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 Nov 28 2008, 07:02 PM
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okay there's this guy that liked me for 2 years and he just recently told me like 3 weeks ago.so we've been talking and we made it official last Tuesday. he was the one who kept asking me when are we going to start a b.f and g.f relationship.He's a really nice guy, he seemed like he really liked me, he would walk me home some days, we would kiss and talk in the stairways after school.then today we had a little fight and then he sent me an e-mail saying that he hasn't had a girlfriend for a long time so he's still into the flirting thing.he says he still likes me a lot but he doesn't want a commitment right now and he still wants to be friends.like I don't know what to think right now.Guys, did you ever like a girl a lot but you didn't want to make a commitment because you were still into the whole flirting thing?
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Nov 29 2008, 10:35 AM
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I'm not a guy but I think I have that problem.. I like where I am right now with the guy I like. We flirt and I like the feeling of /wanting/ to be with him, but I know that if we ever officially got together, all the initial magic would be lost. Plus, I'm not ready to "be official" with someone because it is a LOT of commitment. Calling them.. Hanging out.. and even emotionally. It's so much easier just being "friends that like each other."
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Nov 29 2008, 06:17 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
your relationship is forming into the friends with benefits thing, if you let him be flirty with you and liking. you know? it just makes matters worse. i've never been throught it and i don't think i would want to. my feelings will be to involved.
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