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[theguardsman]

Hey guys, i seriously need some help here. I have no idea what i should do.

My girlfriend's mad at me. Like, seriously mad. cuz then i went out (friend-to-friend-hangout) with my ex and some other friends the other day and i didnt tell her bout it. I didnt want to tell her because she told me once that she doesnt rly like it if i hang out with my ex. But the thing is that i didnt intended to find my ex, i went out to find this other friend of mine to buy xmas gifts for my parents. i totally didnt go out just to look for my ex...i know its still my fault, i totally shouldnt hv gone cuz my ex is there. but yeh...to be honest, ididnt even flirt or talk to my ex that much, i just walked around to look for xmas gifts.

and now, my girlfriend found out and she got real pissed. she said i wasnt honest with her. i know ididnt, i didthat because ididnt want misunderstand and stuff..

what should i do now? my girlfriend isnt answer the phone, isnt replying me on msn, removed me as a friend on facebook, isnt replying my text messages. she replied me once and said she hates me...

i dont know, but it might be all the schoolwork that is causing her all these stress..i dont know. but i hope it is and the relationship will be strong agian.

oh, and i wrote her an email, which i hope she read. but im not even sure if she did or not..so yeh.

what should i do now? please help!

[MissHygienic]

Drama, drama, drama.

It was your fault that you failed to tell her and reassure her that she's the only person for whom you have eyes, and she's acting completely out of the line by blocking you or doing petty things by not responding to you. Both of you need to accept the blame on this part, and just talk to each other. It's as easy as that. Maybe get a mutual friend to calm her down so that she can stop being a drama queen and talk to you.

[theguardsman]

great. now she answered my phone call. but i keep talkin..and she doesnt say anything..like literally..nothing at all. what should i say?

[alyssa6789]

Shes just a girl. girls like stupid fights. it wont last longer than a day. if it does just do sumthing to prove to her that you like her and that yer ex doesnt mean anything to you. if i had a bf n hung out w my ex i wouldnt of said anything either.

[theguardsman]

i want to prove it too, but she just wouldnt meet me. i made something forher..and i hope she likes it but..yeh
what else should i do?

[S-Majere]

TBH, sounds like this one's too much to handle. I'd drop her and run if she were my girlfriend. Girls are allowed their moments, but this is just ridiculous.

[DoubleJ]

TBH, sounds like this one's too much to handle. I'd drop her and run if she were my girlfriend. Girls are allowed their moments, but this is just ridiculous.

Yeah, this girl really needs to take a damn seat. Tell her to get the hell over it. Okay so what you bumped into your ex and the point would be? I hate the fact that girls are so insecure about that. If girls and guys are doing what they are supposed to be doing and keeping their spouse happy, then there wouldn't be any cause for insecurity or jealousy when the ex appears no?

[Becks539]

Reassure her that you don't like your ex. That is what she is looking for. Girls constantly need to be reassure that they are your one and only.

Send her flowers. Right something sweet on the card. Flowers never fail. That way you can have them sent to her and you don't need to convince her to come meet you.

Best of luck.

[alyssa6789]

well since she wont meet you, go to her house when you know shes home.
give her what ever you made her. write her a letter or poem about what she means to you. give her a flower you pick from a house on the way. just dont buy her anything cause if it doesnt work you just wasted money on her and she might think its a bribe.


if that doesnt work give her time to cool down she might come back. if she doesnt then i guess the only thing left is to move on.

good luck!