Long Distance Relationship of mine..., well..sort of. Options

[RaphieRyouga]

So,its been a while since I've been on CB but my last topic was about my Long Distance Relationship.

That Topic >.>;

It been about a year since that and well...
I'll list whats happened.
1.Well we made it an open long distance relationship.
2.Then after she started dating someone,she thought it be better to end it(our relationship)
3.But we still talk and love each other like whoa tho.
4.So after two relationships after me and now a third one,
I'm beginning to think should I just end it.

Its been really hard to talk to hear because she's so busy,so I cant discuss this with her.

But even when I'm angry and confused,she'll show one sign that she still cares.

So now I'm confused,
I love her but she makes life so hard.
At the same time,I dont want to give up on her.

What do I do?


ps:if you want to know more details just look me up on myspace.
pss:it would be nice to have someone to talk to about this. =/

[shoryuken]

let see mo pix with u n the girl..

[MeanBastard]

End it. The end.

She's been with three other guys. Or two, doesn't matter the number. The point is she wanted to be with someone else. I bet this open relationship was her idea too.

[weed]

Click here to read cB's "Long Distance Relationship Guide"

[RaphieRyouga]

let see mo pix with u n the girl..

Thats kinda the thing,if you looked at the link,I've never really met her.

Closest thing was webcam,then next to that was by phone.

[shoryuken]

Thats kinda the thing,if you looked at the link,I've never really met her.

Closest thing was webcam,then next to that was by phone.

ummm.. eee.. ooo... ahhh... ye how bout u put up sum pix with u n da gurl..

[RaphieRyouga]

End it. The end.

She's been with three other guys. Or two, doesn't matter the number. The point is she wanted to be with someone else. I bet this open relationship was her idea too.

I forgot to mention,I've known her for almost 4 years.
To lets her go that easily is beyond hard for me.
Plus,without her I'd probably wouldnt be her today.

[RaphieRyouga]

ummm.. eee.. ooo... ahhh... ye how bout u put up sum pix with u n da gurl..

Excuse me but what part of "havent really met her" can you not understand?

[shoryuken]

oh fo real.. let see hur pix.. then i tell u 2 let go r not..

[RaphieRyouga]

Click here to read cB's "Long Distance Relationship Guide"

Been there,really cant help me much.

[RaphieRyouga]

oh fo real.. let see hur pix.. then i tell u 2 let go r not..

Thats where the "p.s" come in.
"For more details."

[shoryuken]

guesss cant helpp u then kid..

me try kid me try.. but hardd 2 helpp wen u got no pix

[RaphieRyouga]

guesss cant helpp u then kid..

me try kid me try.. but hardd 2 helpp wen u got no pix

Let me ask,why do you need a picture?
Cant you just read whats in the link?
In that topic,I basically said how much she means to me.

Its personality that makes a relationship not just looks.

[MeanBastard]

You've never met this girl and now you're all sad sad about her? Dump her. But you can't really dump her. Because she is with someone else. Lol.

[shoryuken]

Let me ask,why do you need a picture?
Cant you just read whats in the link?
In that topic,I basically said how much she means to me.

Its personality that makes a relationship not just looks.

oh kid... when u look att pic.. u cann tell alot.. NAH MEAN..

[RaphieRyouga]

You've never met this girl and now you're all sad sad about her? Dump her. But you can't really dump her. Because she is with someone else. Lol.

With a username of MeanBastard,I guess you cant help but aim for the negative answer.

What part of four years of knowing her can you not comprehend?

Four years,four years that helped me get though my life and everything that I've hated about it.

She's helped me with my most toughest times and to simple leave her as if she was just some random person to add me on myspace is not point.

[cupidstunt]

^ what's having a pic of her got to do with anything?




Anyway, I'm in the same boat as you. Except we don't have an open relationship. We're fully committed to one another and have been for the past two years.

But for my advice on this, I suppose you just be friends with her. You care about her and she cares about you. And when you're friends you can still help each other out. She obviously wants to be with other people, so I don't know what to do for you there. If you can't talk to her about this yourself, then I see no point in being in a relationship with her. To have a long distance relationship, you need time for each other, and she doesn't have the time it seems.

Hope all things go well for you, though.

[RaphieRyouga]

oh kid... when u look att pic.. u cann tell alot.. NAH MEAN..

Oh I see where you aiming at.





Just for that, no.

[shoryuken]

u bietchez lamee... no helpp u now..

[MeanBastard]

Oh shit, did I say leave her? I meant dump her. As in end the relationship where you're her "boyfriend" and she's your "girlfriend." Except shes not really your girlfriend. She's about two to three other people's girlfriend. And you're not really a boyfriend.

Keep talking to her online. You'll soon find out what it means to be a exclusive boyfriend, you killer. Er, I mean you assassin.

[RaphieRyouga]

^ what's having a pic of her got to do with anything?
Anyway, I'm in the same boat as you. Except we don't have an open relationship. We're fully committed to one another and have been for the past two years.

