Does it ever feel like..., you're on a long term badluck streak? |
Does it ever feel like..., you're on a long term badluck streak? |
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![]() SCHGEB!SCHGEB! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 ![]() |
Seriously.
For the longest time now, maybe a 12 month period, everything that goes on in my life always turns out for the worst. Honestly, I can't even remember the last time i was truly happy. Ever had a badluck streak? If so, does it ever get better? ![]() |
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![]() I'm Jc ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 ![]() |
yeah and as long as you're convinced you're on a bad luck streak it never gets better.
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![]() here, here, and here ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 ![]() |
Exactly what he said^
Stop being pessimistic and be optimistic |
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#4
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![]() Addict ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 ![]() |
I'm the exact opposite! Stay chipper and believe that it all happens for a reason and you'll be hit on the head (figuratively) by some wonderful luck soon enough.
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 ![]() |
Ugh I hate it... but there's nothin else that I can think of other than, "ok, God is testing me, this is a small struggle I'm gonna have to go through. I just need faith and handle it as best as I can"
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I'd gone through this before, and I've almost given up because of it. For some reason, I just occupied my mind with other things, and didn't give up. Now I am where I am today, and completely happy with all the things that have happened thus far. You just have to wait it out, which can seem like the hardest things to do when you're in a "down" period.
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![]() <(^_^<) DANCE!(>^_^)> ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 1,304 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,621 ![]() |
been there. it feels like a never ending nightmare sometimes, but you just have to find the "bright" side of things. personally i think that if you think positive, you'll attract good things to yourself (so cliche i know). if you're always thinking that things will never get better, they won't. just distract yourself from the things that go wrong (which could be many) and focus on the things that turn out good (be they few).
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#8
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![]() SCHGEB!SCHGEB! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 ![]() |
But the thing is, in these last two weeks, I thought things were gettng better by the way it was all going. But i got my hopes up cause I actually felt happy for once, and then it all just blew up in my face. Now I'm back to square one, waiting for something good to happen, meantime not trying to think of it too much.
Hmmm |
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#9
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 ![]() |
But the thing is, in these last two weeks, I thought things were gettng better by the way it was all going. But i got my hopes up cause I actually felt happy for once, and then it all just blew up in my face. Now I'm back to square one, waiting for something good to happen, meantime not trying to think of it too much. Hmmm Don't let negativity run your mind. You put too much thought into it and it'll become this sort of manifestation out of your negative thoughts, trust me when I say that the human mind is powerful. |
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![]() sleep now, moon ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 ![]() |
But the thing is, in these last two weeks, I thought things were gettng better by the way it was all going. But i got my hopes up cause I actually felt happy for once, and then it all just blew up in my face. Now I'm back to square one, waiting for something good to happen, meantime not trying to think of it too much. Hmmm Are things getting better, or are you getting better? You can't always change the circumstances around you. The only thing you can do is find a constructive way to make it through and get something out of the experience. Stop waiting for good things to happen. MAKE good things happen. It's your damn life. |
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![]() Kissing for yesterday. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Designer Posts: 465 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 569,813 ![]() |
try your hardest to find good things.
or resolute in writing songs or photoshopping? (yay for createblog) or write everything into a diary. it works for some of my friends ![]() |
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#12
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 ![]() |
Seriously. For the longest time now, maybe a 12 month period, everything that goes on in my life always turns out for the worst. Honestly, I can't even remember the last time i was truly happy. Ever had a badluck streak? If so, does it ever get better? ![]() yezz... ![]() ![]() buttt cuzz gottt f@gg ppll stalkkk orr keepp lookinn moi... moii fukk noo likee da shiet!! ![]() ![]() |
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#13
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![]() Member ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 21 Joined: Apr 2008 Member No: 639,252 ![]() |
Just try not to think about it.
Usually if alot of things bad happen, something good will come out of it in the end. |
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![]() AIDS at RAVES. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,386 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,878 ![]() |
this is my year
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![]() SCHGEB!SCHGEB! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 ![]() |
^Ha, that's how i feel.
and i get it, i do try thinking positive, but everyday just keeps getting worse! and now it's to the point where i'm surrounded by extremely happy people with everything going well for them, and i just feel too out of place. I think it's time for a vacation :[ |
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#16
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![]() The Illustrious Mari C. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 586 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,671 ![]() |
Whoa! @ bad luck streak; well I've never had a bad luck streak, but there have been times where I wasn't happy & sick of it, but instead of being a pessimist & worrying about never being happy, I just chilled & got involved in things that made me genuinely smile, got rid of the people & things that caused me unhappiness of any sort, & just focused on myself & now I can honestly say I'm happy & my motto now is there's no reason to be sad when you are blessed. So to answer your question, it does get better, you just can't allow your mind to be persuaded otherwise by negativity.
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