how does this sound as a rejection? |
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i'm not completely rejecting him, it's just that he asked me to be his girlfriend and i do like him, i just feel like i don't deserve him because he's too sweet to me and i could never return that the way he does to me. i have some self esteem problems..but anyway, how does this sound:
i like you, i just don't want to put labels on things just yet. i'm going through some personal issues right now, and i feel like i've already told you too much, and i don't want you to have to deal with the shit i'm dealing with. is it too mean? it's 100% true, so i'm not exaggerating or lying to him. |
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i'm not completely rejecting him, it's just that he asked me to be his girlfriend and i do like him, i just feel like i don't deserve him because he's too sweet to me and i could never return that the way he does to me. i have some self esteem problems..but anyway, how does this sound: i like you, i just don't want to put labels on things just yet. i'm going through some personal issues right now, and i feel like i've already told you too much, and i don't want you to have to deal with the shit i'm dealing with. is it too mean? it's 100% true, so i'm not exaggerating or lying to him. ![]() ![]() ![]() wow...u aintt reallii lykee lykee him.. stopp da liee u NUB.. ![]() ![]() |
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no, i really do like him though.
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dat sum BS... fuu reel...
![]() gurlz lyke u makee princc winna chokee a bieetch... ![]() |
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can you type in actual words please?
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noo.. nott realli..
![]() anniwaii diz lyke sum guy giv u $100... n u dun wanntt it.. ^datt madd dumm.. |
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![]() Killed by the weakness, but forced to return. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 123 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 666,374 ![]() |
can you type in actual words please? ![]() I been trying to tell him that he needs to learn how to spell. Anyways, if you don't want to be with this guy, you don't have to. What you want to tell him is nice but the part where you said "I feel like I told you already too much" Don't say that part. Everything else is good. You actually don't need to add the part where you basically put that you don't want him to suffer with your 'issues'. You don't have to explain yourself if you don't want to. If you think possibly that maybe you'd want him as a significant other in the future, you could say maybe something like "I need time". |
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Don't not go out with him because he'll treat you good. Trust me I've been down the same road. I thought I didn't deserve someone good and I ended up going out with a alcoholic/druggy that ended up putting all his addictions before me, cheated on me numerous times, put me down, and generally didn't give a shit about me. After him It made me realize that no one deserves to be treated the way I was treated and I found someone that's absolutely head over heals for me and always puts me as his first priority. If you like this guy go for it, and if it doesn't work out you can at least say you tried.
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I been trying to tell him that he needs to learn how to spell. u nevaa telll princc nuttinn.. ![]() ![]() Don't not go out with him because he'll treat you good. Trust me I've been down the same road. I thought I didn't deserve someone good and I ended up going out with a alcoholic/druggy that ended up putting all his addictions before me, cheated on me numerous times, put me down, and generally didn't give a shit about me. After him It made me realize that no one deserves to be treated the way I was treated and I found someone that's absolutely head over heals for me and always puts me as his first priority. If you like this guy go for it, and if it doesn't work out you can at least say you tried. WTF... ![]() ![]() ![]() all gurlz winnaa b treeatt goodd.. DA boii saii he wan hur da b he gurlfriendd.. datt meenn he lyke lyke aloott... n winnaa gitt inn hurr pantt to.. so... ![]() ![]() |
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She said "don't not go out with him because he is too nice"
Notice the double negative? It makes it positive. God, you're so bloody dumb. |
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She said "don't not go out with him because he is too nice" Notice the double negative? It makes it positive. God, you're so bloody dumb. Don't not go out with him because he'll treat you good. Trust me I've been down the same road. I thought I didn't deserve someone good and I ended up going out with a alcoholic/druggy that ended up putting all his addictions before me, cheated on me numerous times, put me down, and generally didn't give a shit about me. After him It made me realize that no one deserves to be treated the way I was treated and I found someone that's absolutely head over heals for me and always puts me as his first priority. If you like this guy go for it, and if it doesn't work out you can at least say you tried. she saii he treat hur good.. she neva saii he 2 nice.. ![]() ![]() stopp trydaa bashh princc n gitt bakk topic NUB.. ![]() |
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I am on topic. Maybe you should go back to school and learn how to spell?
