my bofriend doesnt treat me like his girlfriend. Options

[xiiduckies]

me and my boyfriend has been going out for almost 6 months. The 4 3 months everything was going great we meet up everyday after school and hang out go on dates. we wouldnt acknowledge each other in school because we were afraid that they will tese us for ever. sure i hated it alittle but still i couldnt only think about my self right? so i just went with the plan. other then that everything was great, i loved my relationship with my boyfriend. but after summer vacation started he started to treat me unfairly and all crappy. txt'ed him one day during summer and he sent me a txt saying oh i dont want to talk to you everday. i felt very heartbroken after i got this txt. and this was the time i really need him because something was going on in my personal life and i needed someone to be there for me. i felt like breaking down, i didnt call him for 1 month and bare with whatever was going on in my life alone.so when schoo started he became more distant; those times we hung out after school was gone because he has to go to prep school in order to get into a speicalized high school and i understand this because i have to go to prep school also. but then when i asked him to come to my birthday party he said he couldnt come cause he had to go too prep school i was fine with that, but when i asked my other guy friend he changed his prep school time to 9~12 just to come to my party. this part i couldnt understand. how could my guy friend change his schedual just to come and my boyfriend cant. that doesnt make sense for me. im not sure if it does to people reading this but it doesnt. now he doesnt call me we dont hang out we dont acknowledge each other in school, so i feel like im not his girlfriend anymore and im not even sure if he likes me still; so im thinking about breaking up with him. but at the same time i still love him. what should i do? i had a problem like this before and after i broke up with my ex i regreted it. i dont want to break up with him and regret it and i dont want to break his heart if he still loves me back and hes just not showing it. PLEASE HELP! i need advice.

[aaayotiffany]

you guys need to talk. if he blows you off still, then fxck it. right now, it just seems like you guys are more like distant friends than distant boyfriend-girlfriend. it also seems like he got tired of you? or tired of the relationship. i've seen it happen to a lot of my friends, its because they spent too much time together in the beginning, not giving each other space, so they would get tired of each other eventually.

i'm not saying thats exactly what is happening with you and your boyfriend, but you guys need to talk. seriously. communication is key. but if he still blows you off, then screw it. you deserve better, not someone who doesn't want to see you or talk to you or have anything to do with you.

[CocaineNoseJob]

He didn't want people at school knowing you two were dating? Sounds like he's embarrassed of being with you in front of peers. And honestly the answer to your problem is obvious...dump him. Idk why your still considering yourself dating when you don't even talk to each other. It sounds like he indirectly ended the relationship himself by treating you like that. Its not right. You won't regret dumping someone that treats you like shit. Forget about him and move on. I know it's easier said than done but you need to do it for yourself.

[xiiduckies]

i tryed to talk to him afterschool and he hung up me cause he didnt want to hear it/

[Tomates]

i tryed to talk to him afterschool and he hung up me cause he didnt want to hear it/

Tell him that if he still wants to be in a relationship with you then he is going to have to take the time to talk to you and just talk about things.

[xxstarpower]

If you haven't talked once in a month it's pretty much over, and if he is trying to avoid you it's pretty much over, clearly he just isn't 'man' enough to break up with you personally. You don't need a cuntbag like him anyways. I honestly think he isn't worth it and should go choke on his own spit and die. No offense, but you could do so much better.

[towntown2]

He's been embarrassed by the relationship from the start.
If he really did like you [I won't use love here], he would've endured whatever teasing would come your way.

He's just not that into you.
You're way more into him than you should be, especially after he said he doesn't want to talk to you everyday.

[If he didn't want to talk to you everyday, he didn't have to tell you. Though I think if you really excited him, he wouldn't get enough of you.]

Darling--may I call you that?--please separate your thoughts into paragraphs and make sure all of your thoughts are coherent. I'll be able to help you better that way.

[AyeVickaye]

Ya boy is f**kd up to the max. He hella tryna ignore you and what not...Its like you guys aint even going out..You should drop his ass. Coz he aint treatin' you right...He aint worth your time..

[xiiduckies]

thanks you guys :)
i already it did it today. but was like oh im sorry i wasnt good enff for you. and that made me all jelly o inside

[towntown2]

^ Typical reaction from a boy child.

[imperfectionistx]

You two don't even seem like friends, let alone bf/gf. Clearly, if he's avoiding you, like everyone else said, he isn't going to do the right thing and help you mutually end it, he'll just keep making you feel like crap in hopes that you'll do the dirty work and break up with him, leaving YOU with all the remorse and regret. But don't feel that way. End it-- he seems like a total jerk. After all, you're still young and there's plenty of time for you to find the best relationship for you!

edit//oops just read the last post :P Well I'd say the most important thing now is that you don't go back to him if he ever comes crawling back to you! I've been in this situation many times, so I understand how you feel.

[gelionie]

If he's not going your birthday party FOR SOMETHING WHICH CAN BE ARRANGED and not being sorry for that... dump the guy. You won't regret it. I don't think he's interested in you anymore but he's just too crappy to tell you.

[Castaway]

he's an a-hole.
Or he just doesn't know any better.
Anyways i think you should break up with him. You don't want to be with someone that doesn't like you back, do you? If he likes you then he'll say something during the break up.