..shes muslim so she cant be runnin around hella late or early in the morning like my other girlfriends...i dont see her enough, im happy when im with her for that one day...errr... haha other wise its pretty much misery
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Jan 8 2009, 09:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,071 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,748 |
I don't know actually. I've been in long-term relationships for soo long that I'm not really used to being single anymore, as bad as that sounds haha. These past few weeks have been the longest I've been single since I was 14/15....soooo yeah.
I'm not happy but not really upset at the situation either. I'm enjoying being single but I do see possibilities in the future and miss parts of being in a relationship, but I also know I need to take a break and stay single for awhile. |
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Jan 8 2009, 11:33 PM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
Super happy that I'm in the relationship that I've been in for the past year and half or so and I don't miss my single life whatsoever.
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Jan 10 2009, 01:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 5,880 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,382 |
QUOTE(Tung @ Jan 8 2009, 02:00 AM) I'm not happy. I mean when I'm single, having a relationship doesn't really come to my mind that often. It's whatever to me. But it's just those damn holidays that come by around, like Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years, Valentines, that really makes me sad, when I have nobody special to spend it with. =\ 
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Jan 10 2009, 02:37 PM
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 that's what she said Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 |
QUOTE(Tung @ Jan 8 2009, 03:00 AM) I'm not happy. I mean when I'm single, having a relationship doesn't really come to my mind that often. It's whatever to me. But it's just those damn holidays that come by around, like Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years, Valentines, that really makes me sad, when I have nobody special to spend it with. =\ word. |
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Jan 10 2009, 03:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,645 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,975 |
I'm not happy. Technically I'm "single", but I don't feel entirely single and I want the "in a relationship" status. It gets lonely.
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Jan 10 2009, 04:14 PM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
im happy being single but i want a fling or whatever you kids call it.
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Jan 10 2009, 10:56 PM
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This bag is not a toy. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,090 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 583,108 |
QUOTE(Elba @ Jan 10 2009, 02:24 PM) I'm not happy. Technically I'm "single", but I don't feel entirely single and I want the "in a relationship" status. It gets lonely. Basically my situation, unless I'm misinterpreting you here. Even though we aren't dating, we still spend a lot of time together just as friends, and I feel like I'm taken because I can't let myself date anyone else right now. It sucks all around though, because it hurts being around him and it hurts when I'm not with him, so I'm not really sure how to handle it. |
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Jan 11 2009, 05:28 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 346 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 668,862 |
I am happy in my relationship~!
He's my first boyfriend, and I'm his first girlfriend, and it's already been a year and... High school sweethearts, ftw? |
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Jan 11 2009, 02:03 PM
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 never settle for less than what you deserve. Group: Member Posts: 485 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,920 |
im happy with dating/relationship i have with my guy right now..i know it'll be super special when im official with him soon.
for me though, i found myself happy either way but i think im a little more happier with somebody. not like theres a need for me to be with somebody if i was single but its always nice to know that you have one more other person to care and think about you..etc. but when i was single for a couple times, i was happy and way less stressed out bc i wouldnt have to think and worry about anybody, get paranoid about what they were doing..etc. |
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Jan 11 2009, 02:42 PM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
Im happy with being single right now but thats just cuz i can't see myself being in any relationship except for with this guy. But as far as me and him go, im not so happy
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Jan 12 2009, 01:13 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 944 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 663,413 |
Im happy being single right now because I am still trying to fully discover who I am and to love myself fully. They do say it is impossible to love another without loving yourself first. So, in the (near) future I would like to find someone for me. Im not looking though, I am waiting for God to shove someone in my path. :D
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Jan 12 2009, 04:41 AM
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we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
like a pimpppp.
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Jan 12 2009, 05:20 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 521 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,557 |
i've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 months. this is a record, i hate relationships & usually avoid them, but i guess he's pretty swell.
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Jan 16 2009, 06:52 PM
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 CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
I should be happy that I'm single and can do whatever I want when I want with no strings attached. But to be honest, I miss the mushy crap but I'm not going to be a good boyfriend anytime soon. So I gotta say it's ok but could be better.
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Jan 17 2009, 11:54 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Dec 2008 Member No: 703,125 |
Yes I am Happy .
And what about you...... if you want to happy so visit for happiness and Rap Videos [/url]. |
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Jan 17 2009, 11:58 AM
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 Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
It took me a long time to get to the point where I could commit and be happy about it but at the moment, I'm there. It's nice living in the moment, not looking too far off into the future and enjoying myself and someone else's company on a regular basis.
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Jan 17 2009, 04:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jan 2009 Member No: 707,073 |
I was happy, until I think of my miserable love life xd.
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Jan 17 2009, 04:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 2,936 Joined: Sep 2008 Member No: 683,235 |
i'm somewhat happy being single, but i wouldn't mind a relationship.
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Jan 23 2009, 04:39 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
QUOTE(sleepwalkerdreams @ Jan 11 2009, 05:28 AM) I am happy in my relationship~! He's my first boyfriend, and I'm his first girlfriend, and it's already been a year and... High school sweethearts, ftw? yesss (: for the win ^__^, lol i felt i had to answer. cause no on else did, and it was my duty as your friend to answer :D! and i'm happppy, but i wouldn't mind being in a scratched that, i don't want to be in a fling. i wouldn't want to get hurt. This post has been edited by shannlovin: Jan 23 2009, 04:41 PM |
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Jan 23 2009, 04:41 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
QUOTE(shannlovin @ Jan 23 2009, 01:39 PM) and i'm happppy, but i wouldn't mind being in a fling or relationship. <<-------------------------------------------- |
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Jan 23 2009, 11:58 PM
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 ◕ ◡ ◕ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,779 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 416,697 |
QUOTE(Tung @ Jan 23 2009, 04:41 PM) <<-------------------------------------------- |
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