But for my advice on this, I suppose you just be friends with her. You care about her and she cares about you. And when you're friends you can still help each other out. She obviously wants to be with other people, so I don't know what to do for you there. If you can't talk to her about this yourself, then I see no point in being in a relationship with her. To have a long distance relationship, you need time for each other, and she doesn't have the time it seems.

Hope all things go well for you, though.

THANK f**kING YOU!
back to the point.
We're not together at the moment,because when she was with me and another guy there'd be some issues. like th guy being jealous and such.

but I'm beginning to understand that she does care and she wont do anything to hurt me.

[cupidstunt]

u bietchez lamee... no helpp u now..

Don't think you'd do much to begin with.

[MeanBastard]

Oh god, the ignorance bubble you're in is way over any body's comprehension.

We're not together at the moment,because when she was with me and another guy there'd be some issues. like th guy being jealous and such.

So she chose the other guy over you. You know why? Because you've never seen her, and probably never will.

[shoryuken]

andrwww.. meanbastaa.. azbaruka..

all ya'lll needaa go bak 2 skool n stopp talkin bout gurl..

[RaphieRyouga]

Oh shit, did I say leave her? I meant dump her. As in end the relationship where you're her "boyfriend" and she's your "girlfriend." Except shes not really your girlfriend. She's about two to three other people's girlfriend. And you're not really a boyfriend.

Keep talking to her online. You'll soon find out what it means to be a exclusive boyfriend, you killer. Er, I mean you assassin.

You're funny,you know that?
Leave and Dump basically share the same relative meaning to my situation.

The reasons she left those other guy is because,they all hurt her.
And I was always there to help her.
You have no clue what I've done for her.
Regardless of me being there or not,I still cared for her as if we were together.

[cupidstunt]

THANK f**kING YOU!
back to the point.
We're not together at the moment,because when she was with me and another guy there'd be some issues. like th guy being jealous and such.

but I'm beginning to understand that she does care and she wont do anything to hurt me.

No problem.

Of course she cares. If she's known you for four years, it'd be kind of odd that she wouldn't. Just keep her as a close friend and see what happens.

[MeanBastard]

...Then don't break up with her.

This is hopeless.

[shoryuken]

andrwww.. meanbastaa.. azbaruka..

all ya'lll needaa go bak 2 skool n stopp talkin bout gurl..

[RaphieRyouga]

meanbastard.
I feel like you've never really been in a relationship.
Thus you tell everyone who is having a problem with one to back out of it. Making you feel like you have dont a good thing.

nguoicasison.
you shut up.
you idiot.

[cupidstunt]

andrwww.. meanbastaa.. azbaruka..

all ya'lll needaa go bak 2 skool n stopp talkin bout gurl..

I am in school, unfortunately. But at least I'm not typing like an idiot.

[shoryuken]

meanbastard.
I feel like you've never really been in a relationship.
Thus you tell everyone who is having a problem with one to back out of it. Making you feel like you have dont a good thing.

nguoicasison.
you shut up.
you idiot.

carefull kid... me maybbee steall u gurl..

but dunno iff me wanna..

I am in school, unfortunately. But at least I'm not typing like an idiot.

what skool yo..? middlee skooll.?

[RaphieRyouga]

No problem.

Of course she cares. If she's known you for four years, it'd be kind of odd that she wouldn't. Just keep her as a close friend and see what happens.

Thank you,I have made a promise to her and she has to me.
But I made the promise first so its up to me mainly to keep it.


And thanks,I really appreciate that you out the other two people isnt being a total ass and actually helping me.

sure meanbastard is helping me but he's just saying it like an a-hole.

[MeanBastard]

meanbastard.
I feel like you've never really been in a relationship.
Thus you tell everyone who is having a problem with one to back out of it. Making you feel like you have dont a good thing.

Actually, I have.

You're in a problem, and I'm only telling you to back out because you're basically being cheated on. How many other girls have you been with?

I believe she cares for you. Just not in the relationship way.
I believe she loves you. Just not in the relationship way.

If she did, she wouldn't be thinking about, and acting on the thoughts, being with another guy.

*smacks head* zomg

[RaphieRyouga]

carefull kid... me maybbee steall u gurl..

but dunno iff me wanna..
what skool yo..? middlee skooll.?

nguoicasison.
what the hell is with your english and grammar.
I think you're the one who need to go back to school.

[cupidstunt]

carefull kid... me maybbee steall u gurl..

but dunno iff me wanna..
what skool yo..? middlee skooll.?

That's sick, dude. You're profile says you're 50 and that you're married. I hope you're kidding.

High school, tard.

[shoryuken]

all u little boy givee funni advicee so me just wanna LOL

nguoicasison.
what the hell is with your english and grammar.
I think you're the one who need to go back to school.

who need skool when u got the LOOK kid.. EH.. EH..

