is it WRONG, to go out with someone 2-4 years younger Options

[lidoaznboi89]

hey.. im wondering.. if it is wrong to go out with someone that is around 2-4 years younger then you.. i need advice..

[starmodel88]

it depends on how mature they are and how serious you are i guess its not that wierd if they like to do the same things you do and want the same things out of the relationship.
if its a girl, they mature faster so she may be at the same level as you

[fullmusicedmajor]

how old are you and are you a boy or girl?

[AZN_DRAGON]

if u look at his screen name it says boy

[babygurl_xtacy]

well.. if your a girl.. i guess it doesnt matter. im more into tradition.. i like the guy to be older but if u reli love him.. age doesnt matter.. my frien is currently dating a guy that is 11 yrs older than her..

[babygurl_xtacy]

oops haha i mean.. if ure a girl. it does matter.. and your a guy right? so.. i guess it doesnt

[lidoaznboi89]

umm yes im a boy.. haha wellz im almost 16.. and shes like um three years, four years? younger then me... so shes around 13..

[x__broken]

no, there is absoloutley NOTHING wrong with that. I've done it all my life. I personally like guys that are older then me. Women to tend to mature faster then guys and that may be why you're with her now. If you really care about her and if she really cares about you then you should let absoloutley NOTHING get in your way. not even age. There is a law but laws are gay and no one listens to them anyway. I know I dont. Just follow your heart.

[*CEP*]

So you're 14.
And the girl is 10?

Don't your friends make fun of you?
Do they ever call you Micheal Jackson?

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[islandkiss]

age shouldn't matter.

[xtremeliquid]

I don't think it matters.

[lidoaznboi89]

im a sophomore.. almost 16... my friends mad fun of me when i was 14 going out with a 7th grader.. two years younger.. and yeah..

but now.. its someone four years younger.. and my age is 15.5.. not 14 or 13.. or some younger age.. she is 12 turning 13

[LiNHy POO]

noo.... im 13 and im going out with a 17 y/o guy!!! and iv gone out with other 16 y/o's also... its not that bad... juss dont do stuff!!!!

[lidoaznboi89]

hmm... it seems like she likes you .. but tehn all of a sudden she avoids you.. what is she trying to tell you?

[*CEP*]

hmm... it seems like she likes you .. but tehn all of a sudden she avoids you.. what is she trying to tell you?

She's leading you on.
Well, she LEAD you on.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[faithin_felix]

im a sophomore.. almost 16... my friends mad fun of me when i was 14 going out with a 7th grader.. two years younger.. and yeah..

but now.. its someone four years younger.. and my age is 15.5.. not 14 or 13.. or some younger age.. she is 12 turning 13

naa, it is ok, your friend is the one who doesn't know his stuff.

[hair products]

age shouldn't matter.

okay. go date a 40 yr old

[WONHEEEEE_:D]

it'd feel wrong for the girl.. she'd only be 11-13... that's kind of young, don't you think?

[Winter]

I think it's okay. I mean, I'm 15 and I've gone out with an 18 year old. It's just the way you think.

[princesslena523]

mmk. lets review if you like this girl then go out with her there is nothing wrong age doesnt matter i mean it'd be weird if it was like someone who was like 23 and someone who was like 55 lol but thats not the case its only 3 years and if you really like her then it doesnt matter and if she likes you then it doesnt matter and if your friends make fun of you who cares lol but anyways if you really like this chick then go out with her/ask her out

[x AZN D0RKii x]

well it shouldn`t matter since that isn`t a biq biq biq difference .. 20 years to me is a biq difference . but that`s me .. if you really like her .. try askinq her out .. hope this helped .

