I love him, it isn't fair |
 Dec 30 2008, 03:23 PM
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Senior Member  Group: Validating Posts: 60 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 134,567  |
I feel in love with this guy, Chad.
We had a relationship for almost 2 years, and I've really tried to move on. He wasn't sure how he felt, he wanted to date more, etc. So we both started dating again- and now I've FINALLY found a guy I'm remotely interested in, Joseph. Chad and I stayed friends, he came to me when he had problems, etc. My feelings for him never changed. He's single again, he knows I loved him, he knows I'm with Joseph, and now he's flirting with me again. I don't know what to do. I love him more than anyone else, but we could never get on the same page before. I don't want to ignore him, but I don't think it's fair to give up on Joseph when he's a really good guy too. Help a conflicted heart, please? |
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Dec 30 2008, 03:34 PM
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 BBM: 310ED181 Group: Member Posts: 613 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 671,976 |
Tell him your with Joseph, If chad really liked you he'd understand
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Dec 30 2008, 07:35 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
^ Agreed. Also if Chad waits until you're in a relationship to be flirtatious with you, it's a red flag. He knows how you feel about him and he should respect you enough to not make things difficult for you.
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Jan 4 2009, 04:52 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
I agree what they say, hope it helps! Chad should understandd (;
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Jan 4 2009, 08:28 PM
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 Hey, I'm Mike Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,241 |
I say go with what you really want if you don't you might end up regretting it. So if you still love Chad you gotta try again.
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Jan 5 2009, 01:26 AM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Chad is a douche bag. He saw you were moving on and is trying to step back in. I'd say HELL NO. There is a reason you broke up in the first place, don't let him just come in whenever he wants.
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Jan 5 2009, 01:56 AM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
He's manipulating you because you are a constant. He knows that as long as he continues to be nice to you, that he can get what he wants.
You'd be just as guilty as him if entertained his bullshit. |
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Jan 5 2009, 05:50 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jan 2009 Member No: 707,073 |
Depends, do you love Joseph more than Chad? Or do you love Chad more than Joseph?
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Jan 5 2009, 01:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 2,936 Joined: Sep 2008 Member No: 683,235 |
I think that...
If you really want to be with this guy Chad, you need to talk to him, and try to 'get on the same page' with him. And you should try to figure out who you want more, Mr.Chad, or Mr.Joseph. |
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