[cupidstunt]

Thank you,I have made a promise to her and she has to me.
But I made the promise first so its up to me mainly to keep it.
And thanks,I really appreciate that you out the other two people isnt being a total ass and actually helping me.

sure meanbastard is helping me but he's just saying it like an a-hole.

[MeanBastard]

I think you missed my post. By the way nquoicasison, you're pretty ugly. Forget that I mentioned I jerk off to your screen name.

meanbastard.
I feel like you've never really been in a relationship.
Thus you tell everyone who is having a problem with one to back out of it. Making you feel like you have dont a good thing.

Actually, I have.

You're in a problem, and I'm only telling you to back out because you're basically being cheated on. How many other girls have you been with?

I believe she cares for you. Just not in the relationship way.
I believe she loves you. Just not in the relationship way.

If she did, she wouldn't be thinking about, and acting on the thoughts, being with another guy.

*smacks head* zomg

[shoryuken]

im down with a PIC contest sexy...

that pic a couple month old.. my hair grow out long like golden lock now baby..

I GOT MY $$ SAY IMA OWN U HARD IN TERM OF LOOK!!!

[RaphieRyouga]

Actually, I have.

You're in a problem, and I'm only telling you to back out because you're basically being cheated on. How many other girls have you been with?

I believe she cares for you. Just not in the relationship way.
I believe she loves you. Just not in the relationship way.

If she did, she wouldn't be thinking about, and acting on the thoughts, being with another guy.

*smacks head* zomg

You've got a good point.
Which actually makes me like you more than nguoicasison over there.

but still,I could only be there half the time to help her.
her boyfriends just covered the 1/4 then her friends took the rest.

[MeanBastard]

I still don't understand how breaking up with her equates to not talking to her.

So have you dated anybody else?

[RaphieRyouga]

all u little boy givee funni advicee so me just wanna LOL

who need skool when u got the LOOK kid.. EH.. EH..

Oh boy, I've heard that before and the same people are doing crap in chool.

[cupidstunt]

im down with a PIC contest sexy...

that pic a couple month old.. my hair grow out long like golden lock now baby..

I GOT MY $$ SAY IMA OWN U HARD IN TERM OF LOOK!!!

But when it comes to brains, I'm pretty sure you're a dead man.

[shoryuken]

i see we come with agreement that none of u got chance with me in look contest.... very well...

carry on kidz..

[RaphieRyouga]

haha yes thumbs up to both what i said.

[RaphieRyouga]

Ok,well make an aggreement.
nguoicasison.
apparently you are highly infatuated with your look,yes?
so you must be interested in everyone elses looks.

andrew.
you've helped me alot.

meanbastard.
you do put some good facts on the table but still,
I have a good reasons to still be with her.
And what ever you do say,I probably will go against it.

and basically,
by arguing with everyone
I've answered my own problem.

If I'm this concerned about me and her still being together,then I see that I will stay by her side,up until the day i'm with her.

[MeanBastard]

Good luck with that.

*snickers*

[shoryuken]

Ok,well make an aggreement.
nguoicasison.
apparently you are highly infatuated with your look,yes?
so you must be interested in everyone elses looks.

andrew.
you've helped me alot.

meanbastard.
you do put some good facts on the table but still,
I have a good reasons to still be with her.
And what ever you do say,I probably will go against it.

and basically,
by arguing with everyone
I've answered my own problem.

If I'm this concerned about me and her still being together,then I see that I will stay by her side,up until the day i'm with her.

H3LL YEAHHH!!!! u crazii nott 2... BUWAHAHAHAH!!!!

meannbastardd calll me out.. so me wanna OWN sum NUB up..

but ye.. carryy onn kidz.. LEAVEE LITTLEE OLD MEE ALONEE!!!

[RaphieRyouga]

H3LL YEAHHH!!!! u crazii nott 2... BUWAHAHAHAH!!!!

meannbastardd calll me out.. so me wanna OWN sum NUB up..

but ye.. carryy onn kidz.. LEAVEE LITTLEE OLD MEE ALONEE!!!

what a loser. -sigh-

[shoryuken]

EY YO!! leaveee i allonee kid.. HAHAHAH

mee thinkk u sexyy zabachubaka...

OH YEA.. ZABURUKA.. U CANT QUOTE PPL PIC KID... u gonna get trouble.. so takee my pic out NOW kid!!!

[RaphieRyouga]

EY YO!! leaveee i allonee kid.. HAHAHAH

mee thinkk u sexyy zabachubaka...

cute.
and sorry your not a loser.

you homo.

[shoryuken]

ok... zabaruka.. u cant quote my PIC.. it againstt the RULE here kid.. so take my pic out or u gonna get BAN..

[RaphieRyouga]

ok... zabaruka.. u cant quote my PIC.. it againstt the RULE here kid.. so take my pic out or u gonna get BAN..

make meh. o.o

[shoryuken]

.... tryin 2 flirtt with me now...?

HAHAHAHAH

[RaphieRyouga]

.... tryin 2 flirtt with me now...?

HAHAHAHAH

Course not.
Dumbass.