Asians.. Blacks.. the gap??, No offense.. Options

[dpl313]

Before I start let it be said that I'm not trying to be offensive.

For the Asian girls/women on this site has a guy ever called you stuck up or misleading? Just wondering, because I was having this conversation with my cousin, and we talked about characteristics of women of different races. He was saying how Asian women tend to be a little harder to get(relationship wise) and stuck up.

I thought about this for a bit, and I looked back on every experience I've had talking to an Asian girl/woman. Ironically some of the same patterns have happened in most cases. Like at times it'll end up to be they'll be into me slighty. Then it's always some bs excuse as to why they don't want to go any further. It never fails.. The ones I recall most are.. "my parents.. you fill in the blank." Then the one where they go with the other guy who treats them like crap to try to change them.

As my cousin said this.. it really had me thinking would an Asian male/female date a Black male/female, or is it something that wouldn't happen?

I dunno maybe it's because I'm Black, and in my area you don't see Asians and Blacks together. Even when I moved to a few other states I didn't see it either. Then I was thinking how Black people do get stereotyped sometimes by some members of the Asian culture. I had this one incident that sticks out. I was at this Chinese Buffet restaurant, and this Asian teenager kept staring at me like.. What are you doing here?? I guess I'm losing the theme of my point. I'm not looking to be bashed, nor am I looking for someone to say... You're a nice guy.. poor you, etc. I just want the truth.

[Tung]

wut.

[aaayotiffany]

i'm an asian girl and i used to have the biggest crush on this black guy. but due to bad timing and all, we couldn't be together. i don't think i'm stuck up or anything and if i like the guy, i'll let him know. but if i don't, i'll let him know so i won't lead him on.

i hate people like that, its not that hard just to let them know right away that there'll probably be no hope between them.

so to answer your question, i think it just depends on the person and how they think. i don't judge a person by how they look and i hate it when people do that to me. anyone and everyone could be together, it depends if they have that "chemistry". i know plenty of interracial couples, and asians with blacks are one of the many.

[DoubleJ]

Up here, Asians date blacks all the time. Wait, Asian girls date black guys lol.

[aaayotiffany]

Up here, Asians date blacks all the time. Wait, Asian girls date black guys lol.

yeah that, lol. i've only seen like two couples of an asian guy and black girl in my lifetime.

[DoubleJ]

Yeah lol. I haven't seen the guys with the girls, but the girls with black guys, is very common.

[Sandraaa]

Why would a Black girl want to date an Asian guy?

[venti-anemoi]

Why would a Black girl want to date an Asian guy?

Haha, good point. Even with white/asian relationships, it's mostly asian girl white guy. Yellow fever, anyone?

I live in a mostly asian community, so I really can't say anything. The few black guys get a lot of attention, but I've noticed that it's mostly from nonasian girls. Hmm, that's interesting... never really thought of it before.

[ImDaBestIDidIt]

Only time I seen an asian get with a black dude is in a porno. Haven't seen it in real life. I seen this one porno where this asian chick couldnt' handle it though. Dude was putting it on her and she says "MOMMY"!!!!

[DoubleJ]

[Gigi]

To be honest, I don't know enough black guys to know if I'm attracted to them or not. There are literally less than 20 black people in graduating class of around 500. I've also never seen an Asian girl date a black guy, but I honestly think this is just a matter of demographics. I'm sure if there were more black people here, it would be a more common site.

As for Asian girls being more stuck up...that's probably true. Culture's different. And our parents are extremely difficult. My mom once told me that she would disown me if I ever married a black guy. If that day ever came...I'd tell my mom to screw off.

[Tung]

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[dustbunny]

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that looks like ando!

/edit. anyways gigi's comment on the subject of being "disowned" is not far off from what my parents would do. they're quite close-minded about things although my dad does have an obsession with how wonderful mexicans are. he's always like "omg they work so hard and diligently, the chinese people are too crafty and sneaky" etc etc.

I don't have any issues with race as I live in a generally diverse area and come into contact with all sorts of people. actually, two of my most favorite people on this planet are black AND I LOVE THEM cause they are seriously the chillest people I know. understatement really. they are just so incredibly cool.


and I've totally been attracted to black guys before HAHA. ahh 7th grade, good memories.

