Uh ... Situations ., Being cheated on. |
 May 27 2008, 07:55 PM
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Baby - Im BAD NEWS !  Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 647,669  |
Men ! ... I feel real tempted to say they're all the same, but I know that aint true.
But how comes we always fall in love with the wrong ones ? Im a mess right now... I just find out a couple days ago my bf was cheating on me. How can you be soo blind to the point of trusting someone even tho when your conscience tells you not to. Some call it being in love, I call it being " MAD DUMB" - Like my dude Eric said - "f**k love, Two times." Lol no Im kidding but anyway - I found out in that typical way ... I was @ his place messing with his phone, he has the text messages on lock ( sOo male ! ) But somehow I found the pass ( his nickname )... Shit ! I read it all ... I can't even explain what I felt in the moment I was reading them ... I had my eyes and mouth wide oppened ... Just couldnt believe ! He was treating other girls like he was treating me, saying he had a great time with them, how much he loved em. Well like I said - TYPICAL. Anyway I didnt even asked for an explanation ... It was all there, just grabbed my lilself and left. HE'S NOT WORTH IT. I liked that mothaf*cka, he been calling me & apologizing for a minute, but he's not worth it. |
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May 27 2008, 08:12 PM
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 Marissaaaaa! Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 612,652 |
He's a jerk.
(: |
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May 27 2008, 08:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
Good job on not second-guessing both him and yourself. He was definitely emotionally cheating on you.
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May 27 2008, 08:33 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
Wow, kudos to you for realizing and walking away. So many women can't do that. A lot of people take someone back after they have been cheated on.
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May 27 2008, 08:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
ohh h3ll ye.. KUDOO kuddoo ppl.. litt all KUDOO...
 mee alwayyy takee moii boiifrriendd bakk.. 
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May 28 2008, 01:06 AM
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 The Illustrious Mari C. Group: Member Posts: 586 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,671 |
You handled that with class...I had a similar situation like that with my b/f but I could always read his texts & he never went out with other females or anything, females were the ones writing him but he never wrote back & I made him cut them off or I was leaving & he did, so I was cool
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May 28 2008, 08:21 AM
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Baby - Im BAD NEWS ! Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 647,669 |
QUOTE(karmakiller @ May 28 2008, 02:33 AM)  Wow, kudos to you for realizing and walking away. So many women can't do that. A lot of people take someone back after they have been cheated on. Yeah ... Never been cheated on before tho, always thought on how would I react if such thing happened " Would i forgive him or not ?" ... Well now I know and HELL NO. Im not going to be a fool for that one. |
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May 28 2008, 08:22 AM
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Baby - Im BAD NEWS ! Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 647,669 |
QUOTE(RissyMel @ May 28 2008, 02:12 AM) He's a jerk. (: Yeah totally. |
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May 28 2008, 08:57 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,223 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 485,356 |
*WORTH IT!
You're very pretty though. |
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May 28 2008, 09:33 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 650,841 |
QUOTE(PinkieOpp @ May 27 2008, 07:55 PM) Men ! ... I feel real tempted to say they're all the same, but I know that aint true. But how comes we always fall in love with the wrong ones ? Im a mess right now... I just find out a couple days ago my bf was cheating on me. How can you be soo blind to the point of trusting someone even tho when your conscience tells you not to. Some call it being in love, I call it being " MAD DUMB" - Like my dude Eric said - "f**k love, Two times." Lol no Im kidding but anyway - I found out in that typical way ... I was @ his place messing with his phone, he has the text messages on lock ( sOo male ! ) But somehow I found the pass ( his nickname )... Shit ! I read it all ... I can't even explain what I felt in the moment I was reading them ... I had my eyes and mouth wide oppened ... Just couldnt believe ! He was treating other girls like he was treating me, saying he had a great time with them, how much he loved em. Well like I said - TYPICAL. Anyway I didnt even asked for an explanation ... It was all there, just grabbed my lilself and left. HE'S NOT WORTHED. I liked that mothaf*cka, he been calling me & apologizing for a minute, but he's not worthed. i understand that you were really angry but u could atleast give him a courtesy blowjob before leaving  its called manners, sheeeeesh girls these days have no manners 
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May 28 2008, 09:56 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(TigerUppercut @ May 28 2008, 10:33 AM) i understand that you were really angry but u could atleast give him a courtesy blowjob before leaving its called manners, sheeeeesh these days girls have no manners wow... niceee CB namee yo.. u gitt datt namee STREEETTFIGHTTURR..
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May 28 2008, 11:15 AM
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Baby - Im BAD NEWS ! Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 647,669 |
QUOTE(Sandraaa @ May 28 2008, 02:57 PM) *WORTH IT! You're very pretty though. Thank yOu. |
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May 28 2008, 11:17 AM
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Baby - Im BAD NEWS ! Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 647,669 |
QUOTE(TigerUppercut @ May 28 2008, 03:33 PM) i understand that you were really angry but u could atleast give him a courtesy blowjob before leaving its called manners, sheeeeesh these days girls have no manners  Yeah !! How come i didnt thought of it ? HAHAWell ... May be next time. |
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May 28 2008, 03:37 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 650,841 |
QUOTE(PinkieOpp @ May 28 2008, 11:17 AM) Yeah !! How come i didnt thought of it ? HAHAWell ... May be next time. thats alright just dont forget the courtesy blow job next time. i always give a courtesy f**k to my girlfriends before i leave them  |
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May 28 2008, 04:05 PM
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 "Did I scare you?" Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 468,620 |
My only boyfriend used me. Meh.
