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 Oct 10 2008, 06:24 AM
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My best friend is super obsessive.
She dated this guy like almost a year ago [Punkey] and she still wants to go back out with him. He doesn't want her back at all. The whole time he's liked me. I like him too. I want to date him but I don't want to make my friend mad at me, you see? Any advice? I remember one time me and her went to Starbuck together and we got behind this guy Jordon that went to our school and he was with 2 other guys and 2 girls and she wanted me to follow them and see where they went! It's crazy! She's just obsessive and everything else under the crazy blue moon! |
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Oct 10 2008, 09:37 AM
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The title should be
"I want to date my best friend's ex" which is a no-no, by the way, if you value your friendship. |
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Oct 10 2008, 08:41 PM
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QUOTE which is a no-no, by the way, if you value your friendship. Mhm. You don't do that unless you are willing to have this guy over your friend. Only you would know if your obsessive friend is really worth it, or if her ex is worth a go. |
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Oct 10 2008, 09:17 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
QUOTE(ilikeyerrpants @ Oct 10 2008, 07:24 AM)  My best friend is super obsessive. She dated this guy like almost a year ago [Punkey] and she still wants to go back out with him. He doesn't want her back at all. The whole time he's liked me. I like him too. I want to date him but I don't want to make my friend mad at me, you see? weird, my sister is in a situation like that too only its been 4 years 
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Oct 10 2008, 10:03 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
You want to date him and for your friend who is still "obsessed" with him not to be mad at you? Mission impossible. Give up on that one, and move on.
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Oct 11 2008, 03:21 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
no offense, but this really depends if your friend is really worth fighting over a guy for. i'm not certain if you should date him if it didn't go well with your friend. cause if you and are friend are alike.. it's just a waste of time.
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Oct 12 2008, 06:43 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
You seem to have two problems:
1. Her obsessiveness 2. You wanna date her ex. As for her obsessiveness, as her best friend, you have to be straight up with her and tell her that she has to "chill out" with that. :\ Because it could end up in her getting really hurt and possibly scaring away others... and girl code...never date your best friend's ex...never. |
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Oct 12 2008, 08:52 PM
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 CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
Yeah, I got a best friend that is obsessive too. Like when I don't hang out with him and he sees me with a bunch of girls, he goes up to me and tries to embarrass me in front of them. Seriously, I don't care about that, it's just that it's really annoying he has to hate on me because he's a jealous person. I talk to him about it, but he just denies it. It's whatever with me. But yeah that's a different kind of obsessive, however.
Sorry, it's against the rules. And I'm guessing that's what makes you want him even more. |
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Oct 12 2008, 08:55 PM
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girl law: NO MATTER the case, you can't date your friends ex.
jeeze, don't you know anything? |
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Oct 12 2008, 09:26 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
I never really got that rule. Even me, coming from a girl, I don't really understand it. Some people are suited better for others rather than the ones they think.
But anyways. Just talk to her. Communication, baby. |
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Oct 13 2008, 09:47 AM
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QUOTE(Elba @ Oct 12 2008, 09:55 PM) girl law: NO MATTER the case, you can't date your friends ex. jeeze, don't you know anything? Actually, she's dated one of my ex's previously and I, being a good friend didn't say a anything. So. |
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Oct 13 2008, 09:48 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 110 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 660,452 |
QUOTE( @ Oct 10 2008, 11:17 PM) well let me ask you this, how long have you been friends with this best friend of yours 'honestly'... i have a point, dont worry. okay, lol. We've been friends for about a year. |
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Oct 13 2008, 09:49 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 110 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 660,452 |
QUOTE(technicolour @ Oct 12 2008, 10:26 PM) I never really got that rule. Even me, coming from a girl, I don't really understand it. Some people are suited better for others rather than the ones they think. But anyways. Just talk to her. Communication, baby. I don't get it either. If two people like each other, they should date right? :) |
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