[sugarrcube]

kinda weird but im asian and i do observe these kinds of things sometimes. i hardly see any black guy in this island. but since im more on hanging out at military bases, that's where i see the most black ppl. some r cute imma admit lol. as for asians being stuck up, i kinda of agree coz i think there r some that is... well no offense to other asians (i am asian too) i am not referring to all asian girls.... i think maybe most asian girls hav issues with "beating around the bushes" instead of gettin their point across, and they assume u'll understand them.

[kryogenix]

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GAP, I'LL SAY! LOOK AT THAT GAP.

[Tung]

blak gurl hitt mee alllottt.... butt mee sayy NEEXTT!!

denn whitteee n asaiinn.. mee sayy NEEXXTT 2... ...

[LoveToMySilas]

Yeah, the only black and asian couple I know of is...Trish and Brandon. But I live in small asiantown so what would I know?

[Sandraaa]

TRISH AND BRANDON? They're dating?

Erm, on a serious note. If I should date an Asian, I'll get laughed at. Even the idea is funny.

[ForgiveTheSinner]

My white/asian cousin married a black guy.

And I'm stuck up, but only towards people I dislike.

[ImDaBestIDidIt]

I don't care , I don't fuck with Asian chicks anyway. Light Skinned Black chicks and Latinas look better anyway and thats all I go after.

[CO0KiE]

I'm Asian and I used to have a huge crush on a black guy. He was my brother's best friend at the time. So yeah. Nothing happened. But I know a few asian girls dating black guys.

& I'm only stuck up towards people I don't like.

[nikx618]

I'm an asian guy. &i know that there are a lot of prejudice people in our society. but a generalization can't be made cause well, its not really relating to everyone of that race, just the few who are prejudice.

&asian parents do have a reputation as being strict &all, i think that's why what "my parents blah" thing came up. &parents DO get racist at times. I WILL NOT LIE, i am COMPLETELY not racist, but, i do know some parent who are "racist." i know its horrible, sick, &disgusting. &these parents even kinda "brainwashed" their kids, as to believe that every person of that race acts a certain way &or whatever.

its so wrong for them to believe that, &even to pass it down to their own children. &there aren't THAT many black people in my town, or w.e., so my friends don't really know any black people. So, they can't really date any, cause there aren't any around here. haha.

[dannyordinary]

well .. i've seen asian and black couples ..
and it's a fact that an asian woman and a black man make the
cutest babies !!

[hi-C]

It's more common than you think, especially in areas like the Phillipines where there's a long history of US occupation.

Other examples of Black-Asian mixes:
Kelis
Naomi Campebll
Tyson Beckford
Sean Paul
Amerie
Kimora Lee Simmons

[towntown2]

My best friend comes from an Asian woman/black man relationship.
I haven't seen another Black/Asian relationships since then, but then again, I don't have that many black friends here.

The closest I've been to being in a relationship with a black guy is one date.
Generally, I try to be up front with my feelings for a guy. I don't waste their time the same way I wouldn't want them to waste my time.

My grandmother is very racist. She has no problem using the N word anywhere. Good thing I don't see her anymore, cause she's quite a bitch.
My mom, well, when she sees a black person on TV, she'd be like, "Hey, Mel, it's your friend's cousin." or something like that. I just sigh and move on. There's not much I can do.

Oh! One time, we were at an Indonesian restaurant, and I talked about taking my friend with us next time [the one from the relationship above]. My mom said no because she thinks that the Indonesian people at the restaurant would stare.

Bottom line is, Asian parents are very strict and quicker to judge than other people. This means that once they're introduced to a certain stereotype, they tend to stick to that and refuse to budge.
Dating itself is a weird subject between parents and kids, and interracial dating is even more...complicated, so to speak.

[bmathers21]

Up here, Asians date blacks all the time. Wait, Asian girls date black guys lol.

yea pretty much haha.
blacks and asians are always together here.

but i'm white with an asian gf..
i think no matter the race, guys just like asian girls. haha

[AyeVickaye]

Yeah, not all are stuck up and misleading.. Everybody's different. It depends on where your from and how ya raised and who you kick it with...Everybody is mixing...biracial relationships yo..

[sleepwalkerdream...]

I just seem to like Asian guys because I can relate
to them more. I don't really like having to deal with
culture issues. But I've found Black guys attractive I guess.

[creole]

At my school, black girls would always hit on asian guys.
It's probably because of how asian guys at my school dress hip-hop ish?

[Lahlizzdah]

i don't know any asian/black couples, but i know a few mixed asian/black people my age.

[lovescream]

Lmfao, this is old.

