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barbieeedollxo
post Jan 28 2008, 11:42 AM
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im dating this rly nice and great guy but i've been doing it behinds my parents back. im 18 but my since i still live in my parents house they watch me like a hawk...lol.. but anyways he is a great guy and everything and i think they might would like him. but he's in a wheelchair bc his legs are paralized(sp) but it don't really bother me bc he's sweet to me and he treats me good. and he makes me happy. but i don't know what my parents will think of him being a a wheelchair bc they're weird about somethings like that. but should i keep dating him and not tel my parents or tell them? and if i tell them and they say i can't see him see him anyways?
 
 
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DeadlyKitten
post Jan 28 2008, 02:17 PM
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I dated my bf for about 7, 8 months before I told my mom and I was 18 also. She found out cause my x-bestfriend told her after I told her not to. But once my mom found out, she didnt freak, she just wanted to meet him. Its been almost 2 years and I have still yet to have him in my house when my mom's home. lol
 
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post Jan 28 2008, 07:23 PM
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I would just tell them. I mean even if they are against the whole thing, its not like THEY`RE dating him right? I would tell them, and if they don`t approve, atleast you do. Cuz if he makes you happy then it shouldnt really matter. _smile.gif
 
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post Jan 28 2008, 08:12 PM
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You should definitely tell your parents. Maybe make it a hypothetical question: "How would you react if I told you I had a boyfriend?". See how it goes from there. Don't hide it any longer; your parents might distrust you and think there's something shady going on if you do so.
 
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post Jan 28 2008, 10:36 PM
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tell them. your 18, my parents want me to get myself a gf and im only 16

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post Jan 28 2008, 10:38 PM
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Aren't you the same girl with parents who want to presumably kill you? Kind of an odd change in concerns.
 
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post Jan 29 2008, 06:39 AM
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well thanks for the help guys but it doesn't matter anymore he broke up with me.. with a lame excuse as i just don't want a gf but yea w/e. i deserve better.
 
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post Jan 29 2008, 09:44 AM
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QUOTE(barbieeedollxo @ Jan 29 2008, 07:39 PM) *
well thanks for the help guys but it doesn't matter anymore he broke up with me.. with a lame excuse as i just don't want a gf but yea w/e. i deserve better.

he doesnt want a gf??? mellow.gif
he doesnt swing the other way does he?? blink.gif
 
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post Jan 29 2008, 11:38 AM
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QUOTE(JCLore @ Jan 29 2008, 09:44 AM) *
he doesnt want a gf??? mellow.gif
he doesnt swing the other way does he?? blink.gif

i don't really know what his deal is. i was at his house and everything was fine. i get home and he sends me a msg saying he doesn't want to be with me and gave me no explanation. so i call him and he says the age difference he's 20 im 18 not that big of a deal. and then he says he don't want a gf.. and then his last excuse was that i was too much of a responsibility its like like im a baby and need his attention all the time... but w/e.. i just want the truth but i guess he doesn't think i deserve the truth i don't know. but my friend msged him to just try and talk to him and he denied ever dating me. and im just like w/e i deserve better than that. i was like the one girl who didn't care about him being a wheelchair and he let me go. so his loss not mine.
 
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post Jan 29 2008, 06:19 PM
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QUOTE(barbieeedollxo @ Jan 30 2008, 12:38 AM) *
i don't really know what his deal is. i was at his house and everything was fine. i get home and he sends me a msg saying he doesn't want to be with me and gave me no explanation. so i call him and he says the age difference he's 20 im 18 not that big of a deal. and then he says he don't want a gf.. and then his last excuse was that i was too much of a responsibility its like like im a baby and need his attention all the time... but w/e.. i just want the truth but i guess he doesn't think i deserve the truth i don't know. but my friend msged him to just try and talk to him and he denied ever dating me. and im just like w/e i deserve better than that. i was like the one girl who didn't care about him being a wheelchair and he let me go. so his loss not mine.

thats the way to think thumbsup.gif , dont let it keep you down
Good on ya!! laugh.gif
 
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post Jan 29 2008, 10:22 PM
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QUOTE(barbieeedollxo @ Jan 29 2008, 11:38 AM) *
i don't really know what his deal is. i was at his house and everything was fine. i get home and he sends me a msg saying he doesn't want to be with me and gave me no explanation. so i call him and he says the age difference he's 20 im 18 not that big of a deal. and then he says he don't want a gf.. and then his last excuse was that i was too much of a responsibility its like like im a baby and need his attention all the time... but w/e.. i just want the truth but i guess he doesn't think i deserve the truth i don't know. but my friend msged him to just try and talk to him and he denied ever dating me. and im just like w/e i deserve better than that. i was like the one girl who didn't care about him being a wheelchair and he let me go. so his loss not mine.


Maybe he has a grammar and spelling fetish.
 
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post Jan 30 2008, 03:14 PM
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QUOTE(JCLore @ Jan 29 2008, 06:19 PM) *
thats the way to think thumbsup.gif , dont let it keep you down
Good on ya!! laugh.gif

yup. lol. im not going to let it get me down. i don't need to waste my time on a guy like that. =]
 

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