Best way to ask a girl out? Options

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

Whats the best way to ask a girl out? I posted this in both forum things, I asked a girl out like this ONLY ONCE, i wrote a poem about 20 lines and recited during lunch and asked her...im the freakishly shy too...god im never doing that again...i got rejected =(

[cutielilsuga]

haha eh its you again
also to not be over doing by sending her flowers and all that stuff
just be you man

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

lol its uuu i remember uuu,

[LiNHy POO]

hmm.. saying that you like her.. and if she wants to hang out sumtime... keep it casual but sweet!

[hybrid]

Yeah, make her feel comfortable around you.. and let her open up to you..

[!Battousai!]

u gotta compliment thm or say somethin nice and thn drop the bomb it always works! (most of the time fo me)

[dukesoccer07]

Just walk up and say "Sup, lets kick it"

[!Battousai!]

Just walk up and say "Sup, lets kick it"


^^dats funny lol

[LaZazn]

Well, I'm one of those freakishly shy people, but I managed to ask my gf out. I put a rose in her locker with a note. Then after she read the note, I walk up to her and ask would she go out with me. Yeah...



PS. I was her good friend so she gave me her locker combo. Not like I stalked her or anything.

[litoazndragon]

yes i am one of the shy ones..my poems work ..thank god...but anywho..they rite be urself..dun do anythin crazy to impress her

P.S i am a guy

[pm3k]

go for the opportunity of a slow dance with her at a school dance..

i dunno.. keep it a gradual slope up to the step where you say the words...?

i didn't really have to do much.. i kinda confirmed thru msn.. lol.. how lame is that? :wubs:

[ikayto]

Well, you cant just go up to a girl and ask her out. If you know her, it'd be less weirder if you didnt. In the case that you do know her, just get into a conversation with her then as you are about to leave or something just ask if she'd like to go see a movie/or grab a bite to eat.

my method ;p.....dont seem desperate...and KEEP UR COOL

[saintsaens]

Well, I'm one of those freakishly shy people, but I managed to ask my gf out. I put a rose in her locker with a note. Then after she read the note, I walk up to her and ask would she go out with me. Yeah...



PS. I was her good friend so she gave me her locker combo. Not like I stalked her or anything.

Uh-huh..right.

[ichiban]

why odnt you just scream, HEY LDY GO OUT WIMME! ..
lol

[newlyprofound]

Notes, don't work as far as I can tell. Maybe just getting to know someone and then try asking them out is way better.

Off-Topic Note:
:: cough :: Some of us are meant to be alone :: cough :: :( Wrote this girl I liked a note and one day I felt bold and I was going to talk to her and I saw her in the hallaway of my school. I called her name and I believe she saw me and then just like walked on. I guess I'm not really a person who really does want love though. I don't know.

[rnrn897]

i think its easier if shes ur friend.. cuz then u guys kno each other and kno ur similarites and stuff
but then thaz wut dates are for -- jus get to kno her more and get her to kno u // then ull kno if u really want her or not

[Mini]

Yeah, make her feel comfortable around you.. and let her open up to you..

totally. also, try to bring up something that is of interest to both her and you. then get to know her better and finally ask her out.

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

problem is once your a friend, your nothing more to SOME girls

[Justingamemaster]

say one of my good pick up lines...

• I may not be Fred Flintstone, but I bet I can make your bed rock.
  
• You might not be the best looking girl here, but beauty is only a light switch away.
  
• There must be something wrong with my eyes, I can't take them off you.
  
• Is it cold in here, or are you just happy to see me?
  
• Do you sleep on your stomach? No. Can I?
  
• Excuse me, miss, do you give head to strangers? No. Well, then, allow me to introduce myself.
  
• Do you work for UPS? Cause I swear I saw you checking out my package!
  
• Come on baby, sex is like pizza: Even if it's bad, it's still pretty good.
  
• I wish you were a carousel at Wal-Mart so I could ride you all day long for just a quarter!!
  
• If you stood in front of a mirror and help up 11 roses, you would see 12 of the most beautiful things in the world.
  
• How about you sit on my lap and we'll see what pops up?
  
• Baby, are you sunburn or are you always this hot?!
  
• My lips are hurting! How about you kiss them and make them feel better?
  
• You look so good, when I saw you I almost had a hard attack.
  
• Nice legs. What time do they open?
  
• How about we play lion and lion tamer? You hold your mouth open, and I'll give you the meat.
  
• If it's true that we are what we eat, I could be you by morning!
  
• How do you like your eggs: poached, scrambled, or fertilized?
  
• My love for you is like diarrhea, I just can't hold it in.
  
• Roses are red. Violets are blue. I like spaghetti. Let's go fudge.
  
• If I told you that you have a great body, would you hold it against me?
  
• Is that a mirror in your pocket? Cause I can see myself in your pants.
  
• The secret word for the day is "legs". Let's go home and spread the word.
  
• What a lovely dress. Too bad I'll be ripping it off.
  
