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 Sep 15 2008, 06:26 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas  Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135  |
[single] Ladies and gents..
What do you miss about being in a relationship? I'm a huggy person, so I miss getting hugs that make you feel special. I personally look at it as a form of intimacy [cause not all intimacy has to be sex]. I do love the single life, though. Just sometimes, being in a relationship has its perks. |
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Sep 15 2008, 07:05 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
I guess having someone there to listen to you no matter what time of day. But your friends are always there for you. Just in a different way. I'm not a very touchy feely person, so I don't really care if I get hugs or not. That's just me.
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Sep 15 2008, 07:32 PM
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QUOTE(towntown2 @ Sep 15 2008, 04:26 PM)  For me, I miss the physical intimacy. Not the sex part, but I definitely miss the hugs. What the... |
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Sep 15 2008, 07:39 PM
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 and so it is Group: Human Posts: 1,304 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,085 |
i totally understand the hugging thing... i esp like it when he just wraps his arms around you from behind. i also miss the cute kisses on the forehead :] and when he texts 'good morning' or 'good night' unexpectedly. wow, so what i just listed sounds a bit shallow if that's the only thing i miss, but i can't quite describe what i miss most without sounding cheesy and cliche. but i guess i just miss that warm fuzzy feeling you get when you're with that person
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Sep 15 2008, 07:59 PM
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It's nice having someone to talk to about things, but right now, I enjoy the single life. :)
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Sep 15 2008, 08:16 PM
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Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
QUOTE(cakedout @ Sep 15 2008, 05:32 PM) What the... I know, I know. It's a strange statement. |
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Sep 15 2008, 09:40 PM
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 CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
being able to just watch a movie with someone on a rainy day and fall asleep together. and just walking down the street holding hands, and swinging on the swings.
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Sep 15 2008, 10:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 717 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,551 |
Hm. Having that person be with you 24/7. Talking on the phone all the time, getting hugs and kisses at every possible moment, receiving surprise roses for no apparent reason, having someone to actually look DECENT for, keeping mental notes during your day so that you can recap what you did for your significant other once your day is done, being cooked for (haha), cooking for them. It's just the little things that's normally expected to miss when you're out of a relationship. Nothing out of the norm.
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Sep 15 2008, 10:15 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
I miss the fact that there's just someone there. How there's someone actually missing you and is excited for the next time they see you. And the hugs, the kisses, and the intimacy. Haha, plus the sex. It's definitely different when I'm in a serious relationship.
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Sep 15 2008, 10:28 PM
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 that heaven is overrated Group: Member Posts: 5,096 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,124 |
QUOTE(mystline @ Sep 15 2008, 08:15 PM) Haha, plus the sex. Uhh....TOBY?!?!?!??!! QUOTE(espressive @ Sep 15 2008, 05:39 PM) but i guess i just miss that warm fuzzy feeling you get when you're with that person ditto irene. i miss that comfort you have with a person, knowing you can count on them and be able to talk to them... the feeling where you sort of feel like both your souls connect. I also miss inside jokes, intimacy, and those cute, genuine moments that you only feel with that one person. also, the fact that it gives you something to look forward to(whether it be talking on the phone with them at night or whenever you're going to see them next). That kinda stuff is the satisfaction i get out of a relationship. But honestly, being single isn't that bad. You can be independent, you can flirt with whoever you want, and you don't have to deal with all the complications and responsibilities of having a boyfriend/girlfriend. |
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Sep 15 2008, 10:36 PM
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QUOTE(towntown2 @ Sep 15 2008, 06:16 PM) I know, I know. It's a strange statement. You are only saying this cause you ever had a PIECE OF DAYT PUDDINN |
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Sep 15 2008, 10:45 PM
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and so it is Group: Human Posts: 1,304 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,085 |
QUOTE(sharerol @ Sep 15 2008, 10:28 PM) ditto irene. i miss that comfort you have with a person, knowing you can count on them and be able to talk to them... the feeling where you sort of feel like both your souls connect. I also miss inside jokes, intimacy, and those cute, genuine moments that you only feel with that one person. also, the fact that it gives you something to look forward to (whether it be talking on the phone with them at night or whenever you're going to see them next). That kinda stuff is the satisfaction i get out of a relationship you took the words out of my mouth! well not really, cause i failed miserably since i came up with nothing except "warm fuzzy feeling". hahaha! so i'll just quote you :] |
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Sep 16 2008, 12:03 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Sep 2008 Member No: 683,638 |
I love being in a relationship, but I could definitely cope with the single life - it just wouldn't be as good as I have it now.
