i love you?, when and how to say it??!!?!?! |
 Apr 23 2008, 07:35 PM
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 na-nancy  Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179  |
okies, so me and my bestest guyfriend (knew each other for 2 years before dating)
have been dating for 2 months as of today =).. and he's the sweetest-grestest guy any girl could have. and he started liking me ever since freshmen year (now sophomores). he's already said "i love you" to me, and i just reacted "already???" and omggg, i feel so stupid!!!..okay, i never ever said "i love you" to any guy yet! and i don't know when to say "i love you" to him, i'm not really sure how to. and i'm not sure if i do love him, YET. so uhh yeahhh, i definitely need help! |
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Apr 23 2008, 07:39 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
tell him you love him, when you feel and know that you love him.
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Apr 23 2008, 07:41 PM
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na-nancy Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179 |
QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 23 2008, 06:39 PM)  tell him you love him, when you feel and know that you love him. that's definitely how i'm thinking..*sighh XP when i definitely know that i do. |
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Apr 23 2008, 07:43 PM
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 drama is so intising i might just bite a mothaf**ka like tyson Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,361 |
and believe me girl you'll know it. you'll know when, and how.. because it'll come out..hopefully he understands he has to wait and not everyone falls in love so fast like him. so if he can be patient and wait for you to love him back..he's cool. cause some guys like to say well you dont love me back? its over.. cause they are dumb. it's always nice to love someone and have them love you back too though..
 dont feel pressured though.
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Apr 23 2008, 08:23 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
Deffinately don't say it just because he said it to you. Even though that seems like the "fair" thing it isn't. If you feel that way, than by all means go ahead and say it. And since you've heard it from him, he's already broke the ice there... so you know he isn't going to freak out.
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Apr 23 2008, 08:46 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 717 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,551 |
QUOTE(karmakiller @ Apr 23 2008, 06:23 PM) Deffinately don't say it just because he said it to you. ^. If you don't love him back, truly, or know that you do, don't say it back to him just to make him happy. That's just tossing the word "love" around like its nothing. Wait until you're sure you know that you love him. |
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Apr 23 2008, 08:50 PM
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 yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
my boyfriend said i love you before i did. and he didn't rush me into saying it. which made me adore him even more.
 you shouldn't say it unless you know for sure because you don't want to lead him on. this isn't one of those "hey friend, i love you!" so it needs to be felt with the heart, and not just a thought in your head. right now, just enjoy being with him and spending time with him. eventually you'll probably feel the same and say it too.  and happy month-iversary. 
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Apr 23 2008, 08:52 PM
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 <(^_^<) DANCE!(>^_^)> Group: Official Member Posts: 1,304 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,621 |
QUOTE(karmakiller @ Apr 23 2008, 09:23 PM) Deffinately don't say it just because he said it to you. Even though that seems like the "fair" thing it isn't. If you feel that way, than by all means go ahead and say it. And since you've heard it from him, he's already broke the ice there... so you know he isn't going to freak out. i agree. that's not something to to play with. you wouldn't want someone to say it to you and not mean it, would you? whenever you feel ready to say it then go ahead, but until then just let him know you care and that he means a lot to you. hopefully, if he does love you, he'll understand. don't sweat it! 
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Apr 23 2008, 08:53 PM
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 cake or DEATH Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 631 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,586 |
you've only been going out with him for 2 months. give yourself more time to open up to each other and develop a strong connection first. don't say "i love you" when you're unsure. wait until you truly feel it :)
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Apr 23 2008, 09:18 PM
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na-nancy Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179 |
thanks so much, everyone!!!
i think i'll just take everything as it goes. and i'm sure he would definitely understand, he never pressures me into anything =D *he's too much of a sweetie to...and i'll definitely tell him when i know it for sure. I care about him alot, i really do, and he means alot to me - but it's not enough to where i love him yet. I truly believe the word "love" isn't a term to play around with. But, there are times when i do feel bad because i never ever said it to him yet, but then again i don't want to lead him on with it just to be fair. But I'll definitely wait until it comes... Thanks again, everyone! What would I do without you guys??? =D |
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Apr 23 2008, 09:20 PM
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yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
QUOTE(na-nancy @ Apr 23 2008, 10:18 PM) Thanks again, everyone! What would I do without you guys??? =D tell him you love him and regret it. JUST KIDDING. you're welcomeeee. i hope everything works out for you.
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Apr 23 2008, 09:23 PM
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na-nancy Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179 |
HAH.
that's funny, but a no-no =D i'll wait ^ ^ |
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Apr 23 2008, 09:25 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
You shouldn't have to ask yourself whether or not you love him. Don't rush things. Say it when you mean it. Just let it flow and when you do, try to avoid "I need to tell you something...".
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Apr 24 2008, 01:21 AM
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 The Illustrious Mari C. Group: Member Posts: 586 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,671 |
Clearly! if you made this topic, you're not ready to say it yet, so don't...no one can tell you how to say it or when to say it; that defeats the purpose...it's a strong word & should be used carefully & wisely...if you don't mean it then keep it out of your mouth unless you're talking about love in a just friends or fam type of way
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Apr 24 2008, 01:25 AM
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Newbie Group: Banned Posts: 9 Joined: Apr 2008 Member No: 643,665 |
You.... do?
I guess I love you too? |
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Apr 24 2008, 01:46 AM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 23 2008, 07:39 PM) tell him you love him, when you feel and know that you love him. Simple enough answer. If you love him as a best guy friend still, it's fine to let him know that as long as you clarify. You don't want to make him feel unloved in that way at all :P |
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Apr 24 2008, 10:54 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Apr 2008 Member No: 642,341 |
I told my girlfriend i loved her after a couple of weeks and she laughed in my face. I like to repay the favour by making a point to fart every time she says it now.
The romance isn't dead. |
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