I think that xhidethedetails' comment was pretty good too. I mean just think about it all you know. Try not to stress too much (: |
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Also, we all know Prince is capable of typing normally (see his very first posts); he just chooses to type this way for whatever reason. Stop bringing it up. RylieDinosaur, I personally think it's totally understandable why you would want to wait. If you don't think it's a good time, it's not a good time. I hope he takes it well, though. |
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$5 da boii dun eeveenn lyke lyke hur.. da boi justt winnaa git insiidd..
![]() I am on topic. Maybe you should go back to school and learn how to spell? I think that xhidethedetails' comment was pretty good too. I mean just think about it all you know. Try not to stress too much (: all she sai... ye.. dun go out da guy that treat me good.. but ye i go out withh dis guy huu heedd ovaa heell fuu mee n treett me goodd.. lol... nicee commmuntt thaa... sounn da samee... ![]() |
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$5 da boii dun eeveenn lyke lyke hur.. da boi justt winnaa git insiidd..
![]() I am on topic. Maybe you should go back to school and learn how to spell? I think that xhidethedetails' comment was pretty good too. I mean just think about it all you know. Try not to stress too much (: all she sai... ye.. dun go out da guy that treat me good.. but ye i go out withh dis guy huu heedd ovaa heell fuu mee n treett me goodd.. lol... nicee commmuntt thaa... sounn da samee... ![]() RylieDinosaur, I personally think it's totally understandable why you would want to wait. If you don't think it's a good time, it's not a good time. I hope he takes it well, though. lmao.. lookk att joaannaa trydaa deffenn princc.. awww... ![]() |
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I'd try it out anyway. Everyone has problems. Its not really a reason to stop anything. People still get married with bad credit. People still go to school and study and maintain relationships. People still be broke and still manage to see their significant others. Whatever the case, whats the worst that can happen? It not work out? So. You're still alive :) datt aintt bouutt dat... princc feelll da boii lykee lykee hurr cuzz hee winaa gitt insidd.. ![]() ![]() princc noo all dizz shiet.. ![]() WHEN SUM BOII RUSHH U.. DATT MEENN HE CLINGG nn WINNAA GIT INSIDD U... ![]() ![]() |
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learn how to f**king type and stop calling yourself "princc" you douche bag.
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Your words won't do anything. I think it's just best to ignore his comments.
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ryliee... princc aintt lyeen.. da boii winnaa gitt insidd u.. n he winnaa showw u da he buddi.. den he git insidd u.. BETT IT...
princc aa guyy u idiott.. prrincc noo dizz stuff.. ![]() learn how to f**king type and stop calling yourself "princc" you douche bag. OHH snap... ![]() ![]() ![]() *mEEWOOWWW*... princc trydaa halpp u.. butt u alll meenn n shiet.. ![]() Sorry I was double tasking when I wrote that. I mean don't not go out with him just because he'll treat you good. OoOo EY xxxshiet.. huu dumm noww.. HAHAHA ![]() ![]() |
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on topic::are you just gonna tell him or is this goin in some kind of note...
off topic::seriously ya'll find da stupidest mess to get mad over...the more ya'll feed into his ego the more he'll do it... |
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![]() i just think its retarded... and pointless... |
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RylieDino--oh...well yeah thats good then...
prince--why would i type like that... |
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because it turns him on.
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![]() wow...ok then... |
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tell prince what...
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datt u wub wub princc...
![]() ![]() HAHAHAH @OP..hurrii upp n call da boi.. ![]() |
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wub wub...sure...yeaaaaaa i know you wish i would buuuuuut...
