I'm really into Assholes, yeah |
 Jan 10 2008, 08:25 PM
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So apparently, I'm really into assholes. It isn't even the bad boy, good guy thing, either.
Example 1: I have this friend who's one of those guys that you'd love as a friend but would never date, mainly because you know that he enjoys sleeping around and if you ever did anything with him, it'd either be a hook up or your heart would be broken in a few weeks or months. I knew this. We've had conversations about how he's planning to screw 365 different girls before he graduates from college (gross, I know) and how he loves watching pterodactyl porn. He's even had a one night stand with a good friend of mine! We're not exactly close friends, but we've got our own way of talking to each other and he has no problem walking into my room at 3am looking for food. I think it all started when my roommate walked into the room really late at night and found us fighting over something stupid and mentioned that we should skip the whole dating process and just get married and at the time, I just threw a pillow at her. But, ever since then, I think I've started seeing him differently and I really, really hate it. I've considered hooking up with him to see if it was just a little infatuation that needed to be sated, but that thought alone kind of irks me. Example 2: And then there's this other guy that I'm uber-attracted to for the sole reason of... I have no clue why. He's my friend's roommate and my first impression of him is him walking into his room (I was talking to my friend, the roommie) in a towel, looking around and noticing me, smirking, then whipping the towel off as he announced "I'm naked!" It was kind of awesome. About him: every single weekend he downs 15-20 beers (his tolerance is incredibly high after years and years of drinking), even during the week, he's constantly getting drunk, and he's got an awful history with girls. He treats girls like shit: he'll have sex with you and will KEEP having sex with you until you become attached, then he'll proceed to go on to the next girl behind your back and treat you like the dirt under his sneakers. And yet, here's me, knowing he's an ass but still knowing that after a few drinks or so, I would totally jump him (I apparently almost have, too). Example 3: High school shit that I will not bother dredging up again. I don't know what's with me. I mean, these guys are attractive, but they're not better looking than a lot of nice guys I know. There's nothing about them that earns them ANYTHING in my book, and here I am, still finding myself mildly crushing on them. Am I the only one? |
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Jan 10 2008, 08:52 PM
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nope.
i think every girl has that "a-hole" phase. i guess it just takes a really really awesome guy to turn that around. |
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Jan 10 2008, 09:04 PM
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;) Group: Duplicate Posts: 2,374 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,760 |
meh. It seems like the ratio of awesome guys to girls is 1/120982349123.
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Jan 10 2008, 10:47 PM
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They just want to sleep with you. I hope you've clued in on that already.
I generally attract the self-righteous, socialite, bitch, that was born with a silver spoon in her mouth, if it makes you feel any better. But I prefer a woman that has a bad side to her. |
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Jan 10 2008, 10:56 PM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
Being a a-hole creates attraction.Atrraction leads to other stuff
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Jan 10 2008, 11:43 PM
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lol sounds like my phase right now.
even though you know there ass holes, you still like them until they end up doing the same shit they do to the other girls =/ |
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Jan 10 2008, 11:54 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
I'm into vagina.
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Jan 11 2008, 12:03 AM
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 This bag is not a toy. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,090 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 583,108 |
There really is something about that asshole that's being nice to YOU, showing YOU respect, telling YOU you're beautiful, that just makes you feel special. But it's only a matter of time before he starts being an asshole to you, too. That's when you're pretty much just catering to his every need, struggling to live between compliments, and getting really tired. And then you look back and wonder why you wasted your time.
Nah, I don't think you're the only one. |
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Jan 11 2008, 12:27 AM
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After Bangladesh, I was really distant and short with virtually everyone. I kept to myself a lot, and my people skills were shot (even with women). For some reason, women found this to be attractive. Why?
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Jan 11 2008, 12:36 AM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
i think a lot girls love guys that are screwed up, have problems and don't follow the rules. its just a matter of time till you get over those crushes. as long as you don't act on them, you will be okay.
but you aren't alone. |
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Jan 11 2008, 02:03 AM
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It seems that every girl is initially into the "a-hole" type guy and they leave all the nice ones hanging around however, after multiple relationships they soon realize that the right person was the nice guy all along.
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Jan 11 2008, 02:06 AM
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QUOTE(Edwinbarkhordarian @ Jan 10 2008, 11:03 PM)  It seems that every girl is initially into the "a-hole" type guy and they leave all the nice ones hanging around however, after multiple relationships they soon realize that the right person was the nice guy all along. negative. |
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Jan 11 2008, 02:10 AM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Jan 11 2008, 02:06 AM) negative. co-sign. |
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Jan 11 2008, 04:33 AM
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i currently like an a-hole =/
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Jan 11 2008, 05:48 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Never had that kind of attraction, though I tend to be attracted to weird people. Go figure.
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Jan 11 2008, 05:54 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Jan 11 2008, 02:10 AM) co-sign. co-co-sign |
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Jan 11 2008, 07:38 PM
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cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
QUOTE(Edwinbarkhordarian @ Jan 11 2008, 02:03 AM) It seems that every girl is initially into the "a-hole" type guy and they leave all the nice ones hanging around however, after multiple relationships they soon realize that the right person was the nice guy all along. I'd say most girls want a confident guy, and an easy way of finding confident guys are assholes. The good ones don't really speak out unless need be. They tend to keep to themselves. This is what I notice anyway. |
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Jan 11 2008, 08:00 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
Girls kill me with the, oh I want a bad guy thing, and then when they get one who treats them like shit, they complain that there are no nice guys. Make up your f**king minds, either you want one or you don't. Girls defintiely want a man who is confident, and who is not a pushover. Somebody who is going to make them feel like they have nothing to worry about when they are around them. I think purposely being an a-hole, is what f**ks alot of people up in the long run.
