Past is past, they say leave the past alone. but why go thru it |
 Jun 2 2008, 08:10 PM
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Member  Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 647,477  |
OKkk so if u had a chance to just go thru ure significant others past would you? ex: find pictures of them kissing, doing couply things, would you look thru it or just turn away . or look thru there ex's current status and stuff.. if u do, do you do it cus of curiosity added with some insecurities?
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Jun 2 2008, 11:47 PM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
I don't really get the questions but..
Yes i would like to, one day, go through the pictures because it would make me smile.. But if i was trying to get over him i would probably either burn them or put them behind something big and heavy XD |
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Jun 3 2008, 12:11 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 647,477 |
ok imma try to rephrase the question..
you have a bf.. ure online or at his house, u stumble upon ure bf and his ex's pictures and stuff. do you, go ahead and go thru it even tho its kissing pictures and all that stuff or do you just walk away and not even want to see any of it? if so, why? do you get jealous later on even tho it was ure choice to go thru it? |
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Jun 3 2008, 12:32 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 553,667 |
I'd definitely look. I mean, past is past. He got rid of all the pics of his last ex I believe (unless he still has some stashed somewhere on his computer), but he still has prom pics (that he looks adorable in) and that kind of stuff with another girl. It certainly doesn't bother me; I didn't even know him then. They're memories, I don't expect him to throw them away just because he's with me now. He isn't a cheatin' man-whore, so I have no reason to worry.
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Jun 3 2008, 01:21 AM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
I still saved mine, its unfair if he doesn't have a choice either.
But I have given/ would give a peek. He saved notes from his ex and some sentamental things from others. I don't really mind, cause I know I'm the best he's got :] |
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Jun 3 2008, 01:35 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,426 |
can you say.... stalker much?
no, but i think the past is past. and i dont think its a big deal to worry about EXs if you're really that worried / insecure it's best to just ask them |
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Jun 3 2008, 08:55 AM
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 fad3d Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 483,080 |
I wouldn't. The past is the past and well, if I even had the chance to change it, I probably would have screwed it over more than the first time. Everything in the past happened for a reason. Its lessons learned.
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Jun 3 2008, 08:59 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,223 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 485,356 |
I'll definitely look because I'm extremely curious. Not out of insecurity or out of jealousy. I'm 100 % sure he'll do the same.
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