Help Me, please take this poll! Input from any1! Options

[shadow9677864]

PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

[LiNHy POO]

you should tell her how you really feel... its best that she at least knows!!!

[ryfitaDF]

ok. if you're in love with her and she's not in love with you then you're in a bad place. if you love eeachother, spiffy! but if she doesn't like you then you best stop liking her. it'll save you alot of pain and wondering. i know what you're goin through. i've been there. just ask her. eather way it goes is progress but just waitin around is...well... waiting around.

[dani41790]

i think u should tell her.

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

this brings back memories...it was this way with my best friend that i knew for 4 years and i knew i felt something for her ever since we met. i didn't tell her and she found out, i haven't tlaked to her since then (its been almost a year...)

[crazeegirl411]

Ask or feel forever regret. The worst that can happen is not as bad as you think. If she's a true friend, then she will stay your true friend even if the answer is no. If it's yes, then good job. It'll probably hurt if it's a no, but at least get the regret away first. Number one "killer."

[immersion31]

i say tell her. if she is a really good friend then even if she doesnt feel the same way you can still be friends

[xxshexxayxx]

DUDE. TELL HER. CUZ SHE MiTE BE FEELiNG THE SAME WAY TOWARDS YOU & iF YOU DON'T SAY ANYTHiNG THEN YOU COULD BE GiViNG UP THE ONE PERSON iN LiFE THAT EVER REALLY MATTERS. JUS TELL HER. NO REGRETS. LiVE LiFE TO THE FULLEST & TAKE CHANCES.

[Justingamemaster]

hell if she don't like you and she's a real friend then she'll just forget about it! go for it!



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[T00000]

You'll regret what you didn't do more than what you did do.


Favorite quote of all time that I live by.

[babygurl_xtacy]

tell her.. cuz.. what if she likes u back..? you'll never know.. unless you get someone to help u ask..

[pm3k]

i let girls do that job for me lol... girls making the first move..

it kinda means to me that she has some sort of confidence.. a good quality in one's personnality to have. .. obviously, don't take that gay advice from a newb..

tell her how u feel. say that u want to have a relationship or.. taking our friendship to the next step.. something like that. have the balls to DO IT.

"many of life's 'almosts' are people who don't realize how close they are to success when they give up." <-- another good quote.. similar to TBoltz

[ichiban]

tell her of course .. =]]

[fullmusicedmajor]

TELL HER! NOWWWWWWWWW

[..:loveee.NuTTii]

I don't think you should tell her you LOVE her. That might be a little too much for this girl to take in. I think it's better to tell her you LIKE her, so it's not that over whelming.

[technicolour]

COMMUNICATION-TELL HER DAMMIT!

You gotta tell the person. Your chances go up higher once you file an application!


I got that from a movie..Win a date with tad hamilton I think..

[*mipadi*]

Ask her. In life, you don't regret your failures; you regret not trying at all.

[pinayprincess]

well in this case, it would be a boy lol... but im taken lol.. but if i were in that situation with a boy i would tell him, even though it would be tough for me

[CrazayChristian]

Dammit...

You are in almost THE EXACT same position I was in.

2 years, close friends, all that.

What happend to me?


I told her (der)

What happend?

She basically accepted it and we got closer as friends.

What happend later?

Well, being the guy I was, I felt akward, and I made akward situations.

Result?

We grew farther apart and me being as deep into it as I was, was left with about a year+ of pain.


Solution?

Tell her, but don't be akward around her afterwards or you will scare her off.

[lKVNiiKINKYl]

something i dont understand is if you tell them how would you lose your friendship? if your friendship was really all that, then she would be fine with it because she knows you two are good friends

[HoodieObsessed]

just ASK HER!!

If she sais she doens't like you as a bf type, than you can still cuntinue your friendship.

If she sais she likes oyu in that way as well, than that's aweosme

[megan_x3]

Ask her. You'll regret if you don't ask her if you realy like her. Once when you have the guts to like her, maybe someone else will ask her out and then suddenly, shes not yours anymore. Think about it. Go ahead and try not to ask, its your choice. For me, go ask her.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

You mean tell her, you put ask her well I think you should tell her. Maybe she feels the same way about you or maybe not...

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

You mean tell her, you put ask her well I think you should tell her. Maybe she feels the same way about you or maybe not...

[elaboratedream]

tell her how you feel.
I'm in the same kind of situation, and I know how hard it is to tell a friend that kind of thing... but you'll regret it later if you don't.

[*mipadi*]

Key facts about relationships:

1. Relationships must be mutual. If both parties want to just be friends, it will work; if both parties want to be lovers, it will work; if one party wants to be more than friends, and the other wants to just be friends, it will not work--whether you say anything about your interest or not.
2. Why? Because most likely, there will always be stress on the relationship. Whenever you hang out, you'll always want more, even if you try to play it as "just being friends." The other person will sense the stress, too.
3. Solution? Tell her how you feel. Best-case scenario, she feels the same (or is willing to date and see what happens), and it works out. Worst-case, she isn't interested, and maybe you stop being friends--but as #2 points out, that might happen anyway.

[baby-girl2987]

i say tell her or at least talk about how u feel about each other and that way u can get a feel about how she feels about u

[shortiiex]

let your feelings out...if she doesn't feel the same way then wait

[JessBur1981]

I made another post about thoughts on life. Read that and maybe your answer is there.

[angelrevelation]

tell her. if she doesnt like you... she should be gracious and polite about the whole thing. things can go back to normal lots of the time

[xrytx]

ummmm.. i think u better do nothing but keep on as usual. perhaps she will tell u she falls for u someday!

[sweetest-emotion]

holy crap u sound like my ex-bf!! grr...we broke up because he said he "didn't want to ruin the relationship we have now", so we're "just friends" now cuz he's scared that sumthin's gonna happen where we never talk to each other. grr. got me pissed. if u luv her then GO FOR IT! i kno he luvs me, but he's scared. and ya never know what the end is gonna be like, we'll cross that road when we get to it...

[maia_dc]

Tell her how you feel about her, but don't put any pressure on her.

"I just want you to know that I've always really liked you," not "I like you. Do you like me?" That way your relationship won't be ruined, because she won't have to feel guilty. No matter what her answer is, try as hard as you can to remain close.

[xtreme_<3]

couldn't help noticing you spelled disappointed wrong. hehe but um not to be raining on your parade or anything but i can't help thinking you don't actually love her, call it instincts. because if you did, you wouldn't be asking us what to do, you'd have your own instincts to tell you. now, if you really love her, tell her. if you don't, then all you'll have are regrets that will always gnaw at you until you're in a pool of misery. if you want to wait a little bit before jeopardizing your friendship with her than give her subtle hints or try to see if she likes you back. if she doesn't like you, then it wasnt mean to be. you'll live. at first it'll hurt a lot and you'll feel like you want to die but you'll find someone better.

[lipstickvanityx]

tell her. maybe she'll tell you she likes you. or maybe... you could just hang out with her more than usual. maybe she'll get a hint... just don't annoy her. don't call her everyday unless she calls you everyday. haha its complicated but yeah...

[Paradox of Life]

Don't tell her anything at the moment because if she doesn't like you back, you're putting her in a bad position. Remain friends until you feel comfortable enough to tell her without so much hesitation or if she shows signs of 'liking' you back.

[raenbow*]

i fell in love this this friend of mine.. a guy, but it might relate to you... and we started going out and now its not working out so well. id say you should build up a very strong relationship as friends and better the chances of a closer relationship actually working. id really hate to lose this guy as a friend. i wish we were closer to begin with.