She can't make a decision?, Why? Please tell me why? Options

[iEvann]

I met this girl, went great, known her for about 2 months now.
Story goes like this.
-We crushed on eachother.
-She is confused because the guy she liked before she met me was still in the picture.
-She obviously likes me more but just can't make up her mind.
-We started dating and she called the relationship off a week later.
*This was because she was still confused.
-Usually, I'd just say byebye, but I am hooked to her. I just can't let go.
-She's still thinking and I don't know what to do.

*Should I say i'm done?
orr.....
*Should I wait until she's made up her mind?

Advice?

Thanks.

[NATTLEUNG]

This situation is pretty hard to make a decision on. But I guess you can look at it both ways you know? Like if you move on, maybe youll find someone else, have fun but there still that feeling inside making you think "what could of been". And if you wait for her, its like you dont know, maybe things will go well and she'll make up her mind but then if not, you might be wasting your time. i think its all really up to you, and if you want it bad enough and how much she really means to you. We'll if I was in your shoes, I would just wait for a while and see how it goes and will definitely talk to her and see whats up, and if she still doesnt know what she wants, then you do what you gotta do and get on with life. Whats meant to be will always find its way! Good luck with everything tho =)

[Just_Dream]

Question - do you still keep in frequent contact with her? I mean, if she "obviously likes you more" and you are hooked on her (even though you've only known her for two months), then I think you should wait for her. Just make sure that you're still talking to her because you don't want her to start slipping back into a stronger relationship with the other guy. You know what I mean?

I mean, although it's not best to come on too strong, just help remind her that you care a lot about her and it most likely will work out, since you said she obviously likes you more. You never know when you might be losing something amazing.

Just make sure that you're not waiting to long! You don't want to be strung along. Tell her to give you an answer within a given time. Make a compromise. If she's not willing to let you know within a short amount of time, then maybe she doesn't like you as much as you thought she did.

[iEvann]

this is some great advice guys. :D

[PlasticPiolet]

she's obviously still have a thing for the previous guy, and for me, i think it's unfair on you if you go out with her now so your better off with someone else.. =]

[Mikael]

Men. Men. Let us come together and acknowledge this awesome situation. The girl is obviously pursuing you both. She just hasn't learn the art of juggle. Now, my brother in manhood, this opens doors for you. Who's to say that you don't have 'other' interests? Go out into the free world, and take your fishing rod with you, and go fish. There are plenty in the sea. Until the ring is on the finger, do not linger.

However, there is no ring that can plug a hole.

Say what? :lol: