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 Jun 30 2004, 08:40 PM
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 Miss Alice  Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454  |
if your friends started to like your exes? Someone who I thought was my best friend started to flirt with my ex, and now has feelings for him. WTF. And she did this WHILE she had a boyfriend. And she KNOWS I still have feelings for my ex. And she's also looking for sympathy saying, oh I still like my boyfriend but I'm going to break up with him, and I like your ex also, omg I want to roll over and die, this is hard, and shiz like that. Damn, I don't know what to do....I know I should move on with my life, but it's really hard....
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Jun 30 2004, 08:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,406 |
yeahh its fucken hard. I was just worrying about my friend liking the guy i liked like 2 days ago.. i know you don't want to ruin the friendship but.. doesnt mean you have to give up your guy.. try talking to her about it. confront her. tell her that u still like him and why is she doing this. if she still doesnt back off.. i dont think she deserves to be your friend to being with.
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Jun 30 2004, 08:47 PM
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Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
QUOTE(babygurl_xtacy @ Jun 30 2004, 8:45 PM) yeahh its fucken hard. I was just worrying about my friend liking the guy i liked like 2 days ago.. i know you don't want to ruin the friendship but.. doesnt mean you have to give up your guy.. try talking to her about it. confront her. tell her that u still like him and why is she doing this. if she still doesnt back off.. i dont think she deserves to be your friend to being with. I ahve confronted her, but she ignores me and talks about her own problems. But thanks for the advice 
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Jun 30 2004, 08:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,406 |
then if she ignores you.. then you shouldnt think of her too. try to get him before she does. remember love is selfish and you cant just GIVE that person to someone
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Jun 30 2004, 09:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
i thought the quote was "love is not selfish" ? (confused, lol).
anyways, i've had things like this happen before too. sometimes, there's nothing that can really be done. you can't help who you fall in "love" with or who your crush likes, but i totally agree that it's really messed up she started to flirt with him WHILE she was still in a relationship with another guy. i also agree that she should have respected your feelings, i mean. that's what friends are supposed to be for. comfort. not backstab and betrayal. try to make it clear to her that you need more time to move on and that she should minimize expressing her feelings about your ex. put her in your shoes. also mention that this whole thing is putting a strain on your important friendship... i understand the position you're in, and i really hope things will work out in the end. (sorry i know i'm not much help). =T |
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Jun 30 2004, 10:09 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 213 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,800 |
BEAT HER ASS!!!
yeah.. i was in the same situation as u.. and yeah i hated her guts.. not bc of that situation.. but other stuff she did.. pisses me off.. yeah i wanted to kick her ass big time.. my friends wanted to back me up 
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Jul 1 2004, 02:54 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
why don`t you just let her go out with your ex and then when he starts getting less interested in her, maybe he`ll go back to you and FORGET YOUR FRIEND.
 or just tell him what she`s doing to you, TRYING to make you jealous and all. he`s your ex and she never touched him, so your entitled to claim what`s yours. she HAS a boyfriend already so try to screw up her relationship by telling the boyfriend that she wants to break-up with him for another guy. vicious, isn`t it?
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Jul 1 2004, 03:15 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
yehh same thing happened with my best friend!!!! she knew wut a jerk my ex was... but they went out behind my back!!!!! but yehh you should juss try to move on.. i mean there is really nothing you can do... i dont think i helped much...
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Jul 1 2004, 03:26 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
What kind of best friend is that?!
 True friends are supposed to listen to you. Pssh.
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Jul 1 2004, 04:54 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
well if i was u, i wouldnt blame my best friend for going for my ex cuz that proves i got good taste =P jus kidding heh but i wouldnt blame her cuz like.. u knoe if u like someone then u jus do, and it wouldnt be her fault if they get together cuz ur ex let her flirt wit him and stuff... but shes wrong for flirting wen she has a bf, unless her bf doesnt care about those things lol does ur ex kno she has a bf?
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