[x0143637x0]

age doesnt matter as long as you love them thats all that matters

[fullmusicedmajor]

dont fool around w her tho cuz itll look bad go slow with the relationship

[Caitlin]

yeah as long as you love them but it all depends.. when you are older age dosent seem like a big factor but if I dated an 8 year old it might seem a little strange

[lidoaznboi89]

hey.. im to topic starter.. and i just wanna say thanks to all of you who helped me on my "situation".. made me think a lot.. i used to didnt think at all about AGE.. as a factor and i dont know why i do now.. so yeah.. i guess im just going to go for it.. haha like 3 weeks later.. since i dont get to see her for 3 weeks.. sad.. =/

[princess2113]

yeah, depends on the person

[illmizzkim]

noo.... im 13 and im going out with a 17 y/o guy!!! and iv gone out with other 16 y/o's also... its not that bad... juss dont do stuff!!!!

Ooh. I think I'm a little on the same page as you.. except our age difference is bigger. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 21.

A lot of it depends on the person, like others have said.. but there are always differences. For example, a Senior in HS going out with a Freshman in high school. Big difference, huh? That's around 3/4 years age difference. But then if you're 24 dating a 20 year old. That's not so bad.

A lot of it also depends on the maturity of the person. But hey, as long as you're not 25 dating a 13 year old, and you like her for the right reasons then go ahead.

Girls for the most part are more mature than guys--a 16 year old girl is way more mature than a 16 year old guy. That's why a lot of girls like going out with older guys. I say why not.

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

sometimes it's illegal lol .. but if you're happy then there's no reason why not ..

[lidoaznboi89]

hahah illegal.. yeah laws these days..
i feel so much better about my situation now..
lol.. hehe.. so yeah..l thanks..
so sophomore with 8th grader aint bad..
its only TWO years.. what bad can happen
girls mature quicker then guys..
but is the girl im into.. into me..
if she avoides me and stuff.. does it mean she is
shes confusing me.. =/ haha

[XxKrNqTcUiTyxX]

i dont see anyting wrong with it. i went out with my ex ex when he was a senior and i was a freshmen. no biggie

[swe3txprincesz]

well mii parents are ten years a part yes 10 years so 3 to 4 years isnt dat much...

[h22fanatik]

i don't think there's anything wrong with that. when i was 12, i dated a guy that was 16. i liked to date older guys cuz they were more mature, so i'm sure she feels the same way.

[shawty_redd]

well.. if your a girl.. i guess it doesnt matter. im more into tradition.. i like the guy to be older but if u reli love him.. age doesnt matter.. my frien is currently dating a guy that is 11 yrs older than her..

11 yrs older?! whoa!

i dunno..im kinda in the same boat with you cause i'm 14 and this guy is 17 and he likes me..but i don't know know if i should go out with him anways maybe i should stop babbling...

[expoised]

i'd never go out with a guy 2-4 yeard younger than me. but i've been out with a guy 2 years older than me...

so it depends

[Mini]

no, just make sure u dont get sued.

[ji_cabinx]

it seems that people tend to date people their age while in school...but who knows...i don't think it's wrong to date a younger girl...i'm a girl and would like a guy who's older...that's for sure!

[lidoaznboi89]

i see.. haha.. problem is..

one .. .see each other once or twice a week
umm sometimes not even once a week
and umm a little to far.. from each otehr,,, sad isnt it,,, haha

[SarahxJoy]

Honestly, I don't think age really matters. But I guess it should only be important between those in the relationship. If you're not bothered by it, then why should anyone else. I don't think it's wrong.

[conster]

age SHOULDNT matter... but some ppl still make it a matter.. just like how u SHOULDNT judge a book by its cover but ppl still do it rite? i think age matters depending how old u are, im a girl and im 17 the oldest ill go for rite now is... 21? thats 4years difference but if im 26 ill go for 30something... but yet again if im 12 i wont go for 16 ill probably go for 14 and thats it.. it really depends how old u are ..

[lilbabicarmi]

age shouldn't matTer. if yoo really do like or love them enough it shouldn't be a pr0blem for anyone. i broke up with my exbf before for that reason but a while later i realized that however someone looks, or what their age is shouldn't matter or affect the relationship at all
-carmi

[laur3nw]

its pretty young and i wouldnt date anyone that young cuz its like dating my little bro! but as long as you like/love him, its ok

[saintsaens]

Like Chinkiee said, if you don't want to be the next Michael Jackson, don't. When your 30, and shes 27, age won't really matter.