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Jan 11 2008, 09:11 PM
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 One Love. Group: Duplicate Posts: 1,079 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 410,480 |
i think a girl needs a guy who can stand up for her. like 3 guys harass her on the streets, u just cant stand still or just say stop, u gotta get ur actions together and bust a cap on them bitches. even if u go to jail, so what? u did it for ur girl. that's true love.
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Jan 12 2008, 12:22 AM
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QUOTE(Sulfur @ Jan 11 2008, 07:38 PM) I'd say most girls want a confident guy, and an easy way of finding confident guys are assholes. The good ones don't really speak out unless need be. They tend to keep to themselves. This is what I notice anyway. I actually disagree with that. I know plenty of extremely confident guys that are amazing people and I like them and want to date and marry and bear their babies, but... Assholes attract me like a light attracts flies. I think maybe it's the "I like to be dominated" appeal. Hopefully it'll fade. |
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Jan 12 2008, 05:42 AM
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QUOTE(heartquasm @ Jan 11 2008, 09:22 PM) I actually disagree with that. I know plenty of extremely confident guys that are amazing people and I like them and want to date and marry and bear their babies, but... Assholes attract me like a light attracts flies. I think maybe it's the "I like to be dominated" appeal. Hopefully it'll fade. i think you hit it on the mark. there are plenty of confident, sophisticated, "nice" men, who know when to disagree with you and voice their opinion, while still remaining courteous. i think to some women, this may seem boring, 'cause it's what's expected of a gentleman. an "a-hole" wouldn't give a f**k, and in his aggressive and outspoken manner, we find him interesting. it takes a while to get tired of that, and realize the best one for you is the one who respects you. QUOTE There really is something about that a-hole that's being nice to YOU, showing YOU respect, telling YOU you're beautiful, that just makes you feel special. i agree with that, too |
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Jan 12 2008, 09:59 AM
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Clean the house, wash my clothes, take my shit to the cleaners, have dinner ready every night, stay in shape, and don't ask why we have an attractive, 19 year old Brazilian maid.
You like that, don't you? Good. Get back in the kitchen. Happy now? |
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Dec 5 2008, 03:55 AM
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 QUOTE(heartquasm @ Dec 1 2008, 12:03 PM) heartquasm (11:55:51 AM): if my drill instructor was male heartquasm (11:55:54 AM): i'd fall in love with him heartquasm (11:55:58 AM): i love it when men tell me what to do heartquasm (11:55:59 AM):  ----- rachel (11:57:29 AM): "Bitch, make me a sandwich!" ----- rachel (12:00:21 PM): Woman, why the hell are you studying chemistry? Is that gonna make your pies taste better? Huh? |
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Dec 5 2008, 01:17 PM
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I've always been attracted to the assholes. I always see the good masked by all the badass. I think for me the attraction comes from wanting to be that one girl that changes everything for them. I find it a challenge.
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Dec 5 2008, 01:19 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
assholes are hot. ngl.
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Dec 5 2008, 01:24 PM
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QUOTE(TearsOfAPhoenix @ Dec 5 2008, 01:17 PM) I've always been attracted to the assholes. I always see the good masked by all the badass. I think for me the attraction comes from wanting to be that one girl that changes everything for them. I find it a challenge. you're one of those, huh. |
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Dec 5 2008, 01:26 PM
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QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Jan 10 2008, 08:54 PM) I'm into vagina. LOL  When did I post this? Who the hell bump this old ass topic. |
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Dec 5 2008, 01:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,454 Joined: Nov 2008 Member No: 696,018 |
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Dec 5 2008, 01:44 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(Tung @ Dec 5 2008, 01:26 PM) LOL When did I post this? Who the hell bump this old ass topic. lul. the op did. |
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Dec 5 2008, 02:28 PM
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^ I love that.
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Dec 5 2008, 03:41 PM
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good thing im an ***hole
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Dec 5 2008, 03:53 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
I love how you say you're into assholes, but then ask why all men are assholes haha
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Dec 5 2008, 04:07 PM
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QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Dec 5 2008, 12:53 PM) I love how you say you're into assholes, but then ask why all men are assholes haha damn right, bitches |
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Dec 5 2008, 04:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,454 Joined: Nov 2008 Member No: 696,018 |
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Dec 5 2008, 04:26 PM
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You need to get some black in you
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Dec 5 2008, 04:54 PM
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I read all that and all I remember is pterodactyl porn.
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Dec 5 2008, 04:56 PM
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:D
that's all i remember about him now, lol. |
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Dec 20 2008, 03:41 AM
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Like someone said before.. we always go in the ***hole likeing stage..
=ooo |
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Dec 20 2008, 03:44 AM
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dude lube up first
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Dec 20 2008, 01:16 PM
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 Spaced out on the floor o.o" Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 681,063 |
I saw the title, and I thought... You love anal sex? O_o
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Dec 21 2008, 07:54 AM
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Ladies, what would a guy have to do, or how would he have to act to make you think he's an ***hole?
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