Is it me? |
 Jul 24 2008, 12:07 PM
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Well I've been dating this guy for a couple months now....kinda on and off like 2 or 3 times. And lately in the past 2 months, its been weird. Just when I think its completely over and I should get over him...he talks to me, like he wants to get back together but he's not sure. The other night we talked and we decided to try it again, but I don't feel all that happy because it seems like he's doing it for me, like to make me happy...
i honestly have strong feelings for him but I need help, do you think he's doing it just to please me or is there a chance that he actually WANTS to do it again, like he feels the same about me.... |
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Jul 24 2008, 12:21 PM
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 poison Group: Official Member Posts: 4,806 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 629,020 |
Most people will say "just dump him"
for me im going to say that i would have a stern talk with him. Ask him how he feels about this whole relationship and whether if there can be parts that can be patched up. For me it sounds like you really want it do end but you dont want it to end. So i would just have a serious talk about your relationship and tell him how you feel and stuff like some of the stuff you said on here. Then if should help you out more. |
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Jul 24 2008, 01:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 659,586 |
talk to him. Find out what he's feeling about the relationship and if he doesn't feel all that commited to be with you then forget about him.
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Jul 25 2008, 10:34 AM
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we actually did talk about the relationship. and we did set standards of what we're both supposed to improve on...but idk i just get a feeling that he's unsure....he says that he likes me he says that he misses me but for some reason i don't believe him. And now, since we're "trying" it again, its kinda awkward cuz its been like acouple weeks since we talked and broke up. so i'm just really confused about this whole thing. there's no doubt in my mind that i want to be with him, its just like i never know what he's thinking, and when i ask, i have to push it.
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Jul 25 2008, 11:47 AM
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 BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
if it's been two months off and on three times then there is something up.. maybe he is trying to work it out. test the waters..
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Jul 25 2008, 02:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(myxheartx16 @ Jul 24 2008, 01:07 PM)  Well I've been dating this guy for a couple months now....kinda on and off like 2 or 3 times. And lately in the past 2 months, its been weird. Just when I think its completely over and I should get over him...he talks to me, like he wants to get back together but he's not sure. The other night we talked and we decided to try it again, but I don't feel all that happy because it seems like he's doing it for me, like to make me happy... i honestly have strong feelings for him but I need help, do you think he's doing it just to please me or is there a chance that he actually WANTS to do it again, like he feels the same about me.... litt c u pix puhh lez.. |
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Jul 25 2008, 04:17 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 670,624 |
its not 2 months... we've been together since feb....then we broke up in june? then got back together a week or two later, and then broke up and we've been going back and for since then.
we have argued alot in the past...but nothing like huge just different opinions...we havent argued since...but idk. |
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