• I wanna put my thingy into your thingy.
  
• Let's bypass all the bullshit and just get naked.
  
• Let's go get liquored up and rape each other.
  
• Sex is evil; Evil is sin; Sin is forgiven; so let's begin.
  
• Sit on my lap and we'll get things straight between us.
  
• [lick finger, wipe on shirt] How about you and I go back to my place and get out of these wet clothes?
  
• Have you ever played leap frog naked?
  
• Sorry to bother you, but I had to find out what kind of woman would go out dressed like that.

[XaZnX07]

it is always good to be good friends first like really good friends cause a relationship that buiilds off of a friendship well really work out good well good luck





.:tony:.

[Caustic]

just tell her that you like her and all that good stuff

[Squeegie]

use cheesy pick up lines like....

YOU: "did it hurt?"
HER: "WAT"
YOU: "falling from heaven"

and she will thank you are funny cause you use them!! lol

[babexdragon]

i would say become fried with her but not too close because at the end of the relationship you dont wanna lose a gf and a close friend too.

[mouse_3k]

ok this is TOP secret but Ill let you in on the girls side. now the BEST way to ask a girl out is this:


"Would you go out with me"

[datmedude]

ok this is TOP secret but Ill let you in on the girls side. now the BEST way to ask a girl out is this:


"Would you go out with me"

ha ha ha thats a good one

[joanna0304]

yeah what mouse_3k said

[oOjenniOo]

ok this is TOP secret but Ill let you in on the girls side. now the BEST way to ask a girl out is this:


"Would you go out with me"

hahaha that's great

if your a shy butt then ask them out online, yet once you ask them for their screen name its sooo obvious that you like them
tons of guys have asked for my screen name and sooner or later they've asked me out online

but the brave way would be on the phone

[slurp]

i dont think theres any specific " line " to say to ask a girl out, every girls different, just be yaself

[SarahxJoy]

I'm sorry to hear that it didn't work out. That sounds sweet though, although not all girls go for it. Keep it simple, be yourself, and maybe say something like, "Can I give you a call sometime?" or "Hey, maybe we can hang out or something this weekend?" Y'know, don't try to hard. Love will find you.

O.o sum advices

[aznrocksta]

just make her laugh alot and she'll fall for any pickup line u say.

word of caution.
dont buy her roses as a asking out thing. they either take that as sweet or REALLY FREAKIN desprate

[LatinaLady]

well maybe you got rejected cuz she dont like you. but that was sweet. just think of a creative way to ask her out.thats always good.

[hair products]

pay her money and say will you go out with me

[pm3k]

pay her money and say will you go out with me

well.. that would work if u are a rich mothertrucker...

or maybe you could pay a lifetime fee of $??,???,??? so u could go fudgee this girl all u want

I personally think pimps and players are losers.

[psychospaz16]

yeah basically juz be yourself and im sure they'd be touched no matter how u asked if they really felt the same way u did

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[skaterjswife2]

well if you are sure that they like you, give her roses!!!! aaaaaaw it's so cute. yea

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

o,o wow i feel so...pathetic now =(

[empyrean]

just be yourself and try to sound casual but not too casual otherwise she'll think its not serious

[someflipguy]

yal are crazy...ive never did any of that peom stuff in high school...maybe I wasnt smart enought to think of that haha

[Longhorn]

i think its easier if shes ur friend.. cuz then u guys kno each other and kno ur similarites and stuff
but then thaz wut dates are for -- jus get to kno her more and get her to kno u // then ull kno if u really want her or not

that is what my bf did to ask me out. he just got to be my best friend and then we kinda made a..err..mutual effort to go out. lol

but its really sweet when they ask you out when u are dancing. it is almost too sweet to be true.

btw, i am a girl...if there were any doubts there...haha

[*krnxswat*]

Well, you cant just go up to a girl and ask her out. If you know her, it'd be less weirder if you didnt. In the case that you do know her, just get into a conversation with her then as you are about to leave or something just ask if she'd like to go see a movie/or grab a bite to eat.

my method ;p.....dont seem desperate...and KEEP UR COOL

Wooooaah. That was my method. Haha.
But it didn't work out quite well, so I just ended up giving her the rose, and just asking her out.

Anyways, I want to try the customized fortune cookie one.

[JlIaTMK]

Whats the best way to ask a girl out? I posted this in both forum things, I asked a girl out like this ONLY ONCE, i wrote a poem about 20 lines and recited during lunch and asked her...im the freakishly shy too...god im never doing that again...i got rejected =(

lol.... did she dislike u before u asked her??

well dont do that ever again if the girl thinks ur a loser before lol

[shawty_redd]

u got rejected?! that sucks... um be urself.....thats the best way to get a girls attention.

[Lkc22]

that poem wuld freak me out..sound stalkerish i dont know i've been asked out alot. never do it online thru email/messanger. i personally like it best when its in person..or if u have a friend do it while ur right there tahts wut my x did we were all in english and at 2:22 one of his friends whispered in my ear will u go out w/...and i said yes. and he started smileing. tho make sure ur there otherwise the girl mite think its a jok

[SuPerSoPow1025]

just do it the old fasion way " will you go out with me?"

