When 2 people get back Together again!, what will go through a girls... Options

[gr00vyswordsman]

When a lady and her previous boyfriend are talking about getting back together, what goes through a lady's mind when talking about getting back together?

Im curious... we would confide with each other, had nice emotional connection on a deep level with each other, trust and nice passion. Was a nice relationship. It's been a year now, and we both still have full barrels of feelings for each other.

[creole]

When a lady and her previous boyfriend are talking about getting back together, what goes through a lady's mind when talking about getting back together?

Im curious... we would confide with each other, had nice emotional connection on a deep level with each other, trust and nice passion. Was a nice relationship. It's been a year now, and we both still have full barrels of feelings for each other.

Probably she would be thinking about " Is it worth it?" or maybe "I hope we could stay longer." or even "I'll break his heart again."

Girls are hard to figure out.

[CocaineNoseJob]

um if u guys feel the same way about each other than the thoughts are probably most likely mutual.

[DoubleJ]

How exactly did this end in the first place?

[mizzkewl06]

Is it going to end the same way again?

ditto. when my bf and i broke up back in '07 and talked about getting back together that was one of my main concerns. that and if things were really going to be any different. then again it depends on the situation and the circumstances in which the relationship ended in the first place. every girl is different and it's difficult to say what exactly she could be thinking.

[towntown2]

I would be re-examining the cause of demise for the first attempt at a relationship.
If there as a glaring mistake that made us break up, then I'd try to avoid it.

Mostly, I'd go into it with a heavy sense of trepidation because if it didn't work the first time, why would it work the second time??

[MissFits]

^Agreed.
Whenever a relationship dissolves I think of what made it go wrong. If it were circumstances maybe based on timing alone, or other things out of our control I'd consider it. But, if it were incompatible personalities unless the other person and I have both made some serious changes in our lives it seems pointless to get back together because we will end up just like we did last time, hurt and lonely. I think relationships are an instance in which practice does not make perfect, but leads to unhealthy relationships. Do not try and try to be with a person if it never works out, there is a reason it doesn't work out, and you need to move on to someone that will make you happy for a longer period of time. You would hate to be with someone and make a family with them just to have them leave you when things don't work out, again.

I'm not saying that's how it's going to be for you, but that's how I look at it.

[fairytale-magic]

Is he really going to stay?

Does he really love me?

Can I trust him on this?

Will it last?

I'm going to get hurt again, aren't I?

What if he's lying?

What if he's just messing with me...?

That sort of stuff would be going through my head.
But only because I'm such a pessimistic person. ]:

[Ambassidah]

i doubt i could ever get back with sum1