I'm attracted to this black guy. :P I'm asian. Oh, god. lol.
I know a lot of asian girls who are stuck-up, lawl.
And, I've seen many asian women/black guy couples, and only few black woman/asian guy couples.

[*cakedout*]

i would stick it up alicia keys ass

[Insurmountable]

I discussed this with my manager today, *we get really bored and talk about random shit* but we both agreed that you commonly don't see asian women or men with black girls or guys. It's just not known or seen around here, and if it does happen it must be kept on the down low.

Now black guys with white chicks, yea those are all over the place.

[*cakedout*]

well duh, we all know black guys be lovin fat white chicks

[Insurmountable]

Nah, the black guys are all with the skinny white chicks.

The fat white chicks are with the hot marine guys.

And the fat black women are typically with skinny black guys.

[xhugerific]

nopeee. i'm asian & i've had two african american boyfriends. both named josh O_____O okayy. but yeah i do have to admit, some asian cultures have a LIL problem w/ african american peoplee.


aaaandddd, you rarely do see african americans with asians. its raree.
but i know some people who are half black & asian (:

but like at my school, alot of the black guys hit on asian girls -_-


and yeah some asian girls are stuck-up. not me. i hope. haha.

[Tung]

Black girls can't handle a chicken chowmein dick.

[DoubleJ]

Black girls can't handle a chicken chowmein dick.

Because it is not coming with pork fried rice on the side lmao!

[Tung]

It comes with a liter of Soy Milk if you know what I mean.

[DoubleJ]

Hey I like soy milk...no homo! Naw, but they wouldn't even want that. Now if it came with some Henny or some Remy, then maybe they would budge.

[Tung]

You're right. Black girls don't like getting nutted in the face.

[*cakedout*]

who gives a f**k if they dont, im still doing it

[hi-C]

You're right. Black girls don't like getting nutted in the face.

Does anyone like getting nutted in the face?

[brooklyneast05]

Does anyone like getting nutted in the face?

white girls, they're strange like that.

[hi-C]

I knew someone was going to say that.


What's the appeal of it, for guys at least? (I should make this a new thread...)

[MrStrife]

I dated a black girl once while I was living in New York!! It was cool, but the thing was we didn't really click like we thought in the first place and her attitude kept bugging the shit outta me.

[*cakedout*]

I knew someone was going to say that.
What's the appeal of it, for guys at least? (I should make this a new thread...)

Dominance, kind of like how dogs pee to mark their territory.

[misoshiru]

one of my really good friends is half black puerto rican and half chinese. her dad being chinese and mom puerto rican.

[forthesakeof]

ha I read the asian girl part and I'm half agreeing with it. It depends on the guy.

[heyo-captain-jac...]

What's with all these bumps?

[tokyo-rose]

There's a black/Asian couple (black guy, Asian girl) in the grade below me at school, and honestly, I sometimes think it's weird seeing them around school together. I guess it's because I haven't seen that many black/Asian couples around, even though it's New York City. Maybe I just haven't been looking closely enough.

As for the whole "Asian parents being biased/racist" thing, my mom dislikes black, Indian, and probably Middle Eastern people; not sure about Hispanic people. So I'm pretty sure she would be unhappy if I were to date someone from any of those ethnic groups.

[fagget]

My mom's Asian and she's a night rider.

[miszxjojo]

my cousin is asian and her boyfrannnd is black .

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

My best friend comes from an Asian woman/black man relationship.
I haven't seen another Black/Asian relationships since then, but then again, I don't have that many black friends here.

The closest I've been to being in a relationship with a black guy is one date.
Generally, I try to be up front with my feelings for a guy. I don't waste their time the same way I wouldn't want them to waste my time.

My grandmother is very racist. She has no problem using the N word anywhere. Good thing I don't see her anymore, cause she's quite a bitch.
My mom, well, when she sees a black person on TV, she'd be like, "Hey, Mel, it's your friend's cousin." or something like that. I just sigh and move on. There's not much I can do.

Oh! One time, we were at an Indonesian restaurant, and I talked about taking my friend with us next time [the one from the relationship above]. My mom said no because she thinks that the Indonesian people at the restaurant would stare.

Bottom line is, Asian parents are very strict and quicker to judge than other people. This means that once they're introduced to a certain stereotype, they tend to stick to that and refuse to budge.
Dating itself is a weird subject between parents and kids, and interracial dating is even more...complicated, so to speak.