Im waiting. |
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Jun 2 2008, 11:45 AM
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Baby - Im BAD NEWS ! Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 647,669 |
QUOTE(rockable @ May 28 2008, 10:05 PM) My only boyfriend used me. Meh. Im waiting. He used you ? |
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Jun 2 2008, 12:00 PM
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 Kissing for yesterday. Group: Official Designer Posts: 465 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 569,813 |
guys can be so ignorant, oblivious and hurtful sometimes.
but i would say a lot of the time they don't mean it. i spend most of my time with guymates, and they don't even realise it a lot of the time. but realising and walking away is very admirable. just look out for the signs and tell future boyfriends immediately if you don't feel the "connection" (code for "seriously are you messing with me?") i hope everything works out for you! |
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Jun 2 2008, 12:43 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(vintage-toile @ Jun 2 2008, 01:00 PM) guys can be so ignorant, oblivious and hurtful sometimes. but i would say a lot of the time they don't mean it. i spend most of my time with guymates, and they don't even realise it a lot of the time. but realising and walking away is very admirable. just look out for the signs and tell future boyfriends immediately if you don't feel the "connection" (code for "seriously are you messing with me?") i hope everything works out for you! HAHAHAHAdeyy no... deyy justt aintt telll u.. dumm bietchez... 
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Jun 2 2008, 01:57 PM
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QUOTE(PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL @ Jun 2 2008, 12:43 PM) HAHAHAHAdeyy no... deyy justt aintt telll u.. dumm bietchez... man some of those bitches are so dumb, its like all of them have the dumb blonde genes  we need to put an end to dumb blond genes its making girls stupid 
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Jun 2 2008, 02:00 PM
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QUOTE(TigerUppercut @ Jun 2 2008, 02:57 PM) man some of those bitches are so dumb, its like all of them have the dumb blonde genes we need to put an end to dumb blond genes its making girls stupid aintt u momm whitee..  
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Jun 2 2008, 05:09 PM
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Baby - Im BAD NEWS ! Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 647,669 |
QUOTE(TigerUppercut @ Jun 2 2008, 07:57 PM) man some of those bitches are so dumb, its like all of them have the dumb blonde genes we need to put an end to dumb blond genes its making girls stupid YEAH I KNOW RIGHT ... GUYS ARE REALLY DUMB TOO .. SO HEY LETS BLOW THE F*CK OUTTA EVERYONE ! THEN THERE'S NO1 LEFT IN THE WORLD .. BUT ME. HEHE F*KASZ |
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Jun 2 2008, 05:11 PM
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Baby - Im BAD NEWS ! Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 647,669 |
QUOTE(PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL @ Jun 2 2008, 06:43 PM) HAHAHAHAdeyy no... deyy justt aintt telll u.. dumm bietchez... gOd. What a loser. [ I feel like being mean now .. But NAW ! ] HAHAHAHAHAH |
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Jun 2 2008, 05:27 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
I'm sorry to hear about that. Well at least you showed him.
 Did he tried talking to you at all?
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Jun 2 2008, 05:35 PM
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Baby - Im BAD NEWS ! Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 647,669 |
QUOTE(LoveToMySilas @ Jun 2 2008, 11:27 PM) I'm sorry to hear about that. Well at least you showed him. Did he tried talking to you at all?Yeah .. He even talks to my friends, tries to get them to convince me to go back. But nope. I never step back. |
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Jun 4 2008, 07:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 650,841 |
QUOTE(PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL @ Jun 2 2008, 02:00 PM) aintt u momm whitee.. WTF????? NO im NOT white |
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Jun 7 2008, 12:25 PM
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 </3 Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
Props to walking away.
I know I wouldn't be able to walk away like that. Although I do think my boyfriend cheated on me. 
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Jun 7 2008, 12:28 PM
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 =] Group: Member Posts: 1,910 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 156,614 |
You handeled that well.
Good job!   |
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Jun 7 2008, 04:36 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(PinkieOpp @ Jun 2 2008, 06:11 PM) gOd. What a loser. [ I feel like being mean now .. But NAW ! ] HAHAHAHAHAH OoO SNAPP... PRINCC justt finee aanotthaa WESLLII SNIPPEE.. HAHAHAHHAA QUOTE(TigerUppercut @ Jun 4 2008, 08:21 PM) WTF????? NO im NOT white watt u den... blakk or wat.. |
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Jun 7 2008, 07:44 PM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
i'm glad that you aren't letting him explain himself because he doesn't deserve that chance. being cheated on sucks because makes you think about why would he do that and why with her and others things. when i was cheated on i wasnt surprised which made me feel like an idiot but no one wants to believe that someone they cared about would do that to them. i'm glad that you're being strong in this situation. no one is worth your tears or anger. now you know that you can move on to something BETTER. =)
 jackie
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