Where did I go wrong.. part deuce Options

[dpl313]

Someone explain what I did wrong?

I met this girl at a phone store. Yes.. another phone store. Anyways. It started because I filled out an application for a phone, and I was trying to get a job application. She was taking a long time to get me the application. I thought she was ignoring me. Next day I came up there. I conversated with her, and it went ok. I asked her out to lunch, and she said yes. I asked her for her number, and she just told me to come up to her job days later. Recently I came up to her job.

We went out to a coffee shop near our jobs. Coffee shop was her idea. I dunno. Maybe it was just me, but she seemed nervous or not that into it. Like her eyes kept shifting elsewhere sometimes. Maybe I'm making too much out of that. I was a little nervous, but I was thinking positive. The convo seemed to go ok though. What sucked is this date only lasted for 10 mins or so, because she got a text, and she said she had to go back to work.

I asked her about hanging out again, and she pulled the "I work full time, go to school, and I'm busy bs on me." Then I suggested we should hangout one day when she gets off of work so we have more time to talk. She said she liked the idea. She told me to come back to her store another time so we can schedule it. I asked her for her number. She started saying why she wasn't going to give it to me, but honestly I just tuned her out. I suggested me giving her my number. She seemed perky about that, and agreed to it. But when I walked her back to her store she never really mentioned anything about it.


Then I said, "if I gave you my number? You're not gonna call." She just looked at me, and I walked away. I was just confused. What did I do wrong?

[Melissa]

I don't think she's into you at all.

You sound like you were a little pushy, bordering upon creepy. It's pretty obvious that she's just trying to be polite, but you're... idk. Maybe you should actually try to let things happen instead of pushing things.

[dannyordinary]

Sorry my friend, you should move on . Doesn't really sound that she's really into you.

[dpl313]

----- : I don't see how I was being creepy or pushy? I was just trying to be myself. But if I just acted like an a-hole she would've been into me.

[dannyordinary]

----- : I don't see how I was being creepy or pushy? I was just trying to be myself. But if I just acted like an a-hole she would've been into me.

Well maybe your not her type . Does she seem like the girl who is pushy and wants to be in charge ? Like when you where at her job, was she talking more than you (not when you where talking about the applications) ?

Or maybe she likes tough guys, and you should have slapped her and seen if she liked it.

[dpl313]

ChesterRevolver: She asked questions every now and then, but we did an equal amount of talking.

[Castaway]

Nothing went wrong.
Or maybe you just didn't have a good first impression.
She's probably just not into you or never was. Maybe she didn't know how to turn you down.

Or just try harder and invite her to some kinda event.. like a concert or something.

[ismash]

Someone explain what I did wrong?

I met this girl at a phone store. Yes.. another phone store. Anyways. It started because I filled out an application for a phone, and I was trying to get a job application. She was taking a long time to get me the application. I thought she was ignoring me. Next day I came up there. I conversated with her, and it went ok. I asked her out to lunch, and she said yes. I asked her for her number, and she just told me to come up to her job days later. Recently I came up to her job.

We went out to a coffee shop near our jobs. Coffee shop was her idea. I dunno. Maybe it was just me, but she seemed nervous or not that into it. Like her eyes kept shifting elsewhere sometimes. Maybe I'm making too much out of that. I was a little nervous, but I was thinking positive. The convo seemed to go ok though. What sucked is this date only lasted for 10 mins or so, because she got a text, and she said she had to go back to work.

I asked her about hanging out again, and she pulled the "I work full time, go to school, and I'm busy bs on me." Then I suggested we should hangout one day when she gets off of work so we have more time to talk. She said she liked the idea. She told me to come back to her store another time so we can schedule it. I asked her for her number. She started saying why she wasn't going to give it to me, but honestly I just tuned her out. I suggested me giving her my number. She seemed perky about that, and agreed to it. But when I walked her back to her store she never really mentioned anything about it.
Then I said, "if I gave you my number? You're not gonna call." She just looked at me, and I walked away. I was just confused. What did I do wrong?

you make a thread part 1... now you make part 2..

you never bother read what i say and you go do the same shits.. DOUCHEBAG..

no wonder every girl you try da with reject you...

[towntown2]

Why are you getting so hung up on just one girl?
She can't be that awesome.

Sounds like you're desperate.

[prettyfreekincut...]

Honey,
Read the book "She's Just Not That Into You"
You'll see the signs..