F*ck ya grandmammy. I tell her my name is Hung Lo, and she will believe I'm asian. Then when I hear her use the N word in my presence I will karate chop her in to the great heavens with my Buddha Fist.

There's a black/Asian couple (black guy, Asian girl) in the grade below me at school, and honestly, I sometimes think it's weird seeing them around school together. I guess it's because I haven't seen that many black/Asian couples around, even though it's New York City. Maybe I just haven't been looking closely enough.

As for the whole "Asian parents being biased/racist" thing, my mom dislikes black, Indian, and probably Middle Eastern people; not sure about Hispanic people. So I'm pretty sure she would be unhappy if I were to date someone from any of those ethnic groups.

F*ck yo mama. I'll come up to where she residing at with an asian chick and make her like it b. Scarf around my neck, looking like I always stay warm.
















































I'm just playing yall.

[fameONE]

I'm dating an Asian girl. I haven't met her mother yet, but I've talked to her on the phone. She seems to adore me.

Obviously, she knows that I'm a brotha.

Blasian babies are so adorable.

[sajae102]

I for one, is biracical and I love ALL races. I was raised in the city and the suburbs and I understand the the relevance of class, and culture..which in my opinion is far more imporant than race. I was wondering what people thought about black women dating white men. Most white men claim they are "open" to dating black women, however; statistics show that this is a rare case. of course, interracial realtionships is nothing new, but; it is more likely a black man and white women in a relationship rather than the other way around.

I love to date outside of my race for the following reasons: open my world to new cultures and backgrounds,etc. Also, the statistics of available black men are frightening. Half of them are in jail, the other have a load of illegiment children, or they are murdered from sensless crime (I'm just stating statisitcs. I know that this is not the case for EVERY black man, so please don't misunderstand me). Even though I date outside of my race, I still feel it has its challenges. What do you think?

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[Tung]

Because people tend to date up, meaning they don't date below their racial hierarchy. Why would white men want black women when they can have the Asian women or their own white kind.

[brooklyneast05]

it could simply be that interracial couples as a whole are on the rise in general? so if that's the case, it wouldn't really be all that surprising that individual pairings like white men/black women is rising too. just saying that the answer could be just that interracial couples are more acceptable than they ever have been and so they're increasing accordingly.

Because people tend to date up, meaning they don't date below their racial hierarchy. Why would white men want black women when they can have the Asian women or their own white kind.

asians are high on the racial hierarchy?

wait, i don't even know what racial hierarchy you're talking about to begin with. what are you talking about.

[fameONE]

Debate? Debate this? Why?

LOLWUT?

[Tung]

I dunno, hard to explain this, but Asian women are definitely higher than Black women in the interracial dating scene. Asian men though? They are on the bottom of this hierarchy. It's not just one racial hierarchy, but it's two sets which is gender based.

If you look at the male's racial hierarchy, I would say it would go in terms of

1. White
2. Black
3. Latino
4. Asian

while for females

1. White
2. Asian
3. Latino
4. Black

but that's just my opinion and what most of my 400 of so classmates came to an agreement in my Human Sexuality class.

[superstitious]

Debate? Debate this? Why?

LOLWUT?

Eh, I don't know. I guess this could go into Relationships but I left it where it was posted.

Also, sometimes things evolve into a Debate. Already "racial hierarchy", what it means, if it means anything is sort of being debated.

Personally, I don't care where white chicks, such as myself fit in the "hierarchy." I don't give a shit what race or color a man is. All I care about is how intelligent he is, how kind he is to me, that he has a sense of humor and is patient with my random humor and is cool with my kid.

Being a geek helps. haha

[Tung]

I don't care for this hierarchy either, but you can't deny that it doesn't exist in our society.

[fameONE]

I dunno, hard to explain this, but Asian women are definitely higher than Black women in the interracial dating scene. Asian men though? They are on the bottom of this hierarchy. It's not just one racial hierarchy, but it's two sets which is gender based.

If you look at the male's racial hierarchy, I would say it would go in terms of

1. White
2. Black
3. Latino
4. Asian

while for females

1. White
2. Asian
3. Latino
4. Black

but that's just my opinion and what most of my 400 of so classmates came to an agreement in my Human Sexuality class.

I don't buy that at all. I just don't believe in this concept.

[superstitious]

I don't care for this hierarchy either, but you can't deny that it doesn't exist in our society.