00hW311... |
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so if he wasn't a nice guy, and he didn't treat you as well as he's treating you now, you'd be more inclined to go out with him? -_-"
i just feel like i don't deserve him because he's too sweet to me and i could never return that the way he does to me. i have some self esteem problems.. if you don't wanna be in a relationship, then just say so. no need to tell him about your "personal issues"; no one likes to hear about that dramatic bs. if the real reason is because you don't feel "worthy" to be treated like all women should be, then yeah, maybe you don't deserve it. |
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Alright, guys, cut the chitchat and please get back on topic.
![]() Is your reason for not going out with him because he treats you TOO good and you don't deserve it? Or is it because you have issues going on right now too? Because then you would just be telling him a completely different story of whats really going on. I mean, you know, if you're not ready for a relationship, then no one can force you to. |
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so if he wasn't a nice guy, and he didn't treat you as well as he's treating you now, you'd be more inclined to go out with him? -_-" if you don't wanna be in a relationship, then just say so. no need to tell him about your "personal issues"; no one likes to hear about that dramatic bs. if the real reason is because you don't feel "worthy" to be treated like all women should be, then yeah, maybe you don't deserve it. i totally agree with her...156%...::nods:: prince--your weird... |
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you need
![]() dinochicgirlperson--have you done it yet? |
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funnii howw u loggg inn wenn princc postt hurr..
![]() ![]() @OP... dun duu nuttin.. be frriieendd yuu.. ![]() ![]() |
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BS... haahhaah
![]() ![]() princc logg inn... n u lill lamee ASHH-lynn namee alll greyy n shiet.. noww u namee alll reedd n shiet... i'm going to call him and tell him. and no he doesn't want to "get inside me" he's just a really sweet person. lool.. daayymm.. y nott telll usee MSN orr sumthang.. |
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[[writes like slowmoe]]
WHy u l00k1n 4 mY NaM3 ANYwaY... and it ain't like ya name is purple or somethin...yours is "greyy n shiet" too... [[so your callin and rejecting him]] |
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@OP..calll n saii hii
[[writes like slowmoe]] WHy u l00k1n 4 mY NaM3 ANYwaY... and it ain't like ya name is purple or somethin...yours is "greyy n shiet" too... [[so your callin and rejecting him]] lool princc aintt lookkinn 4 u namee fuu... prinn lookk ovaa ppll namee alll da tymmee.. ![]() |
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look here FOO ...u workin it...
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Ashlyn can you quit spamming.
Anyways, to the topic starter, I think what you are doing is okay for a rejection. Just be easy about it, and pick a good time, although there really isn't a "good" time. |
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oh my god ashlyn youre one pathetic and annoying girl. just cut with the 'oh-my-god-he-cant-type-normally' or 'he-is-a-weird-guy' cuz youre just as, or worse than he is. so really, stfu.
and to the topic starter, just really simply say you dont want a relationship yet. |
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oh my god ashlyn youre one pathetic and annoying girl. just cut with the 'oh-my-god-he-cant-type-normally' or 'he-is-a-weird-guy' cuz youre just as, or worse than he is. so really, stfu. and to the topic starter, just really simply say you dont want a relationship yet. first dat ain't my name... WTH...when da h*ll did i say 'oh my GOD he can't type normally'... why da flip you talkin to me...if you don't like what i say don't read it...so please KMA. && GTFO... topic starter...you don't have to tell the guy anything...about your personal business... |
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QUOTE i don't deserve him because he's too sweet to me and i could never return that the way he does to me. This is what all guys should realize.94 percent of the time you CANT get a girl being TOO sweet. |
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this is just a note on me...
a wanna be treated well...very well at that... im not dumb or a whore or slut for that matter... |
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Okay. In case some of you don't know what spam is, I'll quote from this post in the community guidelines:
QUOTE Spam in the Community Center: • Anything not pertaining or contributing to the topic • Blatant ignorance of forum/topic rules The way Prince types has NOTHING to do with Rylie's situation. Besides, Joanne already quoted my post about Prince's typing style, and there's nothing any of us can do to make him stop unless he himself chooses to. Jane has already said for the spamming to stop, but it seems that some of you have chosen to ignore her. Any more spam posts after this will result in the spammer's warning level being raised. |
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