Being single or taken? Options

[*krnxswat*]

Hm, for me I'd choose 'being single.' I don't know, haha, there are less worries, less distractions (not in a mean way, of course). Although I may feel lonely at times, I find being single much easier and able to enjoy life more! And of course, that's just my opinion. One may get really happy in the beginning and stuff, but as the relationship continues, problems start arising (ex. jealousy), confused feelings.

What do you guys think?

[casssy]

i guess ur right.. but its nice having sumone hold u n tell u they love u..

[hybrid]

true to both. trueee to both.

[*mer*]

i guess ur right.. but its nice having sumone hold u n tell u they love u..

i LOVE being single!!! so freeeeeeee. lol. i spend a lot more time with my friends, and i won't have to worry about forgetting an anniversary or something. and no more evil parents.

and about being held and told im loved, i get that from my parents, and friends. it seems more comforting to have a lot of people care about you so much than just one.

[wayne]

well, I have to differ from the bunch. I would rather being taken for 3 reasons. 1) Im already taken LOL.... 2) just like liquidbluac1d said, its nice to have somebody to hold and tell them you love them (besides you mom.... but im leaving mommy out of this!!!), and 3) when your freinds want to go out with thier gf's/bf/s you'll have somebody to have with you so you wont fell lonely of left out.

[aj637]

ive been single for a very long time (2 1/2 years) and sometimes the loneliness gets to you and other times its like whatever. i mean i rather be taken to know you have someone special right by your side that you can spend your time with. other than being like a loser and wishing you have that. i mean its fun being single becuase you dont have to worry about anything but sometimes involving emotions and being with someone DRAMA sets it. so being single and taken has its ups and downs....

[jeppu]

hm. being single has its advantages.. already stated.. (i.e. more freedom) . but then again being a couple has its advantages if you dont really care about that 'freedom'. . . . iono.. i dont think its a choice to make?? your either one or the other eh? ..

[xquizit]

i love being taken only cuz i'm taken by the right guy.

he's grrrrreeeat!

[casssy]

I wish love wasnt so complicated..

[deadsouls]

whatever life hands me or doesn't hand me, I know it's what I need or don't need. I love not being single because it's fun and because it really teaches you alot of things through the stresses of it. The more I learn, the smarter about life I get. Being single on the other hand also helps you to be stronger at being lonely. It helps you focus on more important things in your life that you need to focus on.

[Mireh]

whatever life hands me or doesn't hand me, I know it's what I need or don't need. I love not being single because it's fun and because it really teaches you alot of things through the stresses of it. The more I learn, the smarter about life I get. Being single on the other hand also helps you to be stronger at being lonely. It helps you focus on more important things in your life that you need to focus on.

Amen!

I totally agree...I just let life take it's course...I dont force destiny

[politicophobia77]

I agree with you, being single is better. But to be honest with you, it's not like I've ever been "taken"...

[Just_Dream]

I guess being single seems great, but being taken does to. You have to worry about alot of things when you're taken, but as well as single. When you're single, you have to elarn whether or not a guy/gurl likes you and all this drama and stuff, but also you go through alot of drama when you're taken too. SO all in all, it seems that either way, you win and lose.

[COLDasICE]

i love being taken only cuz i'm taken by the right guy.

I've got to agree with that.. I couldn't ask for more..

[noaccounthere]

i LOVE being single!!! so freeeeeeee. lol. i spend a lot more time with my friends, and i won't have to worry about forgetting an anniversary or something. and no more evil parents.

and about being held and told im loved, i get that from my parents, and friends. it seems more comforting to have a lot of people care about you so much than just one.

Yeup same here... except with my friends im the only single one... so yeah i get to hang out with my friends alot more than when im in a relationship... juss sux though when ur the third wheel or ur watchin a movie wid ur friends and u turn to ur right to tell ur best friend thats soo cool and instead u see them two making out so you turn to your left to say that was cool to ur other friend but its the same thing.

The only advantage is when ur at the mall and a hott gurl with a hot ass comes along and you and all ur friend look and then they all get slapped by their gf's except u cause u dont got one lol

[conster]

i guess theres 'goods' and 'bads' about being single and being taken.. lol u kno wuts best? a bf/gf that makes u feel happy, loved and free at the same time lols

[LadyJade]

i think being single is def. good. i meant teenage years, not forever. being single allows u freedom and more free time. it's also not a burden coz then u don't constantly think whether or not u'r gonna break up with him/her and u don't need to worry about buying him/her this or that. sure, having something to talk and care for u may be good but u got ur friends and family.

[shorty_oc]

I think that you're right. Being single is awesome, and when you get lonely, that's what friends are for!!!

