F*%$ing VS Love Making..., What's sex mean to you? |
 Jan 27 2008, 02:37 AM
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I've been with guys that only wanted sex just because its sex. I've also been with guys that thought of sex as something only 2 people that trully care for each other express,
"love making" if you will. So what does sex mean to you? Just something you do...or does it really mean something to you?  |
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Jan 27 2008, 02:05 PM
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Um. I don't have sex with people unless I really think I love them. In that way it's special to me.
But, with my fiance we f**k more than we make love because that's how I like it 
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Jan 27 2008, 02:48 PM
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QUOTE(MissFits @ Jan 27 2008, 11:05 AM)  Um. I don't have sex with people unless I really think I love them. In that way it's special to me. But, with my fiance we f**k more than we make love because that's how I like it haha, Krystal. Hm. Sex can mean different things. I think it should be special, but, sometimes it doesn`t end up being that way. 
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Jan 27 2008, 03:07 PM
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lol i'm with you there. it should be something special between two people. i wouldn't feel comfortable dropping my pants for someone i barely knew or had no connection with. i lost it to my boyfriend because i loved him and i was ready.
but, that being said, it was a lot more fun when we were f**king and not 'love-making' :P. but i guess that goes to show just how comfortable we were with it |
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Jan 27 2008, 04:01 PM
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 cake or DEATH Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 631 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,586 |
my opinion:
f**cking is more spontaneous and 'hot,' something people do when they're sexually excited and want their fill. love making is more passionate and has a romantic atmosphere to it... "making love" is a way for partners to express their physical AND emotional attraction to each other. |
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Jan 27 2008, 07:25 PM
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Well put, Miyashu!
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Jan 27 2008, 07:30 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
Well, theres always a fine line between your hormones and your feelings when it comes to intercourse...most of the time.
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Jan 27 2008, 07:42 PM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
Love-making is what I do when I'm too tired to f**k like a rabbit.
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Jan 27 2008, 07:44 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
I f**k hoes, I make love to my bitch.
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Jan 27 2008, 09:09 PM
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i've always been brought up to think you only have sex with your Spouse, so basically i dont beleive in Premarrital sex
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Jan 28 2008, 05:40 AM
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DeadlyKitten Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 612,383 |
QUOTE(JCLore @ Jan 27 2008, 09:09 PM) i've always been brought up to think you only have sex with your Spouse, so basically i dont beleive in Premarrital sex Thank GOD i'm not the only one that still believes that sex should be saved for marriage. lol |
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Jan 28 2008, 08:30 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
my mother told me not to have sex before i get married, then she said if i did it was alright.
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Jan 28 2008, 10:24 AM
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 I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-) Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399 |
im a virgin, but i would never have sex with someone who i didnt love
 with all my heart. 
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Jan 28 2008, 10:24 AM
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To me they're the same thing.
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Jan 28 2008, 10:29 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
I love both =)
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Jan 28 2008, 10:19 PM
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QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Jan 28 2008, 06:40 PM) Thank GOD i'm not the only one that still believes that sex should be saved for marriage. lol you'd be surprised how many still do...not so much on CB  , but more or less in everyday life.
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Jan 28 2008, 10:23 PM
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F_cking is less delicate; it's based more on lust than love. Like if you see a hot person and think, "I wanna f_ck him/her."
Making love is based on love; it's more special. Reserved for significant others. |
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Jan 28 2008, 11:02 PM
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QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Jan 28 2008, 04:40 AM) Thank GOD i'm not the only one that still believes that sex should be saved for marriage. lol I believe that sex should be saved for marriage:) There are too many instances that people are just SOO in love so they have sex and then a couple of months later they're broken up and regret what they did. I'm saving it until marriage. |
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Jan 29 2008, 12:29 AM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(Becks539 @ Jan 28 2008, 11:02 PM) I believe that sex should be saved for marriage:) There are too many instances that people are just SOO in love so they have sex and then a couple of months later they're broken up and regret what they did. I'm saving it until marriage. Hmm. I was with my ex for about two years, and we did have sex, and yes we did break up but I don't regret it at all  But it's not like it's a bad thing to save it for marriage. Just don't look down on people because of that =) |
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Jan 29 2008, 08:11 AM
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QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Jan 28 2008, 05:40 AM) Thank GOD i'm not the only one that still believes that sex should be saved for marriage. lol You're certainly not alone. 
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Jan 29 2008, 07:51 PM
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my third leg agrees with both
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Jan 29 2008, 10:28 PM
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QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Jan 27 2008, 04:42 PM) Love-making is what I do when I'm too tired to f**k like a rabbit. |
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Jan 29 2008, 10:36 PM
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QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Jan 27 2008, 06:44 PM) I f**k hoes, I make love to my bitch.
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Jan 29 2008, 10:38 PM
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i did your boyfriend Group: Official Designer Posts: 3,335 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,071 |
QUOTE(sweetasphyxia @ Jan 29 2008, 03:22 PM) bran-flakes is MY bitch. |
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Jan 29 2008, 11:02 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Jan 27 2008, 02:56 AM) we can skip the games and you can sit down on Big Daddy's "service member." |
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Jan 29 2008, 11:11 PM
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QUOTE(AngelinaTaylor @ Jan 28 2008, 11:29 PM) Hmm. I was with my ex for about two years, and we did have sex, and yes we did break up but I don't regret it at all But it's not like it's a bad thing to save it for marriage. Just don't look down on people because of that =) Oh no no no. I do not look down on others for their choices. I was just stating what I believe and what I am choosing to do and why. It's good that you don't regret your previous actions:) |
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Jan 29 2008, 11:17 PM
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DeadlyKitten Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 612,383 |
QUOTE(AngelinaTaylor @ Jan 29 2008, 12:29 AM) Hmm. I was with my ex for about two years, and we did have sex, and yes we did break up but I don't regret it at all But it's not like it's a bad thing to save it for marriage. Just don't look down on people because of that =) I'm not against people who chose to have sex before marriage. If you know you love the person your haven sex with, or making love to, then thats ok. I made a few mistakes in my life. I just believe that not everyones ready to have sex when they think they are. I don't think women are really ready to have sex till about 24 and men...in some cases 30. Before that, not many people take it seriously and only have sex to please there boxes and third legs. I know me and my bf arent ready to have sex simply because he can find in it his heart to lie to me...so deep down...he may love me, but if he was in love with me, he'd never dream of breaking my heart. And I know I'm not ready because I can't trust him. But back to the post... F%$@ing = is fun (no feelings nessasary) Sex = Has feelings (few to many) Love making = being in love (after all, when your trying to make a baby, you refure to it as making love) -well most people do anyways |
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Jan 30 2008, 09:49 AM
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I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-) Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399 |
QUOTE(ComradeAlex @ Jan 29 2008, 07:51 PM) my third leg agrees with both hehe...........i got it....third leg 
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