I believe that there are racial biases out there, similar to a woman prefering a male with dark hair, for example. I do not, however, believe that there is a racial hierarchy, such as you have posted.

Perhaps historically there might have been, but we're at a point, especially in America where there isn't as clear a definitive divide between the classes when it comes to race/color/ethnicity. I'm interpreting the hierarchy as just that... a class system that comes into play when choosing a "mate."

[sixfive]

It's true. White men love Asian women. There was a song about this, called "Things White People Like."

http://stuffwhitepeoplelike.com/full-list-...te-people-like/

Here that's a full list of what we like.

95% of white males have at one point in their lives, experienced yellow fever. Many factors have contributed to this phenomenon such as guilt from head taxes, internment camps, dropping the Nuclear bomb and the Viet Nam War . This exchange works both ways as asian girls have a tendency to go for white guys. (White girls never go for asian guys. Bruce Lee and Paul Kariya’s dad are the only recorded instances in modern history). Asian girls often to do this to get back at their strict traditional fathers. There is also the option of dating black guys, but they know deep down that this would give their non-english speaking grandmother(s) a heart attack.

White men love asian women so much that they will go to extremes such as stating that Sandra Oh is sexy, teaching English in Asia, playing in a coed volleyball league, or attending institutions such as UBC or UCLA (please note that both schools’ colors of “blue” and “yellow” are intentional also the “A” in “UCLA” stand for “Asian” while the “B” in “UBC” stands for “Billion” try and figure out what the rest of the letters stand for). Another factor that draws white guys to asian women is that white women are jealous of them.

Take for instance the fact that asian women well into their 30s and 40s retain teen / college girl looks without the help of botox, yoga or a trendy diet (future posts). Asian women also avoid key white women characteristics such as having a mid life crisis, divorce, and hobbies that don’t involve taking care of the children (also future posts). Should white guy / asian girl marry, they produce hybrids that are atheistically pleasing, but are very annoying. This practice is also a means by which white people can catch up to the asian peoples in the population race, as most of the hybrids often act white rather than asian.

[illriginal]

Natural Selection.

[brooklyneast05]

@ the racial hierarchy

i don't understand what it's based off of though or who's perspective this is based off? i mean is it supposed to be what men and women in general prefer? i get that you're not saying this is the ranking for how every single person feels, but i don't even feel it reflects generally either.

i don't think it's possible to make a ranking even in a general sense for all males, because from my experience the ranking would usually change up from one race to another. does that make sense? white women might be #1 to white men, but i don't think white women are #1 to every male (even in general)

i duno, i can't figure out a good wording for what i'm saying. so, in the end i'm saying i don't agree with the ranking. personally, i don't think it can be ranked, period. but even if i was going to attempt to do something as silly as rank women by race, it wouldn't reflect that order anyway.

[illriginal]

I wish race didn't exist -.-

I hate that separatist shit.

[karmakiller]

haha, I don't get the racial hierarchy, either. Is it what a certain group of people prefer or the way society tends to be?

Interracial dating/marriage doesn't bother me at all. But if you were to talk to my aunts and uncles who are older they would have a few choice things to say. I think our culture is changing and will soon be more accepting to interracial couples.

I wish I could be one of those women who say that it doesn't matter, but it kind of does. For me, it isn't a race thing, but a culture thing. It seems like people are more apt to marrying someone who shares a similar culture to them because they have similar upbringings and beliefs.

[Sandraaa]

I for one, is biracical and I love ALL races. I was raised in the city and the suburbs and I understand the the relevance of class, and culture..which in my opinion is far more imporant than race. I was wondering what people thought about black women dating white men. Most white men claim they are "open" to dating black women, however; statistics show that this is a rare case. of course, interracial realtionships is nothing new, but; it is more likely a black man and white women in a relationship rather than the other way around.

I love to date outside of my race for the following reasons: open my world to new cultures and backgrounds,etc. Also, the statistics of available black men are frightening. Half of them are in jail, the other have a load of illegiment children, or they are murdered from sensless crime (I'm just stating statisitcs. I know that this is not the case for EVERY black man, so please don't misunderstand me). Even though I date outside of my race, I still feel it has its challenges. What do you think?

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So, this of course only applies to the U.S. I mean the part where half of Black men are in jail, the illegitimate kids part and the murdered from sensless crimes part. Even though it's 'statistics'.

