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post Feb 25 2008, 11:22 PM
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i went to the mall this weekend and noticed some guys carrying purses for their supposed girlfriends.

i don't think i would let my boyfriend carry my purse. maybe help me with some of the stuff i buy but not my purse.

what about you?
 
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post Feb 25 2008, 11:27 PM
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I only ask when I'm going to the bathroom and don't want to deal with it. Or if I need both hands.

It's just like asking them to hold anything else. As long as you don't keep them holding it, then it's fine.
 
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post Feb 25 2008, 11:29 PM
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no, thats just gay.
 
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post Feb 25 2008, 11:39 PM
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he always offers, and when i'm lazy i accept the offer ;P

but sometimes i wanna rock my purse, so i'd rather i carry it so i can show it off ;X har.
 
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post Feb 25 2008, 11:44 PM
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when I need to do something and my purse is in the way I have him hold it for me. It's not like its over his shoulder and he's walking around with it...and clearly it's not his.
 
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post Feb 25 2008, 11:58 PM
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pockets ftw
or i just use his pockets. haha.

i hate having something on my arm. what if i have to punch someone or something?
 
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post Feb 25 2008, 11:59 PM
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post Feb 26 2008, 09:40 PM
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I wouldn't... Maybe only if I had to tie my shoe for a second and I had a big tote or something.
 
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post Feb 26 2008, 09:53 PM
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I would ask him if I need to do something with both of my hands, or if I'm going to the washroom. But it's not like I keep him holding it so it's fine...and I like to hold my own purse.
 
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post Feb 26 2008, 10:23 PM
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QUOTE(sparrowdust @ Feb 25 2008, 11:58 PM) *
pockets ftw
or i just use his pockets. haha.

i hate having something on my arm. what if i have to punch someone or something?


DUDE. i totally feel ya! i hate purses so much, they're so facking annoying. mellow.gif
 
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post Feb 27 2008, 09:21 AM
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if im shopping and holding alot of clothes or something. he will take it from me until we pay. only when im struggling or about to drop stuff he usually takes it then gives it back as soon as he can.
 
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post Feb 27 2008, 02:09 PM
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Only if I'm putting on or taking off a coat or sometime when I need both arms for a quick moment, but never for anything else or for a long time.
 
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post Feb 27 2008, 03:47 PM
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QUOTE(sparrowdust @ Feb 25 2008, 11:58 PM) *
pockets ftw
or i just use his pockets. haha.

i hate having something on my arm. what if i have to punch someone or something?

Damn, I think you're my long-lost sister that I never had. I hate purses, and if I need tampons, they just go into the boyfriend's pockets.
 
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post Feb 27 2008, 05:36 PM
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guys should NOT carry purses...... backpacks, sure, but not PURSES!
 
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post Feb 27 2008, 06:10 PM
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QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Feb 26 2008, 12:59 AM) *
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nah, i'm just physically aggressive.

QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Feb 27 2008, 04:47 PM) *
Damn, I think you're my long-lost sister that I never had. I hate purses, and if I need tampons, they just go into the boyfriend's pockets.


word.
 
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post Feb 27 2008, 06:17 PM
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lol..hey i say he can drag my purse....as long as it's not on his shoulder...i don't care...i'm lazy anyway
 
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post Feb 27 2008, 06:43 PM
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no, thats just gay.

FTW.
 
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post Feb 27 2008, 06:50 PM
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agreed with the bathroom thing.
yea, sometimes we need to use our hands for something else.

its gay if theyre wearing around their shoulders. but if they were swingin it around (not that i would particularly like that), it would be much less gay.

and no, never for a long time
 
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post Feb 27 2008, 07:03 PM
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QUOTE(avocado @ Feb 26 2008, 07:23 PM) *
DUDE. i totally feel ya! i hate purses so much, they're so facking annoying. mellow.gif


Agreed. It totally spoils the nature of w/e it is I'm doing. Freakin annoying~

So I usually wear jackets/shirts/pants w. pockets.

I seriously wonder how some of those chicks parade around w. their purses at their elbow in that one arm position (if you know what I mean). Wouldn't they get a cramp? O_O
 
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post Feb 27 2008, 07:28 PM
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Oh man, I was scared to click on this topic in case it was about men with manbags, laugh.gif

My boyfriend always insists upon carrying anything heavy or unwieldy. It's gentlemanly and I love to see it.
 
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post Feb 27 2008, 08:04 PM
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I hate purses so I never worry about it.

I carry only what i need.
 
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post Feb 28 2008, 11:12 PM
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i don't think men should carry purses period.
Unless they feel like they want to, but thats called something else.

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post Feb 28 2008, 11:49 PM
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Nah o_O, I've only made one guy carry my purse and that was in high school. I took advantage of him >_>

xD
 
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post Mar 1 2008, 10:58 AM
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QUOTE(shei @ Feb 28 2008, 11:12 PM) *
i don't think men should carry purses period.
Unless they feel like they want to, but thats called something else.

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lmao!
 
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post Mar 1 2008, 03:16 PM
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Never, i alwawys see guys carrying their girlfriends purse and i think it looks gay.
 
