I'm in love with someone who loves another., ? |
 Nov 4 2008, 10:18 AM
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I love a guy that has a girlfriend. They been going out for years and he loves her. I met him at college. He is in all of my classes since he is taking up Nursing as well. We study a lot together and the tension is there between us. I didn't know he had a girlfriend when we were talking. I was really into him. Then he dropped the line and told me he had a girlfriend. Everytime we are with each other it feels right to both of us. He says he likes me but he can't because of his girlfriend and what they have gone through, he can't imagine not living without her. We were together studying one day and our feelings for each other just went overboard. We had sex. I felt really gulity knowing I had sex with a guy who has a girlfriend. He says that he doesn't really care about it and that "it's college". It makes me sad to think that I feel like a bootycall...He takes his girlfriend seriously and not me. I love this guy. He doesn't even know. He says he likes me in a way that I'm gorgeous but I don't just want to be his friend.
idk what should I do? |
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Nov 4 2008, 10:20 AM
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A. Double negative lol.
B. Pics and I'll judge you. C. Fuck that cheating asshole. If he'd cheat for you, he'd cheat on you. No respect for people who cheat ^_^ |
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Nov 4 2008, 12:18 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
QUOTE(kryogenix @ Nov 4 2008, 10:20 AM)  C. Fuck that cheating asshole. If he'd cheat for you, he'd cheat on you. No respect for people who cheat ^_^ I agree. He isnt worth it and he just seems un-trustworthy. |
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Nov 4 2008, 02:38 PM
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 Hold my hand lets chase the sun Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,942 |
Its deff going to be hard to get over him, but honestly if he isn't as serious about you as you are about him then it shouldn't be worth it.
Especially if he said the thing that happened between you two was just something that happens in college normally. Just think about it, is he truly the one who you would want to hurt for? |
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Nov 4 2008, 05:38 PM
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yea really, sounds like a class A scumbag to me. He's playing both of you. Move on.
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Nov 5 2008, 03:40 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
omg thats bad... like i would get mad when he would just say it's nothing cause i got a girlfriend. that's bad, you should drop him like it's hot. i understand you love him, but don't hold on to something that isn't going to happen. trust me, i've held on to something for too long and i just kept getting hurt.. it's the worst feeling EVER! don't feel like that girlfriend, i'm warning you, if you don't drop him now.. you'll never get over him and it'll just create problems with him and his girlfriend. and then he'll get all upset cause his girlfriend dumped him, and he loves her. and then he'll just get mad at you.. not worth it girl!
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Nov 6 2008, 07:11 PM
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Gah, i was in a similar situation
Except I was the cheating scumbag. In my case, i left my bf for the other guy and we're together and Great. But, it doesn't always happen that way and if hes been with her for Years....I dont think hes worth it. Move on girl(: You deserve better. |
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Nov 6 2008, 07:26 PM
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It's simple, leave him the hell alone.
First off, you should have had enough self control not to cross that line, so that makes you the other woman. Second, he's taken and he screws around with you? What an ***hole. You should be running in the other direction! |
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Nov 6 2008, 07:35 PM
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If he says he loves his girlfriend then why did he cheat on her.
He's an ***hole. Even if it's going to be hard getting over him, do it. He'll just hurt you more. |
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Nov 8 2008, 12:14 AM
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 here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
QUOTE(me1issaaaa @ Nov 6 2008, 07:26 PM) It's simple, leave him the hell alone. First off, you should have had enough self control not to cross that line, so that makes you the other woman. You have no idea when people crave sex, tensions are high  Seriously you will get over him. Just move on. He used you. It's college get over it. |
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Nov 8 2008, 01:44 AM
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QUOTE(ForgiveTheSinner @ Nov 6 2008, 04:35 PM) If he says he loves his girlfriend then why did he cheat on her. He's an ***hole. Even if it's going to be hard getting over him, do it. He'll just hurt you more. True dat, He's a player, i can tell. How could he hella love his girlfriend and care for her a lot and just cheat on her? He's a cheater and if he broke up w/ his girl for you. He'd mos def cheat again. Drop that nig. |
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Nov 8 2008, 04:12 AM
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Talk to him. Obviously he doesn't love his girlfriend enough that he'd cheat on her. And wouldn't that raise flags for you anyways. If a guy who happens to have class and studies with you ends up in your pants. Well he said it himself "It's college." Save your breathe it's probably not worth it.
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