women massager, what age |
 Jun 21 2008, 12:10 PM
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hiya everyoe i want to now how old u have to be to use a womens massager im 13 and my boyfriend whats sex and im scared i dont no what it feels like and i want to no
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Jun 21 2008, 12:12 PM
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I don't think you need to be a certain age to use one (although I don't know what exactly you mean by a women's massager), but you shouldn't be doing anything like that if you're only 13. Is your boyfriend the same age as you are? It looks like neither of you knows what you're doing, and that could lead to bad consequences.. Hold off on the sex until you can at least type better in a few years.
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Jun 21 2008, 12:20 PM
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 Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
You have to be 18 to buy one I believe. I don't think your ready to have sex to be honest. I think you need to grow up just a little more and hold off on having sex. I mean if you guys want to do foreplay and stuff, then I guess there isn't any stopping you but I think it would be a lot safer. And if your boyfriend is pressuring you in to having sex then you need to tell him whether or not your ready. You shouldn't be peer pressured in to anything.
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Jun 21 2008, 01:41 PM
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 Photoartist Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,363 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 399,390 |
If you're scared like that, you're not ready. You don't know what you're getting yourself into.
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Jun 21 2008, 03:28 PM
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Agree hold off on sex till the right time once a sex life starts it adds way more to the relationship most of the time as said if not waited till the right time could have bad effects.
But then again it is your life if you are ready then go for it but if you ahve doubt's or merely scared hold off. |
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Jun 21 2008, 10:41 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
wow slow down there!
if you're talking about a VIBRATOR (::gasp! she said the word!::) then hold off for a little while. most places won't let you buy one until you're 18. and wait to have sex. trust me. if you have it now, by the time you're 20 you'll be totally stretched out (LOL j/k guys...). only do it when you're ready and you're boyfriend isn't just a hound dog. chill out. grow up. |
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Jun 21 2008, 11:25 PM
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 This bag is not a toy. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,090 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 583,108 |
I agree with everyone in here who seems against getting involved with someone sexually at this stage. If you're uncomfortable or have any major doubts about it, it's probably not a good idea and you should wait. On top of that, you're 13 - you have a lot of other things going on in your life right now and you shouldn't have to worry about adding another level of confusion. =\
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Jun 21 2008, 11:30 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
QUOTE(Synesthesia @ Jun 21 2008, 10:12 AM)  but you shouldn't be doing anything like that if you're only 13. It looks like neither of you knows what you're doing, and that could lead to bad consequences.. Olivia had sex at 13.  As for the topic at hand, I think you should just give him spooning or at least dry humping. If not, maybe a hand job, or blow job, if you aren't ready for intercourse. I wouldn't want a girl who would be such a nun about things. |
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Jun 22 2008, 01:31 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 660,439 |
no not a vibrator theres this massager what u use just b4 sex
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Jun 23 2008, 07:55 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 354 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 652,769 |
QUOTE(HANNY770 @ Jun 22 2008, 02:31 AM) no not a vibrator theres this massager what u use just b4 sex 
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Jun 23 2008, 08:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Administrator Posts: 8,629 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 498,468 |
what? i'm sorry but i dk what "women massagers" are.
can you explain because we're all lost? lol |
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Jun 23 2008, 08:03 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
I don't think you know what you're talking about. Um, massage before sex? Perhaps you'd like to save your money and use your hands.
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