[k00alah]

I've got to agree with that.. I couldn't ask for more..

awww.. thank you.. me too.. especially being taken by the right girl .. loving and being loved is such a great feeling.. wow.. thats the beauty of life..

[painfultears]

I durno. I guess being taken by the right guy beats being single.

[darkestdesire]

I would say from the single point of view it would be sad, lonely, depressing, but happy at times cause you may see all these problems going on with all the couples. From the taken point of view it would be great cause you have someone to go to. If that person is abusive then i would go to a sweet person. But it would be great cause if you were to attend a school dance and your single then that's kinna sad cause you don't have anyone to share that moment with. So theres a little confusion but i hope you guys get it

[f00LisH_h3aRt63]

i love being single. i like being single when im single and i like being single when im not. (did that make sense?) being single u have more time with ur friends and family...and theres a lot less drama and stress. but the downfall to being single is like what others have said that feeling of loneliness. it just nice sometimes to have someone that u can talk to other than ur friends or family.

[dollii]

Well I love being taken... Being single isn't really that much fun. I mean, yeah you can go to parties and shit like that... But you can do that when you are taken too! I mean, being taken is fun! I love it. Having someone to hold you and tell you they love you is the best feeling in the world. (besides an orgasim...haha... )

[annabebz]

Hm, for me I'd choose 'being single.' I don't know, haha, there are less worries, less distractions (not in a mean way, of course). Although I may feel lonely at times, I find being single much easier and able to enjoy life more! And of course, that's just my opinion. One may get really happy in the beginning and stuff, but as the relationship continues, problems start arising (ex. jealousy), confused feelings.

What do you guys think?

true true.. but yeah i agree with the girl after your post.. xPP

[yummienoodles]

both worlds have its ups and downs, soo im undecided.

[*krnxswat*]

Sometimes when you're single, you want to be taken. But also when you're taken, you want to be single sometimes.

That's my conclusion.

[bab1e_lala]

i love being taken only cuz i'm taken by the right guy.

yep..

[lexion]

Being single. Unless you found someone of your dreams, then it's better to be taken by that person.

[aj637]

being single is lonely =/

[missxxsweetie]

if you want to be single, you have more free time to yourself so you could do anything you haven't been able to when you're in a relationship. but sometimes you might be lonely. Or maybe it's just that all your friends have boyfriends but you dont. That puts pressure on you, making you want to get a boyfriend.

[thisisallme]

Well, I am going to say I like being taken, but that may only be because I am :p It all depends, they both have their ups and downs...

[ichiban]

I would want to be TAKEN because it's really annoying being single when all your friends are saying, I GOT KISSED TODAY! or, I LOVE *** whoever

Also, I think being single is VERY LONELY and I think i experience more drama being single than taken ... i was taken ONLY ONCE [ and for a very short time ] and I loved the feeling ... i just want to be loved

[*CEP*]

I wanna be taken.
Being single gets a tad bit old.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi ( been single since december )

[d1nonlyqty]

i rather be single too..
habing a guy is way burden for me.

[LatinaLady]

being single is awesome except when u see a couple and see how happy they are and want someone to be with for a moment. but i said single is awesome. u can flirt with anyone you want. u can dance with anyone u want do whatever u please and etc...

[S0ULd0UT]

i love and love and love and LOVEE BEING SINGLE.
but sumtimes i get jelous wen i see a cute lil couple
like on valentines day xP

[bobbster]

wha..i dont really care..i prefer to be single, i dont get jealous when i see couples cuddled up and stuff..haha, but that's me

[princess_tracy]

single is totally better!*

[corinn]

i think i'd rather be sinqle..i mean if you were with someone you would end up qetting hurt anyway and then it would start all over aqain.

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

Hm, for me I'd choose 'being single.' I don't know, haha, there are less worries, less distractions (not in a mean way, of course). Although I may feel lonely at times, I find being single much easier and able to enjoy life more! And of course, that's just my opinion. One may get really happy in the beginning and stuff, but as the relationship continues, problems start arising (ex. jealousy), confused feelings.

What do you guys think?

i pers0nally enj0y being in a relati0nship if i'm truly happy with the pers0n i'm with .. 0bvi0usly if y0u have s0mething w0nderful with a pers0n y0u have eyes f0r n0 0ne else .. they help y0u thr0ugh y0ur go0d and trying times .. y0u never feel al0ne .. y0u have s0me0ne that cares ab0ut y0u the way y0u care ab0ut them .. it's all things that make y0u feel happy .. there are times h0wever that it's go0d t0 be single and free . y0u keep y0ur 0pti0ns 0pen .. afterall, it's a big sea 0f fish and y0u sh0uld make sure y0u find the perfect 0ne f0r y0u =] ..