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Sep 16 2008, 12:41 PM
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 yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
i've been single since like may after a two and a half year relationship. i definitely miss the hugs and the cuddling and just having that person around. just knowing things are always better when he/she is around.
but i can't deal with a relationship right now. so yeah, i accept it. i get my hugs from my friends. 
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Sep 16 2008, 02:08 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Looks like you miss the cock.
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Sep 16 2008, 02:10 PM
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define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
QUOTE(sharerol @ Sep 15 2008, 08:28 PM) Uhh....TOBY?!?!?!??!! .. high school.  hi cheryl T__________T |
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Sep 16 2008, 02:12 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Wow Toby O.o
This is very unexpected of you. Does Mark know about this. 
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Sep 16 2008, 02:18 PM
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define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
umm I DONT THINK SO. lmao.
i haven't talked to him in days.  mark, don't shank me D:
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Sep 17 2008, 12:52 AM
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that heaven is overrated Group: Member Posts: 5,096 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,124 |
QUOTE(mystline @ Sep 16 2008, 12:10 PM) .. high school. hi cheryl T__________T High school changes everybody hahhaha *weep* My little Toby is growing up! |
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Sep 17 2008, 01:03 AM
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 in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
I've always been single
 . I think I scare guys off.But f**k, I love being single. Especially now. There's just so much less to worry about and less attachments. |
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Sep 17 2008, 01:05 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
I've been single all my life. I love it. You don't have to worry as much about what other people think, or just anything. It's so relaxing.
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Sep 17 2008, 01:05 AM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
QUOTE(Gigi @ Sep 16 2008, 11:03 PM) I've always been single . I think I scare guys off.But f**k, I love being single. Especially now. There's just so much less to worry about and less attachments. ^ Oh believe me. Scaring off guys is an understatement.  I don't know. I think I enjoyed single life when I was ALWAYS single. But after I dated several girls, and now single, I hate it. I prefer pre-8th grade single, than present single now. It's two new situations of being single. Because, I already know how it's like being in a relationship, and I kinda miss that. So being single right now isn't all that great. |
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Sep 17 2008, 01:25 AM
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 Lets Get Dead Group: Member Posts: 381 Joined: Apr 2008 Member No: 641,562 |
^Exactly.
I don't miss my ex, because he was an ass and the relationship actually ended on bad terms which I don't like to do. But I miss being with someone, and a part of a relationship....it gets a little lonely sometimes. Which I wouldn't normally have an issue with being single, but I just moved here so I don't really have many friends to just go hang out with here. :-P The one I have is at Davis now. Which isn't as close to me as Novato. |
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Sep 17 2008, 01:32 AM
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in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
See, I wouldn't know that.
Maybe I should be more sad about it.
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Sep 17 2008, 11:37 AM
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 here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
Kissing, cuddling etc.
I'm single but I love being single! 
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Sep 17 2008, 05:26 PM
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Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
QUOTE(Tungster @ Sep 16 2008, 11:05 PM) I think I enjoyed single life when I was ALWAYS single. I prefer pre-8th grade single, than present single now. It's two new situations of being single. Because, I already know how it's like being in a relationship, and I kinda miss that. So being single right now isn't all that great. YES! I totally agree. Before 8th grade, single just meant not having somebody at school to call a boyfriend. Now, you actually realize that being in a relationship can sometimes be better than being single, especially if you see it in your friends. I'm friends with two couples who have been together for almost two years, and sometimes I wish I have what they have. The good thing is that they're not the gross all-over-each-other type. However, being uncommitted to someone gives me great freedom and less obligations. So..hooray for singleness and relationships! |
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Sep 17 2008, 06:01 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
Eh, I guess I miss having someone to fight with and be loved by. Someone to send flowers on Valentine's Day, someone to talk to on the phone without wanting to get off, oh good times.
But thats alright...single life is the way to go...I guess.
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Sep 17 2008, 06:07 PM
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 o3o Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 645,987 |
I guess the only thing I really missed when being single was hugs ._.
They make you fell ALL WARM AND FUZZY INSIDE. ;w; |
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Sep 17 2008, 06:52 PM
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ArjunaCapulong 4:49 PM: when I pee I orgasm like a little girl
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Sep 17 2008, 06:55 PM
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 55KAMG's<3 Group: Member Posts: 232 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 577,506 |
i miss not being in a relationship...........
HELP |
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Sep 19 2008, 04:06 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Sep 2008 Member No: 685,767 |
QUOTE(cakedout @ Sep 17 2008, 07:52 PM) ArjunaCapulong 4:49 PM: when I pee I orgasm like a little girl Lawlz 
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