Anyhoo, where I live (a shithole called Belgium, in Europe) Asians go out with Asians. It is rare to see Asians with Whites / blacks. Although I had an African neighbour whose wife was Chinese. That said, it is rare where I live. As for Black women dating White men, it's not rare rather it's common. My two Black female friends are dating / dated only White men. In the metro, we see White men with Black women, on the roads, the same thing. I am currently dating a White man. He's Spanish not Hispanic (people actually confuse them), making him White.

It is actually getting more common, the whole White men dating Black women.

[shoryuken]

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[shoryuken]

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[LittleMissSunshi...]

I only know one couple that a black woman and a white man. But technically that man is not white, he's spanish. I've met many where black women are dating asians and hispanics, and where black men date different races of women. I've met many couples that has a black man and a white girl. It's not very common that I've seen a black girl and a white guy together. Although I'm pretty sure it'll rise.

[hypnotique]

Idk for me Im just attracted to the opposite.

I'm a Latina who loves white guys and Asians cause thats just what floats my boat. I never have been attracted to my own cause 1)they are retarded and uneducated or the way they were raised conflicts with my personality 2) Because its almost like dating my brother or sister. I mean its possible that if you date in the race they could possibly be related to you its probably unlikely but whatever..


Now before certain people jump on my dick for this statement i have been told by numerous people that I know that they do not like dating black women just because of attitude and personality conflicts. For example my best friend told me she has tried dating a few of them and they always either end up really really f*cking bitchy or they come off to be possessive and jealous all the time. As I recall one of her exes had a problem with me because I hugged her (my best friend) a lot and she actually got in my face about it. Could it possibly be a bad series of girls she bumped into? Maybe. But shes not they only I heard to have issues with it even men have told me that cant handle that shit.

At the same time alot of individuals in the D&S circle embrace the "abrasive dominance" if you will a black woman has.

http://femdomstudygroup.blogspot.com/2008/...issive-man.html
According to this nicely done blog/survey the majority of submissive males you will find are white

Fun fact: The only woman I ever truly loved was black...

[hi-C]

Topics merged.

[Gigi]

@ the racial hierarchy

i don't understand what it's based off of though or who's perspective this is based off? i mean is it supposed to be what men and women in general prefer? i get that you're not saying this is the ranking for how every single person feels, but i don't even feel it reflects generally either.

i don't think it's possible to make a ranking even in a general sense for all males, because from my experience the ranking would usually change up from one race to another. does that make sense? white women might be #1 to white men, but i don't think white women are #1 to every male (even in general)

i duno, i can't figure out a good wording for what i'm saying. so, in the end i'm saying i don't agree with the ranking. personally, i don't think it can be ranked, period. but even if i was going to attempt to do something as silly as rank women by race, it wouldn't reflect that order anyway.

I completely agree with this. I think there is some sort of "racial hierarchy" that exists but it's totally different for each group of people. You can barely mush people together into a single racial group as it is, let alone as an all-encompassing group. Tung's hierarchy might be right, but for who? What kind of people? Surely it's not the same for each group. And if you're saying that's the "general" hierarchy, are we assuming that there are more white people and therefore the whole scale is tipped? It's all quite silly.

It's like saying that generally, everyone on this planet is good at math because Chinese people are good at math, and there are a lot of Chinese people on this planet. All (possibly) true, but relevant? Not really. It's much more useful to look at the different cultural influences - i.e. WHY certain types of people differ in math skills in this example, or for interracial dating, WHY certain types of groups like other types of groups - rather than clump everything into a single generality.

[Sandraaa]

I only know one couple that a black woman and a white man. But technically that man is not white, he's spanish. I've met many where black women are dating asians and hispanics, and where black men date different races of women. I've met many couples that has a black man and a white girl. It's not very common that I've seen a black girl and a white guy together. Although I'm pretty sure it'll rise.

Spanish IS White. Spaniards ARE White. Latinos on the other hand aren't.

[*BOSS*]

@ the racial hierarchy

i don't understand what it's based off of though or who's perspective this is based off? i mean is it supposed to be what men and women in general prefer? i get that you're not saying this is the ranking for how every single person feels, but i don't even feel it reflects generally either.

i don't think it's possible to make a ranking even in a general sense for all males, because from my experience the ranking would usually change up from one race to another. does that make sense? white women might be #1 to white men, but i don't think white women are #1 to every male (even in general)

i duno, i can't figure out a good wording for what i'm saying. so, in the end i'm saying i don't agree with the ranking. personally, i don't think it can be ranked, period. but even if i was going to attempt to do something as silly as rank women by race, it wouldn't reflect that order anyway.