[acidbreeze]

I've just started casually hanging out with the girl I like, until she's more comfortable, I'm pretty funny naturally, you gotta keep them interested (and entertained), seriously, don't be shy about it. If you're keeping it a secret, she'll never find out, and you won't have a chance.

[WTFwasIthinking]

depends on who the girl is, her personality and how much you've known her for....

[Sumiaki]

ALL YOU NEED ARE 4 SIMPLE WORDS.

IN THIS ORDER: You. Me. Movies. Tonight.

If she rejects you then its her loss of a free movie ticket. Just dont try to act too serious or you'll get hurt. But with those 4 words, i assure you will get a date. Worked for me, only got rejected once. I'm 14/15 The big thing is confidence. Always be confident.

[babygurl_xtacy]

hmm.. saying that you like her.. and if she wants to hang out sumtime... keep it casual but sweet!

yahh keep it simple.. cuz your jus asking her out.. dont make it look like your proposing for a marriage or something..

[LiTo_fRiScO_guRl]

oka diz is from a grlz point of view just say " i was wonderin if ya wanna go see a movie sometime or a walk in the park (if ya live close to a park) or sumthing wen u got time ."

[uLoVeMikeRoch]

Yeah, make her feel comfortable around you.. and let her open up to you..

hmm open? what do u mean by that kim...

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

when u get some time alone tell her that u like her and u would like it if she would be ur girlfriend.... thats like if ur in jr high or something...

invite her to go somewhere with u , and when u guys start seeing each other on a regular basis....ur pretty much goign out ( make sure by asking "so are we together" ) orsome shit like that....

i usually just invite them to a movie or something and tell them i like em , and u either get 2 response, i like u too(meaning ur gonna start "going out" ) or i dont like u that way....u got rejected

[UnNamed]

deyrs no such ting as a best way of askin a gurl out...1st of all u cud be as smooth as silk n stil get rejected...most gurls r shallow...sum dun say dey r but reallie dey r...so u got 2 be good lookin or not be a nerd or be in da "in" crowd...popular u kno..or wealthy...sum gurls like da dough....well reallie if ur shallow n like a fine a$$ gurl n ur not all dat good lookin she'll reject u...coz of shallowness...its how da world flows...its life..tuff if ur not good lookin...haha u got rejected...sorry i jus had 2 say dat coz u wrote a 20 line poem 4 nothin...such a waste of intellegence...

[sammi rules you]

if youre like me, that means youre really shy. and believe it or not, most girls are really shy. so asking her in front of everyone in the lunch room probably kinda freaked her out a bit. probably the best thing to do would to become friends with her, not like best friends, but friends. hang out with her sometimes in groups of people at the movies and get her used to your antics. the more you hang out with her, the more she'll grow to like you.

my bf and i were friends beforehand. well, mostly cause he didnt like me and i liked him. but yeah.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

deyrs no such ting as a best way of askin a gurl out...1st of all u cud be as smooth as silk n stil get rejected...most gurls r shallow...sum dun say dey r but reallie dey r...so u got 2 be good lookin or not be a nerd or be in da "in" crowd...popular u kno..or wealthy...sum gurls like da dough....well reallie if ur shallow n like a fine a$$ gurl n ur not all dat good lookin she'll reject u...coz of shallowness...its how da world flows...its life..tuff if ur not good lookin...haha u got rejected...sorry i jus had 2 say dat coz u wrote a 20 line poem 4 nothin...such a waste of intellegence...

lol.......your hilarious.... dont listen to this guy... not having luck with the ladies? lol....and stop typing like that its gay.... the guy above me had great advice..... the guy im quoting... has been rejected so many times hes has made it his belief that all girls are shallow.

[UnNamed]

lol.......your hilarious.... dont listen to this guy... not having luck with the ladies? lol....and stop typing like that its gay.... the guy above me had great advice..... the guy im quoting... has been rejected so many times hes has made it his belief that all girls are shallow.

err...why the fudge u actin all cheesy fo...its not like any 1 gon be impressed on a mans behavior "online"*coff*idiotic ass mutha f**ker*coff*

n i prolly had mo gurls dan ur sorry ass...

[dfly112]

invite her sumwhere wit u... surprise her wit a present or sumtin she likes. then ask her if she'd like to continue goin out places. if she says yes shes ur grl

[xxdeonenonlyxx]

try to get to know her better, become friends, dont use notes. girls thinks it sweet if u ask dem out in person.

[morgs8384]

spend some time with her, try and understand her. girls like to know that they can come and talk to you about anything.

and then just some day bring it up.. i duno, no one really does elaborate things to ask soeone out. only in the movies does that happen alot.

hell i asked out my current boyfriend 2 yrs ago :( stupid kid didnt have the nerve to ask me!