change?, im in love with this chick..but she wants me to change. |
 Dec 20 2007, 04:54 PM
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me & this chick went out for about a week, we broke up because she had family problems..in school we still acted like a couple [hold hands, kiss, etc.] but then we broke up for good, because of some stupid crap that i did. Now we've both talked about it & she wants me to change..
the reason is that im bisexual..& she wants me to change..this is what she told me. "Okay change for me be more of a man. More manly. When I see that you have changed I'll give you that chance." what do i do? do i change for someone i love..or what? |
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Dec 20 2007, 08:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 123 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 514,946 |
who is it tell me!!
why havnt i heard of this ....whore..... lol playing mannn i agree change your ways =D dont wanna turn up lyk josh now do yooh? |
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Dec 20 2007, 09:16 PM
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Just because you're bi doesn't mean that you're going to like a guy while you're in a relationship with her. You need to tell her that if you haven't already. Also, it's not that easy to "switch" from one sexual preference to another. It's unfair of her to want you to change that way.
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Dec 20 2007, 09:24 PM
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 I'm Via, but you can call me tonight Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 533,759 |
It sounds like she wants you to be more masculine?
If so, maybe try? but if a girl needs you to change to be with her, she doesn't love you for you. so why waste your time? |
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Dec 20 2007, 11:27 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
Well. Perhaps Dani is right. Maybe she wants you to be a little more manly? But the way she said it made it seem like you telling her to stop being straight.
 I think you should ask her more about it, get a better explanation.
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Dec 21 2007, 12:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 109 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,987 |
manly?
umm well see when we were going out, i would grab her by the waist.. its not like i walk around with my hands on my side. people dont even believe that im bi sometimes. but i eman what the hell does she expect from me? |
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Dec 21 2007, 10:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 247 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,723 |
no offense but do you act like a normal guy?
or do you act girly and dress girly? Cause some of the gay guys at my school act and dress girly. if you don't.. then i'm not sure what to say. Do you really love her? you would never know until you let go of course. it would suck to change for someone you think you love and she dumps within a week or two. It also doesn't seem like she loves you for who you are. I'm not sure if i would change for someone i love or (think i love). it's very tempting, but i guess it really depends what she wants me to change. Btw, if she just wants you to change your orientation, i don't think you would be able to, can you? |
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