Its pretty much white and then everyone else. Well, pertaining to the US at least.

[brooklyneast05]

Its pretty much white and then everyone else. Well, pertaining to the US at least.

according to who though? you mean all black people, asian people, hispanic people, all prefer white first?

[*BOSS*]

To US society

[Simba]

didn't read a single thing but just wanted to say that I <3 muh s

[LittleMissSunshi...]

Spanish IS White. Spaniards ARE White. Latinos on the other hand aren't.

he's Cuban, so does that describe him as Latino or Spanish? I don't know the difference -__-.

[PurpleDaze112]

black guys are with everyone. Like, I've seen a blakc guy in every kind of relationship, black/white, black/asian, gay/straight, all that.

I don't really know alot of asian girls, but I guess they come like everyone else, tease or slut, whatever. It's weird how you never see a black chick with anyone else but someone black. I'd date any kind of guy. Race doesn't really matter.

[hi-C]

he's Cuban, so does that describe him as Latino or Spanish? I don't know the difference -__-.

Latino. Spanish = from Spain. Latino = from Central/South America (but not Brazil) and the Caribbean (i.e. the rest of the world).

[brooklyneast05]

seems every asian girl ive ever talked to said her parents would never want them to date a black guy. asian girls in my life as well as asian girls here on cb that i've talked to about this.



yeah i'm talking to you tina

[LittleMissSunshi...]

LOL. it's not our fault that Asian parents don't allow black people.. Heck my parents don't want me to date Spanish/Latino guys. They feel better with our own kind.. which is sad, cause they go traditionally. I never asked my parents about white guys, although they might approve because many of my cousins are married to white men and women.

[*BOSS*]

lol@jc keeping his options oppened

[Sandraaa]

LOL. it's not our fault that Asian parents don't allow black people.. Heck my parents don't want me to date Spanish/Latino guys. They feel better with our own kind.. which is sad, cause they go traditionally. I never asked my parents about white guys, although they might approve because many of my cousins are married to white men and women.

Your parents don't want you to date Latinos, not Spanish. You've never asked them about White guys so you don't know if they'd approve of you dating Spanish guys. Seeing as Spaniards are White. LOL. I'm sorry but it kind of irks me when people confuse Spanish people with Latinos. Spain is in Europe and Europeans are White. xD

[gojira]

if you want to get that literal, sure. her parents are still going to judge by their skin color. if the 'spanish' looks a least bit latino (kinda like how all asians look alike), her parents are going to disapprove.

[Sandraaa]

if you want to get that literal, sure. her parents are still going to judge by their skin color. if the 'spanish' looks a least bit latino (kinda like how all asians look alike), her parents are going to disapprove.

... Spanish people look White with a very good tan. My boyfriend is Spanish and trust me he's White, except when he goes to Spain for holidays, then he comes back tan. My boyfriend's mom is very White with red hair. LOL. Anyway, I understand that some of them look like Latinos but that's not the case in general. ;)

[LittleMissSunshi...]

Your parents don't want you to date Latinos, not Spanish. You've never asked them about White guys so you don't know if they'd approve of you dating Spanish guys. Seeing as Spaniards are White. LOL. I'm sorry but it kind of irks me when people confuse Spanish people with Latinos. Spain is in Europe and Europeans are White. xD

I never really asked for white people as in American whites. because many of my cousins are married to whites as in not Spaniards. down here in south florida, latinos and spanish are mixed together, cause they are freaking everywhere, so we kinda just call them all one race here. anywho, it's exactly how gojira said it.

[Sandraaa]

I never really asked for white people as in American whites. because many of my cousins are married to whites as in not Spaniards. down here in south florida, latinos and spanish are mixed together, cause they are freaking everywhere, so we kinda just call them all one race here. anywho, it's exactly how gojira said it.

LOL. Oh. Alright. :)

[DoubleJ]

LMAO@ JC CALLING OUT TINA

[kryogenix]

I see lots of Asians shopping at The GAP but not too many blacks

[hi-C]

I shop at the Gap

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

This is why I date latin chicks; the parents don't have a problem wit'cha boy.

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

I see lots of Asians shopping at The GAP but not too many blacks

I thought LL Cool J was a spokesperson for GAP, but I was thinking wrong. It was FUBU. Continue.