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 Dec 29 2007, 09:59 PM
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 Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 605,266  |
So, this is primarily for the girls but..guys' perspectives would help too~
After fooling around with your bf, do you ever sometimes feel a little ashamed? (And I only mean making out and stuff- no sex)I mean, I'm 17 and I know its weird but, sometimes after things get kind of intense, I feel a tad bit..idk..slutty? =/ And then I get embarassed. And I shouldn't be. Ever felt that way? |
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Dec 30 2007, 01:15 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
Mmm. Yeah I think I know what you mean. Its probably because I'd prefer to have my boyfriend/girlfriend see me in a cute not "sexy" way. So when things get intense, it does make me feel bad because it makes me feel so lusty.
 I feel you.
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Dec 30 2007, 03:55 PM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
For me, hell no. But, then again, I grew up around people who were always comfortable "kissing and telling." Girls were always open about being "sexual" and making out, it doesn't become an embarrassing or "slutty" thing for me when I experience it. When I like someone and I want to pursue him, I'll show him by kissing/lusting after him. I don't really have shame in this, unless, like, I was drunk and started making out with everyone.
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Dec 30 2007, 04:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 |
When I was young I felt bad if I kissed a guy, but I don't feel that way anymore.
I do, however, feel like a whore if a guy hits on me. Even though I don't do anything wrong it makes me feel nasty. |
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Dec 30 2007, 04:22 PM
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 Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
If I didn't like getting intense, I'd stop.
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Dec 30 2007, 07:19 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Hmm not really.
 Maybe you feel like that because you don't really like him.
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Dec 30 2007, 11:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 282 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,342 |
Do you love him?
Simple as that!!! |
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Dec 30 2007, 11:10 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
With my ex, yes it did feel like that. But then I never loved him.
With my current boyfriend...no. It felt right. |
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Dec 31 2007, 12:47 AM
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 Miss DIY Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,251 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,294 |
No, not really. Sexuality isn't a bad thing. You feel ashamed b/c of your environment / upraising / society. :] It's natural to want to please yourself.
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Jan 1 2008, 07:18 PM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
QUOTE(Michelle @ Dec 31 2007, 12:47 AM)  No, not really. Sexuality isn't a bad thing. You feel ashamed b/c of your environment / upraising / society. :] It's natural to want to please yourself. this short but sweet response really helped me out as well. thanks michelle. |
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