lie about how I feel, or never be friends? |
lie about how I feel, or never be friends? |
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Validating Posts: 60 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 134,567 ![]() |
My best friend and high school love are dating.
I was with this guy for 2 years, and my best friend betrayed me by going for him. I haven't talked to them since they started dating over a week ago, but I really miss them. It just makes me sick/really emotional to see them together. The only thing I can think to fix this is to hide how upset I am. These are the people I normally open up to, but the reason I'm emotional is them. Any advice on the matter? I want to be friends, but them dating is the biggest betrayal/heart breaker. |
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![]() poison ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 ![]() |
You should talk to her and tell her how you feel betrayed that she is going out with your ex.
My friend did that 2 years ago and i regret not telling her how much it hurt me to see her with my ex. |
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![]() CheccMate Foo! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 ![]() |
Same sort of situation happened to me too. Life's crazy aint it?
Well no use in hiding how you feel. Especially if you're that close to them. One way or another, it's going to come out. I strongly urge you talk to them one at a time because I bet that they're also hurting and missing you too. Just be honest and for better or worse, they'll know wassup. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 271 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 624,580 ![]() |
Kill em' both.
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rawr? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 ![]() |
My best friend and high school love are dating. I was with this guy for 2 years, and my best friend betrayed me by going for him. I haven't talked to them since they started dating over a week ago, but I really miss them. It just makes me sick/really emotional to see them together. The only thing I can think to fix this is to hide how upset I am. These are the people I normally open up to, but the reason I'm emotional is them. Any advice on the matter? I want to be friends, but them dating is the biggest betrayal/heart breaker. I feeel the exactly same way you do! My two best friends, girl and boy.. I used to love my guy best friend! Until I found out that they made out, it just broke my heart! now everyone asks me whats up with me and them.. they're going out for official now 2 weeks. and it sucks ): i don't know what to do or say around them. and they've totally ditched me for each other. so i have no best friends and lost the guy i really liked! its so hard for me now, but i try to find other things. like theres this guy who always flirts with me, and it doesn't hurt to take my mind off those betrayed suckers! xD find something new to do, go out and chill with friends that don't hang out with them. it'll take the longest time, i'm still not over it... and they've been close since last year.. and i'm still holding a grudge. and it sucks! i suggest you let it go, and find something else to dooo (; |
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