[Davina85]

there was a 25 year age difference between my parents when they married, she was 25 and my father was 50...so my mother can't really say much about older boys i might bring home...but i am 18...so there is a a slight difference....between me being 15 and bringing home some one who is 19...issues of legality arise

[rOckThISshYt]

well, i think it's fine. the oldest guy i've ever gone out with was four years older than me.

[Blue Lightning]

Age doesn't matter, I'm 15(16 in Feb) and my bf is 17(18 in march). As long as ya love each other and your not doing anything wrong its alright ^_^

[*bright eyes*]

yeah, i think it is perfectly fine. if you like her and she likes you i dont see the problem.

[whywasisostupid]

age is just a number. love doesnt care for it

[xsweetdreams12x]

1 year -- Sure!! Go out with them.
2 years -- Pushing it... but sure. Matters on how mature they are.
3 years -- If they're REALLY mature, have a relationship but don't go TOO far.
4 years -- I don't think so.

[Cynthee]

awww...well...there's always that "older guys, younger girls" thing...but what the heck!

My boyfriend's 1 year 9 months younger than me...and it was really weird because while I was 14, he was just 12 a month ago!

But it really depends on your feelings. Do you really really like him/her that much? I mean...there are people who marry other who are, like, 16 years older/younger, and it doesn't really matter!

[COLDasICE]

It depends.. If you're a girl then it just wouldn't seem right.. And if you're a guy then thats fine but you're 18+ and she's 4 years younger and under 18 then watch out.. Dont step in R-Kelly's shoes.. J/K!! J/K!!!

[soulovely]

my homeboy was 16 when he dated a girl who was 13/12. she was pretty mature. she's a cool chick. she's my other friend's sister.

my ex is 4 years older than me. the other ex is 3 years older. it doesn't matter too much for me... as long as it's fine with them as well. but it's up to you.. you should know your own limits.

[defjam_gangsta]

Greetings!!

nothin wrong wit goin out wit ppl younger than ya. as long ya both are happy, tat's all tat matters. work on it aight?!

CHEERS CB!!

[vivienong]

no.... unless you are very young too.. that wuld be kinda werid.. (like your 13 and hes 10) ... thats like............ hahah yeah.. i think u get my point.

i've gone out with a few guys that were younger than me. its no biggie.. jus that i always made them keep it DL hahha my bad for that tho i promised myself not to do that anymore

[BiGdRaGoN31]

i dunno,i think guy could be older

[always_n0vember]

I dont think that its wrong to go out with someone 2-4 years younger than you. Whats the problem?! I'm 19(20 in nov.) and my man is 23... thats a what 3 year difference.. we have been going out for 3 years now.. so yeah its not WRONG to go out with someone 2-4 years younger than you...

[xPartyGrlDx]

[age doesnt matter]

okay.  go date a 40 yr old

no REALLY age doesnt matter...just as long that you love him/her

hey I like a guy [daniel radcliffe] older than me...i bet tons of girls like guys older than them and boys like girls younger than them

[Missing_You]

I'm just turned 14 and my boyfriends 16/ So hes a lil over two years older than me. Almost everyone of my friends have dated boys that are loder. Unless your like 14 and ur dating a 10 yr old. Then thats just plain wrong. But ur not 14 and the chicks 13. It should be okay.

brit*

[azn13angels]

Yeah I agree, what's wrong with dating someone w/ a three year diff? I mean it's not like you're 20 years older...

I mean if she's great and you like her... why should two years be a problem

The truth is that since gurls mature faster than guys we usually need guys a lil bit older to understand us. Some guys are a lil hesitant about dating somebody younger (who wouldn't be) but in the end it's the personality and luv that matters