Should I. dont know what to do.. Options

[wildncrazyath3rt]

well i don't know if this sounds selfish of me... but yeah. This morning i called my bf. and he picked up we talked and i find out he is sick..( because the way he is talking on the phone) well he told me if i could call him later because he is at work. so i told him to call me when he can.. that would prolly be after work. i mean i hope he calls me back... and also i feel bad that i kinda gave him the sick ness.... i kinda want to see him and such. but at the same time i dont know what to do because i want to call him b4 he calls me back.. and i feel like im selfish and just no leaving him alone. annd at the same time should i just let him call me? or somthing? and i miss him more when he is like this because i feel bad. plus i know he needs his rest. so i mean should I just leave him alone till he calls me? i mean what if he doesnt? and i get nervous about these things too.. i just dont know what to do

[NoSex]

You seem really high-strung and anxious over this... which is, essentially, a non-issue. This anxiety could actually demonstrate a trust issue within your relationship: if you become so worked up over such a minuscule "problem," you might want to reconsider your exact position in this relationship. In either case, to answer your question more simply: If you feel he truly needs his rest, allow him to take all the time he needs (don't worry, whether or not he calls, and when, is not that serious of an issue). If you don't feel he is all too sick, give the boy a ring if you care... and then, you can ask him how he feels.

In either case, I don't think you would be making a mistake, because I highly doubt that this sort of thing is anything your man would consider an issue. You just seem to be having a security issue right now.

[mizzkewl06]

i think you should relax. don't be so anxious. try to preoccupy yourself with something else. don't work yourself up worrying about whether or not he'll call you (chances are he will, if he can!). don't make every second of your life revolve around him, and don't expect him to make every second of his life about you. it's not like he's not doing anything, he's working and you have to give him his space. just try to relax and wait it out.

[DoubleJ]

To make it simple, just let him be. If he said that he is going to call you back, then let him do that. No need to be getting all worked up over it.

[fagget]

I think you're really clingy. You should let go.

Pick up a hobby, like knitting, or something.

[karmakiller]

To make it simple, just let him be. If he said that he is going to call you back, then let him do that. No need to be getting all worked up over it.

Agreed 100%.

[Tomates]

Just relax and do something and wait until he calls you back

[wildncrazyath3rt]

hm yeah.. i understand all of you. and thanks =] i mean i think i do get anxious about things. and like we did see each other and he did call me. =] i mean i think its also a surciuty thing too.. i mean im pretty bad about that. and i dont know why i feel like that.. and i think well kinda .. i mean he is bi. but he wont do anything .. i mean i hope not.but i dont think that is a big issue. i just dont know wha to think.

[NoSex]

i just dont know wha to think.

Listen to this girl:

Pick up a hobby, like knitting, or something.

Stay away from romantic relationships until your comfortable in your own skin and with yourself. You need to become independent before you expect anyone to take you seriously.

[wildncrazyath3rt]

I have hobbies.... but they just dont occupy me that much. oh.. for any girl.. when your bf doesnt call or pick up his phone.. and you havnt talked to him in like sence yesterday or somthing.. do you get nervous? and kinda freak?

[fagget]

No.