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post Jun 12 2008, 04:17 PM
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No, that would be embarrassing for him. :P I don't carry a purse too often anyway.
 
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post Jun 12 2008, 05:19 PM
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QUOTE(synkro @ Feb 25 2008, 11:39 PM) *
he always offers, and when i'm lazy i accept the offer ;P
mellow.gif i would never offer to carry my girlfriend's person. if she asked i would, but i wouldn't constantly pursue holding it.
 
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post Jun 12 2008, 05:21 PM
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QUOTE(Elba @ Jun 12 2008, 05:19 PM) *
mellow.gif i would never offer to carry my girlfriend's person. if she asked i would, but i wouldn't constantly pursue holding it.


same
 
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post Jun 12 2008, 05:22 PM
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If i had to fix my shoe or tie my hair back then yeah I would let him but other than that no
 
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post Jun 12 2008, 05:35 PM
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QUOTE(Elba @ Jun 12 2008, 06:19 PM) *
mellow.gif i would never offer to carry my girlfriend's person. if she asked i would, but i wouldn't constantly pursue holding it.

Her person? tongue.gif
 
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post Jun 12 2008, 07:08 PM
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When i was tired. YES ! Bags, purse ... everything. I mean that's why we have bf's - to carry things hahaha lol jk
 
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post Jun 12 2008, 07:16 PM
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Well, for one thing, I don't carry around purses and usually I don't like people carrying things for me...unless its something small like keys and such.
 
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QUOTE(resplendence @ Feb 25 2008, 09:27 PM) *

I only ask when I'm going to the bathroom and don't want to deal with it. Or if I need both hands.

It's just like asking them to hold anything else. As long as you don't keep them holding it, then it's fine.


I made my boyfriend hold and he held it like it had a disease or something laugh.gif but yeah I make him hold it if I have to go to the bathroom or hold a baby(and had something else is in the other hand and the purse fell off my shoulders, oh I hate that) or taking off my coat.
 
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post Jun 13 2008, 11:31 AM
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I wouldn't ask him per say, but he's done it. He proposed and I didn't refuse. throb.gif
 
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post Jun 18 2008, 06:17 PM
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heck no! that looks awful.
when ive asked my bf to hold my bag (i dont carry purses) he wont do it around people ha
 
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My ex-b/f always offered but i never let him cuz i could carry it but if my arms were full i would give it to him.
 
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Neva eva i'd feel like id be de-masculinizing him
 
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post Jul 12 2008, 11:20 PM
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If it's so heavy that you have to have him carry it, maybe you should empty some of your crap out of it. Or go to the gym and get a little strength.

If you have to do something real quick, then I can see him holding it. Sometimes I'll just hand mine to whomever I know that's there. Or set it on the ground.

Whenever I see guys carrying their girlfriend's purses and bags at the mall it just screams pussywhipped. whistling.gif
 
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post Jul 13 2008, 02:07 AM
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My boyfriend will carry mine if we're shopping & I have other things to carry happy.gif I don't mind, I don't even ask him to. He just does(:
 
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post Jul 13 2008, 02:18 AM
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Only if I needed him to. Like if my hands are full or something...
 
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post Jul 17 2008, 07:57 AM
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datt shiett maddd lammee...

gurlzz allwaii gittaa carrii tha shiett... boii carrii shoppinn bagg maibii..

BUTTT pursee... H3LL NAHH... stubborn.gif stubborn.gif
 
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post Jul 17 2008, 07:59 AM
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i always ask him to carry my purse for me he usually just swings it around and throws it in the air lol.
 
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A guy in my school always carried his girlfriend's purse for her and got made fun of

So... no I wouldn't ask any guy to
 
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post Jul 18 2008, 09:07 PM
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QUOTE(highwayto4355 @ Mar 1 2008, 02:01 PM) *
if i ever get a boyfriend; he won't have to worry about carrying my purse.cause i dont carry 'em.

money in the bra all the way money in the pocket. :D

princc nevaa c dizz... laugh.gif laugh.gif
 
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post Jul 19 2008, 05:05 AM
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no bietchh.. u gaay.. stubborn.gif

anii guyy carrii shiett ezz gaay.. laugh.gif
 
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post Jul 19 2008, 04:25 PM
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QUOTE(PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL @ Jul 19 2008, 06:05 AM) *
no bietchh.. u gaay.. stubborn.gif

anii guyy carrii shiett ezz gaay.. laugh.gif

What about a gun?
 
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post Sep 19 2008, 06:08 AM
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I'd ask him if I needed to do something where holding my purse would be a hassle. Then, I'd ask for it back when I'm done (:
 
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post Sep 19 2008, 06:11 AM
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My boyfriend only carries mines when I need a free hand.
I'll ask him, "Baby will you hold my purse for a second so I can .....?" and he's like "yeah, of course, baby" and after i'm done i'll take it back. There's nothing wrong with it, it's quite nice of guys to help out. :)
 
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post Sep 20 2008, 06:04 PM
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nah. i wouldnt do that to him. If i did i would probably just ask him to hold it for a few seconds if i needed to use both hands for something.
 
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It's only when I have too much stuff in my hands, I tell him to hold it really quick so I could make things easier for me to carry. I'm talking about any guy standing next to me though. XD
 
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