[SorMui]

Being single is cool.
I'm dependent on no one, but myself =D

[phanaticalazn21]

single so u can flirt all dae

[fragrance]

there are obstacles either way.
whichever road is open for me, i'll take it
im pretty sure there'd be an equal amount of speedbumps.

i go crazy either way -_-

[*AngelicEyz00*]

I chose being taken, because I just feel loved, and wanted. I like the attention, and If i'm single i don't fell like I have any of that

[*jimmyjackiechan*]

i think, well for me, being in college is the time when u are SO independent and I seriously don't want to be held down or restricted to do things I want to do. (Ie: not having sex with lotta girls, but I am taling about like, just casual gambling with the guys one night, or racing with buddies, and i dunno, play PS2 with guys and gals.) With a Girl, she's like, don't do this, and don't do that. I been with mom for the past 19 years, and I finally got away and I got another mom here to nag me, that's alright~

But I do get lonely at times and i just want to feel the warmth of a hold when i sleep. That's a feeling u can't get ne where else besides another loved one. (non family)

[blah3868]

i would say bein single cuz u can do w/e u want wif out thinkin u did sumthing wrong and den hate ur slef fo it

[iloveyou07]

Hm, for me I'd choose 'being single.' I don't know, haha, there are less worries, less distractions (not in a mean way, of course). Although I may feel lonely at times, I find being single much easier and able to enjoy life more! And of course, that's just my opinion. One may get really happy in the beginning and stuff, but as the relationship continues, problems start arising (ex. jealousy), confused feelings.

What do you guys think?

ya i agree i like being single but then i get REALLY lonely at times so its got its good and its bads

[conair]

There's an interesting study done with white college students which shows that single men reported more depression then single women. Also it has been shown that unmarried women in US (5%) are physically and psychology healthier then married women (90%).

I could talk relationships all day

[iloveyou07]

There's an interesting study done with white college students which shows that single men reported more depression then single women. Also it has been shown that unmarried women in US (5%) are physically and psychology healthier then married women (90%).

I could talk relationships all day

weird

[Madelein]

if your partner is a really good partner, he/she wouldn't get in your way but only make a good additions to things.

i'm happy being taken. =)

i'm actually happier than when i wasn't. =)

[babibooh]

Well, i think it relli all depends on the person
If u can find that speshel someone
Sometimes pain is worth it....

[nerdish]

both being single and being taken has its perks.

[oOUchihaSasukeOo]

Really in this view it can go both way it's all a matter of how and which one u like

[Mimiru]

I'll be honest.. being single is WAY EASIER... i mean there's less problems. Being taken is nice too though. You have that one special person to love and to be loved back. Being single, you can have lots of friends, but it isnt the same as having that one special person.

[visualfusion]

I prefer single... you don't always have to worry about: "I can't do that... that'd would be cheating..." or stuff like... "I wonder what she's doing..." But I guess I also liked the uh... commitment & "togetherness" of being taken? I guess? ~_~ *acts confused*

[dani41790]

well ya there is less worries n stuff bein singo but i stio prefer bein taken because it jus makes meeh feel happy bein taken.

[whomps]

flying solo is the best for me 8] ! it's not bad or anything having a partner to help you when you're in need.. and sometimes you get lonely you know? yeaah =p

[swtnpink]

Hm, for me I'd choose 'being single.' I don't know, haha, there are less worries, less distractions (not in a mean way, of course). Although I may feel lonely at times, I find being single much easier and able to enjoy life more! And of course, that's just my opinion. One may get really happy in the beginning and stuff, but as the relationship continues, problems start arising (ex. jealousy), confused feelings.

I totally agree... i'd choose the single life over anything! where i dont have to worry about anyone but me... never having to answer to nobody things are just so less complicated and worry free!

and i like not being with the same person every day and i like the fact that i can flirt or talk to who ever i want with out a guilty conscience.

i'm too young to feel like a married couple

[*funkay_d0ryx*]

yea but there are good sides to being taken but you also gotta measure out the bad sides too i mean no relationship is picture perfect [be too weird if it was] i enjoy bein single i mean i have enough goin on for me not to worreh about havin someone but bein single the thought of havin someone does pop into my head every now and then. but i'm 18 i'll start worryin bout that stuff when i get to 19 , just whether your one or the other ENJOY IT!

ironic thing is when you want love everyone around you has it

[brian_deegan]

well, I have to differ from the bunch. I would rather being taken for 3 reasons. 1) Im already taken LOL.... 2) just like liquidbluac1d said, its nice to have somebody to hold and tell them you love them (besides you mom.... but im leaving mommy out of this!!!), and 3) when your freinds want to go out with thier gf's/bf/s you'll have somebody to have with you so you wont fell lonely of left out.

i like being taken...i love my g/f...i always have someone to talk to...