should i be worried? |
 Dec 28 2007, 10:29 PM
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Dec 28 2007, 10:32 PM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
dating =/= relationship
solidify things NOW or get ready to let go. |
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Dec 28 2007, 10:33 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
Since you're "unofficially" dating the guy, maybe he thinks he isn't obligated to you. He's still sort of playing you though, IMO
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Dec 28 2007, 11:07 PM
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if its not official hes not doing anything wrong.
unless you are officially goin out than you should be worried. just confront him bout it if its bothering you. |
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Dec 28 2007, 11:12 PM
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 msladyliberty Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,766 |
I would. You must really like this guy if you're questioning about it.
Maybe you should ask him about their relationship. If he's open to talk to you about it, then I guess that should ease your mind a little. It's totally up to you. I'd be worried, only because I'm territorial like that...AND 'cause I've had situations like this where I was "totally blind" to it and never worried...then later that same "girl" effs it up. It depends... |
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Dec 28 2007, 11:42 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
As the others said, you guys aren't really dating so you can't be mad at him. But then again, you should be on your toes. I think you should talk to him about it if it really worries you. Communication is key!
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Dec 29 2007, 09:04 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Totally agree with what everybody's been saying.
If you two are just dating, you're not exclusive. Not exclusive means he can go date other girls. He's not doing anything wrong in this context. However, if you were his girlfriend (aka, officially together), then yes, what he's doing can be seen as cheating. Talk to him about it. |
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Dec 29 2007, 09:08 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 600,215 |
n***a YA PEOPLE B WORIEIN OVA SOM STUPID ASS SHIT
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Dec 29 2007, 09:47 PM
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sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
WHY DON'T YA SHUT UP YOU STUPID ASS SHIT NIKKAH.
seriously, what the f**k? your comment would make sense if you actually knew the topic starter, but to randomly pop in on someone's topic and say something so dumb? wow. 
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Dec 29 2007, 11:56 PM
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since you guys are unofficially dating
he can have anyone he wants! |
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Dec 30 2007, 12:18 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,558 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 589,690 |
yea just talk to him about it. set him straight and let him know who's boss lol kidding but yea just talkto him bout it
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Jan 1 2008, 10:18 AM
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QUOTE(Silly--x @ Dec 30 2007, 01:56 PM)  since you guys are unofficially dating he can have anyone he wants! That's spot-on. |
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Jan 1 2008, 12:14 PM
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 An original Harry Potter fan Group: Official Member Posts: 1,469 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,023 |
QUOTE(angelrevelation @ Dec 28 2007, 10:33 PM) Since you're "unofficially" dating the guy, maybe he thinks he isn't obligated to you. He's still sort of playing you though, IMO What in the world dose IMO mean. |
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Jan 1 2008, 12:43 PM
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QUOTE(Gryffindore-Girl @ Jan 2 2008, 02:14 AM) What in the world dose IMO mean. It's one of many, common internet acronyms. IMO is an acronym meaning "In My Opinion." |
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Jan 1 2008, 12:43 PM
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 for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
^"In my opinion."
//edit: woops i was late>.< |
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Jan 1 2008, 01:10 PM
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QUOTE(jaeman @ Jan 2 2008, 02:43 AM) It's one of many, common internet acronyms. IMO is an acronym meaning "In My Opinion." Wow, we posted at the exact same time. We probably clicked a millisecond apart. 
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Jan 1 2008, 01:40 PM
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I'm pretty much going to reiterate everything everyone else has been saying here.
Since you aren't officially together, he's not yours alone. If he talks to the girl a lot, he might like her, and right now he could be testing the water to see which one he'll choose in the long run. If you like this guy a lot, I'd make it official. Ask him to be your girlfriend, and if he says yes and continues talking to this girl, you've got a problem. This is when you should address it to him!! Good luck. =) |
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Jan 1 2008, 07:44 PM
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An original Harry Potter fan Group: Official Member Posts: 1,469 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,023 |
QUOTE(jaeman @ Jan 1 2008, 12:43 PM) It's one of many, common internet acronyms. IMO is an acronym meaning "In My Opinion." Oh thanks. QUOTE(omgomgKATHY @ Jan 1 2008, 12:43 PM) ^"In my opinion." //edit: woops i was late>.< LOL its ok thanks any ways. |
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