holy shites. i need help Options

[theguardsman]

omg. i need massive help.
i just realized my girl actaully still has feelings for her ex. even tho theyve broke up for like 2 years. and i cant believe she told one of her friends on email that shes actually dating me just cuz she's bored?! (EDITS: im not sure if she's trying to be cool to her friend or something..but yeah) wtf. she even said that she was jealous wen her ex actually hooked up with this random girl in a club...imean...she told me so many times she has gotten over him..but...not i read the emails she has been senting to her friend.....i just realized im wrong....she has been lying to me.....and also...AT THE SAME TIME, someone hackedinto her account and saw that she has sent emails to this guy who i thought was her close friend...that "he's the best bf in the world" and she misses him and loves him and all that bullshit. well, im not close to both of the guys so i rly duno much. and both of the guys live somewhere else. and now. i talked to her briefly about it before she went to school. actaully, i just told her that i have an awkward feeling about those stuff..and i sense that theres something wrong...like the way she talks to them on facebook and they act wen they meet and stuff...ididnt exactly tell her i have evidence. and now, iduno wt she's thinking...she said im thinking too much..but i dont know what to say to her..i mean..idont wana tell her i have evidence......and also, a few days later..its her bday...this whole thing just came at the wrong time....gahh, idont know. she told me that she loves me...i mean, i can feel it somehow..but iduno. somme ppl are telling me to dump her, but i love her, really and truly...idont know what to do....also...she had sex with me, i mean...she's not a slut, so she wudnt be having sex with any random guy..but...idont know..maybe i just revealed her true identity...omg...idont know what to do....i dont want this realtionship to come to an end...

[sixfive]

Are you stupid? It's simple, she's dating you because she's bored. CUM IN HER FACE AND WIPE IT OFF WITH HER HAIR SO SHE'LL BE EMBARRASSED, HUMILIATED, AND WON'T CALL YOU BACK!

[waccoon]

Sounds like you're having some serious trust issues - snooping around her online life won't help you. Confront her about it but be prepared to drop it off if she confirms your fears.

[theguardsman]

Sounds like you're having some serious trust issues - snooping around her online life won't help you. Confront her about it but be prepared to drop it off if she confirms your fears.

i didnt intentionally do that...well.afterall..is this actually better? so then i know the truth...and im not played around like a fking retard?

[Tomates]

I would talk to her and ask her whats up.
Just be calm and cool even though you might want to strangle her but then that wont go anywhere and nothing will get solved.
In my opinion it almost sounds like she is using you to get her Ex jealous.

So set things straight with her! Ask her for the truth and why she is dating you.

worst case she breaks up with you.
But it seems like you could find someone who truely loves you and wont treat you like this

[pandemonium]

sounds like your the hacker since your reading her messages haha jk

anyways just tell her the truth and give her some time to get her feelings straight.

if she doesn't then like someone said before:^^

it almost sounds like she is using you to get her Ex jealous.

[Sandraaa]

Break up with her BEFORE her birthday or ON her birthday! That'll teach the bitch some lesson!

[sixfive]

or get a lot of money out of her, then become a huge a-hole and tell her you never want to talk again

[theguardsman]

thanks for all your responses..but i dont know...i rly love her. and...ive talked to her about it...ofcourse not about knowing the stuff..but the way she reacted...i feel that she rly does love me...iduno..she might be just pretending to be cool to her friend...by saying that shes dating me cus shes bored..idont know..i hope taht's the case...cuz rly...the way she responded was...idont know...it was heartbreaking to hear her cry. i think she does love me...or is she just good at acting...ARGH.

[sixfive]

so now she's a crybaby?

Confront her. Lie to her, say her friend told you that. Screw her over, not yourself.

[sixfive]

I forgot to ask. Is she hot? Fat? If the answer is no, yes, dump her.

[LoveToMySilas]

If you're willing to put your trust issues aside and believe her when she tells you how she feels, then do so. But I still say you should tell her exactly what you told us. (Although saying that you found this out by snooping in her mail doesn't sound stalkerish as all.) In my opinion, girls wouldn't really say that to act cool. But I could be wrong. I mean, girls are different.

[Archana]

eeeew why would you want to date a girl like that. even if it's nothing, if it seems like flirting and you don't know about it, dump the girl already.

[Shawnz0r]

Hey buddie listen.......... If she truly does love you she wouldnt act cool infront of her friends and say she dates you because she was bored. Now i basically think she is dating u to make her ex jealous. Next time you go out to like a starbucks or a resturaunt tell her this "Hey *Name* I want to talk to you. Listen i love you and i just want there to be no lies between us so ive been wondering why are you dating me?* Thats the most specific u can get lol. If she turns out to be a bitch then just dump her and tell her that she was a mischevious bitch and you hope she ends up a slut on the street. Hope this helped